Kutya Maitiro uye Zvichemo
Kuti iwe uite chisarudzo chakanakisisa pamusoro pemubereki wako usina kukodzera , iwe unoda kugamuchira zvakakwana, zvisingabatsiri uye nezveshoko rakarurama. Vakadzi vakawanda vane pamuviri vanotora nzvimbo dzekutakura mimba , izvo zvinowanzoita semakiriniki ekurapa, vachiedza kutsvaga mazano nekupa mazano. Kunyange zvakadaro vanowanzosiya vachinzwa kupengeswa mushure mekuona nzvimbo yepakati yekusarudza kusarudzo.
Vakawanda vane pamuviri mamiriro ekumanikidzwa nzvimbo vakatsoropodzwa nekusaziva nekutyisidzira vakadzi vane pamuviri kuitira kuti vabudirire chinangwa chekati kana kudzivirira mukadzi kuti awane kubvisa pamuviri .
Kuberekwa kwematambudziko nzvimbo dzinowanzotungamirirwa nemasangano ane chinangwa chekusimudzira ushumiri hwavo nehupenyu hwehupenyu hwehupenyu. Zvizhinji zvezvirwere izvi zvinotakura pamuviri zvinoshandisa mabhodhi uye zviziviso nemashoko ekuti:
- "Wakwegura? Scared? Hausi Woga"
- "Kuberekwa? Kufunga Kubvisa Kubvisa Mimba? Funga Zvaunosarudza"
- "Kuberekwa? Kusununguka Kusununguka Kusununguka Kuedza uye Kuvanzika"
- "Kubva Kubvisa Kubvisa Mimba? Ruzivo Pamusikana Wemukadzi"
- Akwegura here? Kuda rubatsiro? Unosarudza "
- Hazvina kugadziriswa? Kukundwa Here? Muchivande Rubatsiro "
Iyi nzira dzekutengesa dzakagadzirirwa nechinangwa chokukwezva "kubvisa pamuviri panjodzi" vakadzi. Kuberekwa kwematambudziko nzvimbo dzine mazita uye anoshandisa zviziviso zvinogona kupa pfungwa yokuti haisi zvematongerwe enyika, kusatonga, vatapi vezvoutano.
Semuenzaniso, vangave vane mazita akaita seCrisis Pregnancy Center, Pregnancy Aid, Pregnancy Resource Center, Pregnancy Counseling Center, kana Pregnancy Care Center. Aya mahofisi angashandisawo mazita anonzwika akafanana nemazita emakiriniki chaiwo ekuronga mhuri mumunharaunda (somuenzaniso, kubata pamuviri chinetso "Plan Your Parenthood" inogona kunge iri pedyo ne "Planned Parenthood"), uye sarudza nzvimbo dziri pedyo nemitemo yehutano yakarurama.
Izvi zvinoita kuti zvive nyore kuti vakadzi vauye kune pamuviri wekutambudzika mamiriro nekukanganisa.
Vamwe vane pamuviri mhirizhonga vanoita kuti vanhu vawane pachena uye vakatendeseka pavanopa kubatsirana kusimba uye ruzivo, uye kunyange dzakawanda zvezvi nzvimbo idzi huri-hupenyu-humwe huri mberi pamusoro pefilosofi nemabasa avo kupfuura vamwe. Kuberekwa kwematambudziko nzvimbo dzinogara dzichishanda dzichishanda kudzivirira kudzivirira mukadzi ane pamuviri kubvisa pamuviri. Kunyatsotsvakurudza, kutsvakurudza uye uchapupu hwehupi hwevarwere vakaramba vachiratidza kuti vazhinji vehutano hwakakonzerwa nehutano hunosiya vakadzi vanonyengerwa nekutya kwavo maitiro, kushandiswa, uye huzivi hwechitendero.
Zvipingamupinyi Zvikuru Kurwisa Kubata Crisis Centers:
Izvi zvinokonzerwa nenharo dzekuzvitakura zvakawanikwa kuti dzinoparidza zvenhema kuti dzinopa kubvisa pamuviri mazano kana kupa mazano - apo, chaizvoizvo, yakawanikwa kuti chinangwa chikuru chezvi nzvimbo idzi ndechokudzivisa vakadzi kuti vasashandise chisarudzo chavo chokubvisa pamuviri. Nzvimbo dzakawanda dzekuita pamuviri nenjodzi dzinenge dzisingatauri maitiro ekubvisa pamuviri kana kubvisa pamuviri kuburitsa. Kunyange zvazvo nzvimbo idzi dzisina kupa rubatsiro kana kutsigirwa kubvisa pamuviri, masangano anovabata anobvumirana kuti chikamu chekutengeserana kwavo nzira yekuzadzisa kubvisa pamuviri-vakadzi vanotambura.
