Nzira Yokuva Mukadzi Akawanda sei
Taoism ndiyo tsika yemweya inobatanidza chido chedu chepabonde uye inoshandisa mukati memiviri yedu simba rekuporesa nekukura mumweya. Chido icho chikamu chakapfuma uye chakasimba chezviitiko zvedu zvevanhu. VaTaoist vanofunga nezvechido, chinonzi simba repabonde kana jing chi, sechikamu chehupenyu hwedu simba, kana chi. Kuve neruchiva ndekuzadza chi. Izwi rechiChirungu rokuti "chido" kana "chido" rinoreva manzwiro ekuchiva uye kushingaira kunosanganisira zvepabonde, asi zvinoratidzawo maonero edu ane simba pamusoro pehupenyu.
Apo patinoshushikana nechinhu chero chipi zvacho - mhuri yedu, basa redu, ukama hwedu hwemweya, chinhu chakakosha chekusangana kwevanhu - tiri kuisa mari yedu muchiitiko ichi. Kuda kwedu ndiko kunotitadzisa kuita chiito uye pakupedzisira ndiko kunotipa mufaro. Isu tine shungu pamusoro pezvinhu zvinokosha kwatiri.
Isu tinowanzoreva nezve "kutora" sezvinonzi takanga tichitambudzwa nemamwe maitiro, madhimoni (ona nyanga) simba. Asi simba rine simba rekumutsa ndiro rinokosha kwatiri. Hazvisi, sevadzidzisi vezvitendero vanochengetedza vakadzidzisa, simba rakaipa iro rinoparadzanisa nesu naMwari, asi ndicho chikonzero chechinhu chingatigombedzera kuti tirarame hupenyu hwakasimba uye hune zvibereko. Icho chinhu chekuti simba repabonde rine simba rakakonzera zvitendero zvikuru zvekutonga nekudzivirira tsika dzepabonde, kunyanya mufambiro wevakadzi. Kudzokorora kushamwaridzana kwedu nechido chedu chikamu chekuwanazve simba redu.
Kana wakangomutsa kushuva kwako, kana simba repabonde, Kurapa Rudo maitiro, sezvakadzidziswa nemudzidzisi anozivikanwa weTaoist, Mantak Chia, anogona kukudzidzisa iwe kutungamirira uye kuchenesa simba rako repabonde kuitira kuti iwe unogona kubatsirwa nezvipo zvaro.
Kunyangwe nyika yedu yemazuva ano inotambura nekusaziva pamusoro pepabonde kune rumwe rutivi uye kushandiswa kusina kunaka kwepabonde pane imwe, Healing Love inopa huwandu-ane makore ane makore ehuchenjeri hwekuti tingararama sei mumuviri wedu sepabonde uye kushandisa chido chedu kune kuva vanhu vatinoda kuva.
Taoist Zvinyorwa zvepabonde
Taoism ndiyo nheyo yeChina chizivi nemishonga.
Iyo yakazara yakakwana mumuviri uye mune zvekunamata iyo inobatsira vanhu kuti vasvike pakukwanisa kwavo kukuru. Zvichida zvinonyatsozivikanwa munyika ino sechikonzero cheMutauro weChina Chinese Medicine , unosanganisira kugadziriswa , mishonga yemishonga, utano, kupisa, kufungisisa kwakasimba kunonzi chi Kung (chirevo che "chee kong"), uye chido chehondo chinonzi Tai Chi Chuan ( "tie chee chwan"). Sangano re Universal Tao rakagadzirwa naMantak Chia kudzidzisa Taoist kufungisisa uye maitiro ekugadzirisa kuenzanisa muviri uye kuwedzera nekuchenesa simba rako, kana chi ("chee"). Kuita zvepabonde, kana Kuporesa Rudo, chikamu chinokosha chegadziriro ino.
"Chi," shoko rechiChinese rehupenyu simba, ndiro simba mukati memiviri yedu uye mukati mezvose zvinokonzera hupenyu. Izwi iro pacharo rine shanduro dzakawanda, dzakadai sesimba, mhepo, kufema, mhepo, kana kuti inokosha inokosha. Iko kune tsika dzepasi pose dzinonzwisisa pfungwa ye chi mune imwe nzira kana imwe; mienzaniso inosanganisira Ki (Japanese), Prana (Sanskrit), Mvere (Tibetan), Neyatoneyah (Lakota Sioux), Num (Kalahari Kung), uye Ruach (ChiHebheru).
" Utsika hwekuMadokero" uye mishonga yeallopathic , inowanzonzi yekuMadokero kana inyanzvi yemishonga, ndeimwe yemadzitauro mashomanana asina chimiro chakafanana, kunyange zvazvo ichicherechedza basa remasimba pamatomu.
