Kuronga Mukana Wenyu Wekuvhima

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Kuronga Mukana Wenyu Wekuvhima
Gadzirira mberi nokuda kwekugadzirira kwako oncology. istockphoto.com

Inogona kuve yakajeka, asi zvinoshamisika kuti kutarisa kwenguva yakawanda sei kushanya kunopfupiswa nokuti we oncologist haana ruzivo rwakakwana kuti ataure zvakanaka zvaunogona kuita. Kuti urege kudzivisa kunetseka kwemwoyo, edza kuuya nemashoko ose ako oncologist achadikanwa kuti aongorore mamiriro ako ezvinhu nekuita mazano.

Chii chaunoda kuunza?

Cherechedzai nyaya iyi pamusoro pezvinofanira kuuya nokuda kwekuchengetwa kwehutano kwekenza .

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Uya Nomumwe Munhu Anewe
Ita kuti mumwe munhu aende newe kumakiriniki ako anoshanyira. istockphoto.com

Pane zvikonzero zvizhinji nei chiri chikonzero chakanaka chekuunza shamwari kana nhengo yemhuri newe kumisangano yako yeiyo oncology.

Chimwe chikonzero ndechokusimbiswa kwepfungwa shamwari yako inokwanisa kupa Chimwe chekutya kukuru kwevatachiona vanotarisana nerwendo rwavo voga. Nyaya dzakaoma dzinogona kunge dziri nyore nyore kumedza apo iwe unogona kugovana nayo nemunhu waunoda. Uye, kune rumwe rutivi, nhau dzakanaka ndezvokuti zviri nani apo iwe unogona kugoverana nomumwe.

Chimwe chikonzero chekuunza shamwari ndeyekuunza imwe inzwi . Shamwari yako inogona kufunga nezvemibvunzo yekubvunza kuti iwe hauna kufunga nezvazvo (asi zvichida yaizotevera) uye inogona kubatsira nekubvunza mibvunzo yakaoma iwe waungazeza kubvunza.

Asi chimwe chikonzero chekuti mumwe munhu aende newe ndeyekuunza imwe nheve dze nzeve . Kushanyira neo oncologist yako kazhinji kunomanikidzika mupfungwa, uye zviri nyore kukanganwa zvigaro zvehuwandu hwemashoko. Kuunza shamwari kuti inzwe - uye nenzira yakakodzera, nyora manotsi pamwe chete - ndiyo imwe nzira yekuita kuti usangobvunza chete mibvunzo yaunoda kukumbira asi yeuka mhinduro.

Shamwari inogonawo kuita semurevereri wako . Isu tose tinoda kuti ve oncologists vatiitire isu, uye vanhu vazhinji vanozeza kukumbira kutsanangurwa kudzokorora nyaya dzatisingazivi kuti tisava "dambudziko revarwere." Kuva neshamwari nekubvumira kuti iwe uve "murwere" akanaka, uchiri kutarisa nyaya dzaungasarudze iwe pachako.

Kana iwe unonzwa uchizeza pamusoro pokuvhiringidza shamwari yako yekuita nekumukumbira kuti auye newe kuti ashanyire, funga zvakare. Shamwari dzinoda kubatsira uye kuva neshamwari nekenza dzinogona kuvasiya vachinzwa vasingabatsiri. Ndinotarisa kumashure ndichifarira zve chemotherapy mazuva angu.Ndakaunza shamwari yakasiyana-siyana pane imwe nguva yepurogiramu (yaida kuti vamwe vafambe) uye vakaiona semukana wokukura ushamwari hwedu. Shamwari shomanana dzandiudza kuti dzinorasikirwa nemusi iwoyo, uye mukana wekushandisa nguva pamwe chete pasina zvinokanganisa (kunze kwechem chemotherapy, iyo) uye ukama hwakagadziriswa sezvipingamupinyi zvekutaurirana zvakadzama zvakabviswa nehukuru hwekuongororwa kwekenza.

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Itai Mazita Emibvunzo
Gadzirira rondedzero yemibvunzo kune chiremba wako. istockphoto.com

Gadzirira rondedzero yemibvunzo yaunoda kubvunza pawakasarudzwa. Iwe unogona kufunga kuti uchayeuka mibvunzo yako, asi kana iwe wakafanana nevanhu vazhinji, kunyange mibvunzo yakanyanya kunyanya inogona kukanganwika apo iwe uchitaura ne oncologist yako.

Zvinogona kubatsira kuti uchengetedze bhuku rekushandisa, uye kana mibvunzo ikamuka pakati pekushanyira, nyora pasi kuti iwe unotevera kushanyira.

Ndanzwa vamwe vanhu vachiti vanofunga kuti chiremba wavo "achabudiswa" nekuuya nemazita emibvunzo, asi hazvisizvo. Oncologists kugamuchira mibvunzo. Vanokoshesa nguva iyo vanhu vanoisa pakugadzirira mibvunzo, uye iyo inzirawo yekuita chokwadi kuti vari kutarisa zvinetso zvenyu zvikuru.

Kana iwe uchinetseka kufunga nezvemibvunzo, heano mimwe mibvunzo yekubvunza chiremba wako nezvekenza yemapapu .

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Ivai Nemwoyo Murefu Uye Mutsa
Kuva nemwoyo muhofisi ye oncologist. istockphoto.com

Imwe tsanangudzo yezvinyonganyonga ndeyekusazvifanirwa - uye ndeipi iyo maitiro anonyanya kuoneka kunze kwekliniki ye oncology? Zvechokwadi, iwe unganzwa uchinetseka - kutyisa zvishoma kana iwe uchipinda mukugadzwa kwekenza ndeyechokwadi, asi ramba uri mupfungwa kuti hausi wega. Vamwe vanhu vari muimba yekumirira - vamwe, avo vasingazovi nemoyo murefu semwi-vanotyawo. Uye kunyange zvazvo vagamuchiri uye vanamukoti kazhinji vanoedza kuva kunyarara mumhepo, ivo vanhu chete. Kana iwe uchinzwa usine shungu, chengetedza ichi chirevo mupfungwa:

"Iva nomutsa, nokuti munhu wese waunosangana naye ari kurwisana nehondo iwe usingazivi chinhu." - Wendy Mass, The Candymakers

Nezvokutarisira kwako, kuisa murwere wako ane mwoyo murefu uye mutsa kunogona kufamba nenzira yakareba zvakare. Mhembera yekare, "Iwe unobata dzimwe nhunzi kune uchi pane vhiniga," ndeyechokwadi pamakiriniki eoncology chero kupi zvako. Iwe unogona kufunga nezvazvo - kunzwa kunzwa kwako kwakadzikama - chiremba wako angada kufarira nguva yakawanda newe.

Kuva nemwoyo murefu uye mutsa hakurevi kuva musuo. Izvo hazvirevi kusava nekutenda kana kusakwanisa kuva mutevereri wako. Tarisa mazano aya pamusoro pekuve iwe mumutevedzeri wako semukenza wekenza .

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Siya Kushanyirwa Kwako Nehurongwa
Siya kusarudzwa kwako neurongwa. istockphoto.com

Usati waenda kuhofisi yechiremba, chengeta kuti uone kuti une chirongwa. Funga nezvemibvunzo iyi:

Sources:

American Society of Clinical Oncology. Cancer.Net. Mibvunzo Yekubvunza Hako Utano Hweboka. Updated 03/2016. http://www.cancer.net/navigating-cancer-care/diagnosing-cancer/questions-ask-your-health-care-team