Chimwe chezviratidzo zvehutano hwemangwana zvinodzvinyirira nguva, nzvimbo kana munhu . Vakaroorana avo nekunzwa kurasikirwa , uye vanogona kuvhiringidzika.
Dzimwe nguva, kuvhiringidzika kunoratidzwa mukudanidzira kune amai kana baba. "Amai, muri kupi?" "Baba, uya pano!" Munhu ane dhementia angada kuvepo kwemubereki kupa ruvimbiso nekusimbiswa mumamiriro asina kujairika, uye akanganwa kuti mudiwa wavo akafa makore apfuura.
(Kunyange kana iyo yakagadzirirwa yeimba yomunhu, zvingave zvisingazivizve kwaari.)
Ndedzipi nzira yakanaka yekupindura kudana uku? Iwe ungati chii kuvimbisa nekunyaradza munhu?
Heano nzira nhatu dzokuedza:
Zivisai manzwiro omunhu wacho nekushandisa nguva naye, kubvunza mibvunzo nekumukurudzira. Iwe unogona kuedza chimwe chinhu chakadai: "Hi Fran, uri kutarisa mumwe munhu here?" Ndakanzwa iwe uchikumbira rubatsiro. "Ndingakubatsira iwe nechimwe chinhu here?"
Kana akakumbira kuti amai vake varipi, munogona kutaura chokwadi, "Handisi chokwadi. Handina kumuona munguva pfupi." Kana Fran achienderera mberi kukumbira amai vake, unogona kuedza mibvunzo iyi: "Amai vako vakaita sei?" Aive mubiki akanaka here? Musoro wake waiva ruvara rwei, akadzidzisei iwe, chii chawakada pamusoro pake?
Dzimwe nguva, paunoshandisa kuvimbiswa, munhu wacho angangonyaradzwa chete nokutaura pamusoro paamai vake kana baba avo vanorasikirwa.
Zviyeuchidzo izvi zvinogona kukwana kudzikama uye kumutsigira munhu wacho. Pane dzimwe nguva, kuvimbiswa kunogona kubatsira kunyange munhu kusvika pakukwanisa kukurukurirana kwaanoti, "Unoziva, ndinoshushikana amai vangu uye akafira makore mashoma adarika."
- Kuvhiringidzika
Gara uchidikanwa nemurwere wako kana waunoda nekumukurudzira nenzira yakasiyana.
Mubatsire kutarisa pane chimwe chinhu chakasiyana uye chinonakidza. Edza izvi: "Amai, tinogona kuenda here kuti tifambe pamwe chete?" Ndinoda chaizvo kutambanudza makumbo angu uye ini ndine chokwadi kuti iwewo, regai titore mhepo itsva. Iwe unogona here kukuwana iwe cookie kuti ufare kunze, zvakare? Amai, ndinoonga zvikuru kuti ndinogona kupedza nguva nemwi. "
Dzimwe nguva, mamiriro ezvinhu anowanzotarisa zviri nani kuti ave akanyatsotarisana uye akatendeseka, kunyange kana zvingakuvadza. Somuenzaniso, kana mudiwa wako ane hanya pamusoro paamai kana baba vake uye achitenda kuti vanorwara kana vari pangozi, zvingabatsira, kana vakaramba vari mumatambudziko avo, kuvaudza kuti munhu wacho atofa kuitira kuti havafungizve pamusoro pavo.
Nenzira yakawanda, nzira iyi haina kukurudzirwa nokuti inogona kuita kuti munhu atange kushungurudzika zvakare zvakare kurasikirwa nemubereki. Zvisinei, muzviitiko zvangu zvekuchipatara, pane dzimwe nguva apo yakanyatsopa rupo kune munhu ane dhementia nokuti vanogona kuisa kushungurudzika kwavo kunze.
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Stroke Association. Kutarisira Vanhu vane Dhementia. Yakasvika musi waJanuary 29, 2015. http://www.strokeassociation.org/idc/groups/stroke-public/@wcm/@hcm/@sta/documents/downloadable/ucm_310595.pdf