Vanoita izvi kuburikidza nekuparidzira kuti ivo makiriniki ezvehutano hwevakadzi, uye vanowanzonyorwa pasi pe "Kubvisa pamuviri" muJapan Pages. Uyezve, ivo vari kuedza kuwedzera kuvepo kwavo kwepaIndaneti kuburikidza nekuchengetedzwa kwepamusoro panzvimbo dzekutsvaga injini. Saka, kana mukadzi ari kutsvaga kubvisa pamuviri, ruzivo rwematambudziko pakati pezvikwata uye nzvimbo dzinouya.
Family Research Council (boka rakapedza makore gumi apfuura rakaita sarudzo dzakasiyana-siyana uye zvirongwa zvehuruzhinji zvakagadzirirwa kutsigira, kusimbisa nekudzivirira basa rekuita kwepamuviri mimba matambudziko) yakabatanidzwa mune chirongwa chekubatsira pamuviri mamiriro ekugadzirisa kuwedzera kushambadzira kwavo maitiro kubva izvozvi nzvimbo dzakanga dzisingasvike vakawanda "vakadzi vanobvisa pamuviri" vakadzi sezvavakanga vaida.
FRC yakaita sarudzo yegore rose yevakadzi vane makore 18-34. Pakuongorora mhinduro, vakanyatsoongorora mazwi aisarudzwa nevakadzi vari kutarisana nehutano husina kurongwa vaigona kushandisa pavanotsvaga Yellow Pages kuti vabate pamuviri rubatsiro. Zvadaro mune imwe mushumo, iFrC yakaratidza kuti kubata mamiriro edzimhosva nzvimbo inova nechokwadi chekunyorera makiriniki avo pasi pezvikamu izvi.
Iyi sarudzo yakawana zvakare kuti izwi rokuti "dambudziko" rakabvisa simba rakaipa rekuita (zvikurukuru pakati pekumusoro kwevakadzikadzi vekirasi yevakadzi). FRC yakarayira kuti zita rokuti "Women's Resource Center" (iro rinopa pfungwa yokuti nzvimbo yacho inopa huwandu hweshumiro yehutano) yakanga yakanyanyokosha pakuwana vakadzi vakagwinya nevaya vari panjodzi yokubvisa pamuviri. Mushumo wavo wakapawo mazano pamusoro peshoko rakanakisisa iyo nzvimbo dzinofanira kushandiswa, kutengesa mifananidzo uye mutauro, uye mazano ekugara. Maererano neFRC, mharidzo iyi yakaparadzirwa zvakapararira kune kubata pamuviri matambudziko uye yakatsanangurwa kwavari pamisangano yegore negore. Kubva panguva iyoyo, "mazana ezviuru munyika yose akachinja maitiro avo ekutengeserana nekusimbiswa kwebasa sechikonzero chekudzidza uku kweFRC."
Nemhaka yekunyengedza uku, zvinogona kunge zvakanyanyisa kusarudza kubata pamuviri chinetso chekushanyira. Kunyange zvazvo dzimwe nzvimbo idzi dzinopa ruzivo runopa ruzivo rwakarurama uye rutivi rwemashoko, vamwe vanogona kumanikidzira nekunyengedzera vakadzi vane pamuviri vachitsvaga zvenhema kana kushatisa mazita. ICentral for Disease Control, Planned Parenthood, New York Metropolitan Religious Coalition yokubvisa pamuviri, National Organisation for Women, the Texas Attorney General, American Civil Liberties Union, North Dakota Supreme Court pamwe nevematongerwo enyika vakasiyana-siyana uye vatsvakurudzi vese vanopinda pavanyore vachidana kutora mimba mamiriro ezvinhu se "kunyengera."
