Wambopupurira kana kuti akaona chiitiko ichi chakajairika?
Bill achangopedza masikati achishanyira mudiwa wake mune imwe nzvimbo yakachengeteka yekutengesa pfungwa mumakiromita matatu kubva kumba kwake. Ari kuve aneta uye asarudza nguva yekuenda kumusha kuti avhare, asi anotya chiitiko chinowanzoitika paanosiya Sarah. Anomupa zvinyoronyoro uye anomuudza kuti anomuda uye anoyeuchidza kuti achadzoka shure kwekudya kwemanheru kuzoona naye zvakare asati avata.
Sara, zvisinei, anotsamwa uye akatsamwa , achitaura kuti haamudi uye achikumbira kuti amutore naye. Anonamatira kwaari uye anomunamatira zvakare ndokubva amupukunyuka achibata naye achimutsvaka uye achichema zvakare. Anobva achipinda mumasuo akachengetedzeka uye shure kwake anonzwa masuo achivhara uye anonzwa Sarah achisvetuka pamasuo uye achikumbira kuti adzoke. Anopukuta misodzi kubva pameso ake uye anoputika nekufema kwakadzika, achiziva kuti chiitiko ichi chichadzoka zvakare panguva inotevera paanosiya.
Sarah ane chirwere cheAlzheimer , uye kunyange zvazvo Bill achimuda zvikuru, haangogoni kumuchengeta pamba zvakare. Akakwanisa kwenguva yakareba asi yakangova yakawandisa kwaari uye hutano hwake hwakashata. Chiremba wake pakupedzisira akamuudza kuti aifanira kuita chimwe chinhu chakasiyana kuti asangane zvose zvaaida uye iyewo.
Ndezvipi Bill uye vashandi vanogona kuita kuti vasiye Sarah mushure mokumushanyira zvishoma, zvose kwaari uye nokuda kwake?
Izvo zvinoenderana nezvimwe zvikonzero, kusanganisira imwe yero yeAlzheimer iyo irimo uyewo unhu hwake. Edza izvi 5 nzira dzinoshanda:
1. Shandisai Simba rekuvhiringidza
Bill angada kubvunza vashandi kuti vamubatsire nokuvhiringidza Sarah kana yava nguva yokuti aende. Chinangwa chacho hachisi chokunyengedza, asi pane kufarira Sara pane chimwe chinhu kuitira kuti kuparadzanisa kusagadzirisa zvakanyanya.
Anogona kufarira nguva yemasikati, mukurira piyano kana mukirasi yekudzidzira.
2. Gadzirisa Sara kana Purogiramu yaBill
Zvichida Sara anoda kutora nguva yapfuura uye Bill anogona kumira paanenge akarara. Kana, zvichida Sara aizoita zviri nani nekushanyira mangwanani uye Bill aigona kuenda kumusha kana nguva yake yekudya.
3. Shandisa Technology
Zvakadini kana Sarah achinyanya kutsamwa kana achiona kuti Bill akasiya paakanga akarara? Iwe unogona kuedza kanyora kanyorwa kana kuti vhidhiyo yeBill achitaura kuti aifanira kumhanya mhiri uye kuti anomuda uye achadzoka nokukurumidza. Iye (kana vashandi) aigona kutamba iyo mharidzo kuti amuvimbise kuti ari kudzoka zvakare.
4. Vadiwa Vashandi
Zvichida pane imwe nhengo yevashandi iyo Sara anongoda uye ndiani anokwanisa kumunyaradza nekumuvimbisa. Rongedza mberi nemunhu iyeye sekuti ndeipi nguva uye zuva ripi rinoshanda zvakanaka pakushanyira. Ichi ndicho chimwe chezvizhinji zvezvikomborero zvehutano husingagumi mukuchengetedza utano hwemagumisiro .
5. Ziva Munhu Mumwe Nomumwe
Iyi ndiyo nzira inonyanya kukosha yevashandi vari kushanda naSara. Ndiyo ropafadzo yavo nechisungo chekudzidza kuziva unhu hwake, zvaanoda, zvinhu zvinotambudza kushungurudzika, uye chii chinonyaradza nekukurudzira kwaari.
Vanogona kushanda pamwechete naBill uye kumubvunza pamusoro penyaya yake, basa rake, mhuri yake, matarenda ake nemufaro wake-uye kushandisa ruzivo urwu kuti awedzere nzira yega yega yega. Uye, pavanowana chimwe chinhu chinoshanda zvakanaka, vashandi vanofanira kugovana kubudirira uye vone nechokwadi kuti nzira inobatsira inotaurirwa kune vamwe.
Kunobva:
Lippincott Nursing Center.com. Nzvimbo Dzakanakisisa dzeKutarisira Kunakisisa. Maitiro Anobatana neDementia. AJN, American Journal of Nursing, July 2005 http://www.nursingcenter.com/lnc/CEArticle?an=00000446-200507000-00028&Journal_ID=54030&Issue_ID=591242