Mishonga yekuMadokero inoshanda zvakanyanya pakurapa zvirwere zvakaoma uye kukuvadzwa kunorwadza. Zvisinei, ndinotenda kuti,, chikamu, kusavapo kweiyi pfungwa ye "simba rehupenyu" inogumira kubudirira kwayo mukurapa zvirwere zvisingaperi . Mishonga yekuMadokero iri kungotanga kuziva izvo Taoists vakazviziva kwemakore anodarika 2 000, iyo inotungamirira kubuda kwe simba rehupenyu hwedu, chi, inogona kuvandudza hutano hwedu uye hutano.
Kushanda uye Kuendesa Mishonga Yako
Mune Multi-Orgasmic Woman unogona kudzidza kushandisa maitiro ako uye kufema kwako kuti uite uye ushandise simba rako; chiitiko ichi chinonzi Chi Kung.
Inosanganisira zvose zvidzidzo zvekutora uye mafambiro ari nyore kuti zvifambise kubuda kwechi. Iri kushandiswa muChinese uye ikozvino rakapararira zvikuru muUnited States, chi Kung isiri yekare uye inobudirira tsika yehutano huzhinji. Ndinowanzotaurira tsika yekuita zvepabonde yeHealing Love se "Chi Kung yekurara."
Kana uchinge waziva chi yako, uchaona kuti zviri nyore kuona uye kunzwa. Edza kuita basa iri nyore. Kurumidza kuputira zvanza zvako pamwe chete kusvikira waunza kupisa. Iko zvino zvishoma nezvishoma iwe ugoparadzanisa zvanza zvako kusvikira zvava nechokuita. Iwe unofanirwa kunzwa se "mhiri" yemhepo pakati pavo iyo inogona kunzwa sekumanikidzwa, kupisa, kana kurira. Ikunzwa uku ndiko chi kupfuura pakati pamaoko ako.
Mumitambo yose kufungisisa tsika dzinodzikama uye funga pfungwa. The Healing Tao meditative practices do this by focusing on the movement of chi. Muitiro wekutanga unobva pakupararira chi kuburikidza nedunhu romuviri rinonzi Microcosmic Orbit, iro rakafanana nesimba guru rinowanikwa mumuviri. Iyo Microcosmic Orbit inotangira kubva mumuswe wako kusvika mumutsipa wako kuAuropi (Back Channel) uye zvino inodzokera pasi pamberi pomuviri wako mukati me midline (Front Front). Nokushandisa chinangwa chepfungwa dzako, iwe unogona kutungamirira chi up musana apo iwe unofema mukati uye uite kuti "uwire" pasi pasi Front Front kusvika kumimba yako apo iwe unofema.
Kufambisa Dambudziko Rako Rokuita Zvepabonde
Sezvaunenge uine nyanzvi pakunzwa nekufambisa chi yako, iwe uchakwanisawo kutamisa simba rako repabonde, kana jing chi, nenzira imwe chete. Kukwanisa kuwedzera uye kukurudzira simba rako repabonde ndiro rinokubvumira kuti uwedzere kufarira kwako uye uwedzere mararamiro ako, pasinei nokuti iwe unhu hupi hwehutano hwepabonde. Inokubvumirawo kuti uchinje simba rako repabonde kuva chi, kana simba rehupenyu, iro richakupa zvakawanda zvakawanda simba kubva muimba yekurara sezvaunorarama hupenyu hwako munyika. Uye kana chi yako isimba uye chinangwa chako chakajeka, chi yako inoshandurwa kuva simba remweya kana shen.
Kurapa Rudo miitiro yakafuma uye ine simba rakakwana yekuita kwemaawa zuva rega rega, asi kushanduka zvakakwana kukusimbisa iwe kana kubatsira kubvisa muviri kana kushushikana mupfungwa mumaminitsi. Kuita zvepabonde pakutanga kunotora nguva kuti unzwisise uye unzwe mumuviri wako, asi zvinogona kubva zvisinganyatsobatanidzi mukugadzira rudo nemigumisiro inoshamisa: humwe mufaro, ukama hwepedyo, uye kudzvinyirira kupfuura iwe wakamboona.
Muitiro weTaoist unopa nzira inoshanda yekuwana nekubatanidza maviri makuru ane simba ekuporesa munyika: rudo rwechokwadi uye simba repabonde. Iyi miitiro inogona kuwedzera kufadza kwako uye kukurudzira muviri wako uye mweya.
Rachel Carlton Abrams, MD. ndiye chiremba wekudzidzira mhuri anonyanya kugadzirwa nemishonga inobatsira pamwe chete nehutano hwevakadzi nehutano. Nhengo ye Multi-Orgasmic Couple inogara kuchamhembe kweCalifornia nemurume wake nevana vatatu.
Mudzidzisi Mantak Chia ndiye mudzidzisi anonyanya kuzivikanwa wehutori hweTaoist, kubva kuTai Chi kusvika kuTaoist zvepabonde. Iye ndiye munyori wevatengesi vanotengesa Multi-Orgasmic Man uye Multi-Orgasmic Couple uyewo mazvinyorwa akazvinyorwa Taoist Zvinyorwa Zvorudo uye Healing Love kuburikidza neTao. Anogara muThailand uye anodzidzisa muUnited States uye kumativi ose enyika.