Yakashambadza Zvimwe Zvinyorwa Zvishandiswa Pakuberekwa Crisis Centers:
Pane imwe nguva mukadzi akatsauswa mukati mechirwere chemucheche centre, angave akaiswa pamhando dzakasiyana-siyana dzekumanikidzika, dzepfungwa, dzokunyengedzera, uye dzinokuvadza dzinogadzirisa kuita kuti amuite kuti arege kubvisa pamuviri. Izvo zvataurwa kuti nzvimbo idzi dzinogona kuvhundutsa vakadzi nekuchema, kugovana nyaya dzevanhu, uye kushandisa zvisina kunaka fetal maenzaniso kana mavhidhiyo ekuratidza kufambira mberi kwekuberekwa. Kuberekwa kwematambudziko emagariro edza kushandura mafungiro emukadzi nemafungiro kuburikidza nokutaura kumucheche se "mwana" uye kushandisa mazwi akadai, "kukwazisa, iwe uri amai." Vakadzi vakashanyira nzvimbo idzi vanowanzotaurirana ivo mushure mekunge vaine sonogram, vashandi vachavapa mavhidhiyo e-ultrasound nemashoko akanyorwa pamusoro pavo, "Hi Mama," "Haungagoni kumirira," uye "Ndinokuda . " Vashandi pave nepamuviri matambudziko nzvimbo inowanzoreva kubvisa pamuviri sekuuraya kana kuponda.
Izvo zvinotevera zvakanyorwa mienzaniso yevanhu vakasiyana-siyana vanorondedzerwa zvakaitika pavanenge vari pamuviri wematambudziko. Ndapota cherechedza kuti mienzaniso iyi inofanirwa pane izvo munhu angatarisira uye ari, kure, kwete chete:
- Maererano nemushumo we2002 weCent for Rights Reproductive, mumwe mukadzi ari pamuviri wematambudziko akazvitakura akaudzwa kuti "ane dhiyabhorosi mukati make." Akanga "akafuridzirwa nemifananidzo yakajeka yevana vasina kusimba uye kubvisa vana vana."
- Amy Sutnick, a Planned Parenthood mushandi akashanyira imwe yeManhattan Pregnancy Services nzvimbo dzakashambadza iyo inopa "mashoko akarurama ekubvisa pamuviri." Ss. Sutnick vakarovera kuti pazvinhu zvitatu zvepamuviri hwavo matambudziko emadzimai, vakadzi vaifanira kutarisa slideshow, Kuchengeta pavanenge vakamirira mimba yavo yekuedza mhinduro. Dhidhiyo yaiva nezvinyorwa zvakawanda zvisiri zvenhema pamusoro pengozi dzokubvisa pamuviri, izvo zvose zvakakanganiswa neCenters for Disease Control.
- Liz Nazario, uyo anozvipira pakubata pamuviri wepamuviri, anobvuma kuti mukuedza kubvundisa smugness yevakadzi vari kutsvaka kubvisa pamuviri, anotanga nekuratidza mifananidzo yakaita-nye-nyemba yekurumidza kukura minwe yemukomana; ipapo, iye achatora mufananidzo mukuru, ruvara rwemucheche ane maziso akavharwa uye kunyemwerera. Pakupedzisira, anoratidza imwe yemifananidzo yakazara yemuvara wematumbo anopa ropa mumarara. Anoenderera mberi anoratidza kuti iye dzimwe nguva angatora mukadzi ane pamuviri muchechi duku kuti anyengetere pamberi peatari yemarbre. Anoudza Alan Cooperman, weWashington Post , kuti anogara achikumbira vakadzi ava kutarisa vhidhiyo paTV-screen. "Ndinoda kushandisa nzira dzekubvisa pamuviri uye inotsanangura kubvisa pamuviri wechipiri uye wechitatu," anotsanangura (achitaura nezvezvinhu zvisingaoneki uye zvinotyisa zvekubvisa pamuviri). "Vamwe vasikana vanoda Kuchema Kuchema ." Silent Scream ishoma uye ndinoda kuenda zvishoma nezvishoma. " Nazario anogoverawo, "Nguva dzakawanda apo musikana anouya uye anoti anoda kubvisa pamuviri, ari kungozvida oga ... Ari kunyanya kufunga nezvechecheche iye ari kufunga nezvake."
- MuArizona, baba vakaunza mwanasikana wavo ane makore gumi nematanhatu kumwedzi wekuita pamuviri mushure mekunge abatwa chibharo. Mukomana uyu akaratidzwa "mifananidzo ine utsinye" kusanganisira mifananidzo yekubviswa kwemashure. Baba vacho vanotaura kuti nzvimbo yacho, "yakangodaro yakamubata chibharo, ivo [ivo vane pamuviri mhirizhonga mukati] ndivo vanotsigira kune vasina kuberekwa, uye kugehena nemunhu anotambudzika." Vaiva nesanhu yekukuya, uye vakangomutyisa. "
- Nancy Weinstock, MAZVINO anozvipira, akashanyira Options Resources Center, uyo anotsvaga " kuvimba kwekuberekwa ." Akaudzwa kuti "kurairirwa kwekuberekwa hakubatsiri nokuti Amai Nature haadi kuti miviri yedu ishandiswe." Akanziwo akaudzwa kuti urine uye kuongororwa kwepamuviri kwepamuviri "zvakafanana" uye zvakaenzana zvakakwana (mashoko anonyengerawo).
- Courtney Barbour, mubatsiri wekutungamira paYunivhesiti yeNorth Carolina kuChapel Hill, akaunza mucheche wemuviri ane pamuviri pamwe naye kune imwe nzvimbo iri pedyo yekuzvitakura chinetso chinonzi, Birthchoice. Barbour akatsanangura kuti paanenge achimirira mhinduro, mupi wezano akaratidza mapepa epurasitiki pamatanho akasiyana-siyana ekubudirira ndokumuudza kuti mwana wake anenge ane chido chemwoyo pakarepo (izvo zvisiri izvo). Mutungamiri wacho akawedzera kubvunza nezveBharbour's convictions yechitendero , iyo Barbour akapindura, "Zvakanaka, handisi kuenda kuchechi, asi sekuru vangu vaiva mushumiri weMethodist." Mupi waro akapindura, "Zvakanaka ini ndinotengesa kuti tateguru vako angada kuti iwe uve nemwana uyu." Barbour anobva arondedzera kuti mukadzi (uyo akanga aita mimba yekuedzwa kwake) akadzoka mukamuri ndokumupa nemhando yebhuruu, yakagadzirwa nemaoko uye akati, "Ndinokurumbidza! Iwe uri amai."
- MuMinnesota, Robbinsdale Women's Center, inopesana nekubvisa pamuviri mamiriro ematambudziko inenge iri mumugwagwa kubva kuRobbinsdale Clinic, inopa hutano hwakasiyana-siyana kusanganisira kubvisa pamuviri. Vakadzi vanoverengeka vakapinda muchivande panzvimbo yekliniki vakanyunyuta kuti nzvimbo yacho yakamanikidzwa uye yakavanyengedza. Mumwe mukadzi akatomhan'arira mutevedzeri wemagetsi weMinnesota achiti, "Mukuedza kuwana Clinic yeRobbinsdale, ndakanganisa ndakaenda mumakirini evakadzi mumugwagwa.Ndakavaudza zita rangu uye nguva yekugadzwa, vakanditora kuti ndigare pachigaro uye ndaive nemapurisa achitaura neni pamusoro pekudzivisa kubvisa pamuviri, panguva iyo, ndakadzidza kuti ndakanga ndisati ndasangana pane imwe nguva, uye ivo vakati havana kuziva nezvekliniki yeRobbinsdale. "
- Muchikamu chinobva mubhuku rinonzi Legal But Out of Reach , amai vanowirirana panguva iyo pavanenge vari pamuviri wekutambudzika, mushure mekunge vashandi vakabvunza kuti zvatinosarudza zvichava chii, "ini nomwanasikana wangu takati takasarudza chinhu chakanakisisa kuti aite vane kubvisa pamuviri uye kuti zvinodhura zvakadini? " Vakadzi vaviri vakati, "Ndapota rindirai kweminiti" ndokubva asiya isu ... Vakadzoka nemapuranga uye zvisi uye vakati, "ndizvo zvinoita mwana wako zvino uye tinoda kuti utange kumucheka nokuti ndizvo zvichaita zvinoitika kana iwe ukabvisa pamuviri - saka tanga kutema! "
Kubata Kwakaita Crisis Centers Kunokanganisa Vakadzi:
Sezvo chinangwa chemuviri wekutakura matambudziko nzvimbo ndechekumisa mukadzi kubva kubvisa pamuviri, zvakawanikwa kuti kunze kwekushandisa nzira dzinotyisa, idzi nzvimbo dzinoedzawo kubata madzimai kuburikidza nekupa ruzivo rwenhema.
Ikoko kunoratidzika kune dzakawanda zvinowanzoshandiswa zvisiri izvo zvisinganzwisisiki kuti mimba yematambudziko inowanzogara ichiudza vakadzi vane pamuviri:
- Hazvisi zvisingazivikanwi kuti nzvimbo idzi dzinoratidzira kumudzimai ane pamuviri, seimwe nzira yokubvisa pamuviri, kumirira kwechinguva nokuti kune huwandu hwakakosha hwekuti achava nechepamuviri (uye naizvozvo haazodi kubvisa pamuviri).
- Kuberekwa kwematambudziko emakamuri anozivikanwawo nekusava akatendeseka pamusoro pekudzivirira kubata pamuviri . Vakadzi vanowanzotaurirwa kuti kubata pamuviri hakubatsiri pakudzivirira kubata pamuviri uye kuti maitiro ekudzivirira pamuviri nemakondomu anokonzera kenza. Vamwe vakadzi vanorondedzera kuudzwa kuti makondomu ose ane mashumo uye haapi kupa chero hutachiona hweSDD . Mafirosofi echitendero emazhinji ematunhu aya anovatungamira kuti vasimbe kuzvidzora pamusoro pekudzivirira kubata pamuviri.
- Imwe yenhau dzakawanda dzinofanirwa kuti mimba yematambudziko nzvimbo dzinoedza kuvimbisa vakadzi vane pamuviri ndeyekuti kubvisa pamuviri hakusi kwakachengeteka. Kazhinji, vanonyengera kuwedzeredza njodzi uye kubvisa zvisina kubvisa kuti kubvisa pamuviri kunogona kukonzera chirwere chepachivi chinoputira, remangwana ectopic pregnancy, kubuda ropa kudarika, kusabereka, nguva yemberi yekuberekwa, uye kunyange rufu. Havatauri kuti vakadzi vane sei nguva dzinopfuura 14 dzekufa munguva kana shure mushure mokubereka kubva pane kufa kubva pamatambudziko ekubvisa pamuviri. Vamwe vane pamuviri mamiriro epakati vanoenda kune zvakananga kuti varatidze zvakasiyana - kuti kupedza pamuviri kune ngozi kune kutakura mwana kusvika panguva.
- Zvimwe zvisiri izvo zvinyorwa izvi zvinowanzoshandiswa sezvinotyisa zvekudzivisa kubvisa pamuviri zvinoreva zvenhema kuti kubvisa pamuviri kunotungamirira kana kunokonzera kenza yemazamu. Vatsvakurudzi vakaona kuti pamuviri mamiriro ekumanikidzwa nzvimbo inogona kuudza vakadzi kuti ichokwadi che 100% chinoratidza kuti kubvisa pamuviri kunokonzera kenza yemazamu. Mumwe anozvipira pane imwe yezvivako muNorth Carolina anonyatsotaura nezvekusavapo kwekudzidza kuAustralia apo "mukadzi wese ane makore 18 akasarudza kubvisa pamuviri akaonekwa kuti ane kenza yemazamu." Vakadzi vanogonawo kuudzwa kuti kana vane mhuri yekenza yepabonde, vangangova nekenza uye vanofa kana vachifanira kubvisa pamuviri.
- Vakawanda vane pamuviri matambudziko emitambo vanoedza zvakare kuvimbisa vakadzi kuti kubvisa pamuviri kuchaguma nezvinetso zvepfungwa . Pakave nemishumo yakawandisa yevakadzi vakambotaura zvisina kururama kuti kubvisa pamuviri kunogona kutungamirira kune chero "kubva shure-kubvisa pamuviri kushungurudzika" kana "post-abortion syndrome" kune kuora mwoyo, kuzviuraya, zvepabonde uye ukama husina kunaka, kushandisa zvinodhaka, uye kunyange kutowedzera mikana iyo mukadzi achange achitambudza vana vake mune ramangwana.
- Pakupedzisira, nzvimbo idzi dzinovimba nokunyadziswa senzira inotyisa yekutyisa uye kukurira vakadzi vane pamuviri. Vakawanda vezvipiri sezvi nzvimbo idzi vanoshandisa zvinotaurwa neBhaibheri kuti vakurudzire vakadzi kuti vasaita zvepabonde kusvikira varoorana. Vachaedza kuparidzira chitendero kuti vaomanikidze vanetseka kana vakadzi vasina chokwadi kuti varambe vachiita mimba uye vasingadi kubvisa pamuviri.
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