Iwe unofunga kuti vabereki vevana vane autism spectrum disorder vangava shamwari dzepedyo uye shamwari. Mushure mezvose, vane zvakawanda zvakafanana pamwe chete. Kurera mwana ne autism kunogona kuva kwakaoma nekuvhiringidza, uye ndiani anganzwisisa kuti zviri nani kupfuura mubereki wemumwe mwana ane autism?
Kunyange zvazvo zviri chokwadi kuti kune maboka anoshamisa anotsigira vabereki vevidism kunze uko, chokwadi ndechekuti autism vabereki havasi kuona nyika yose nenzira imwecheteyo.
Sezvo vanhu vari mumitambo vari zvakasiyana zvikuru kune mumwe nemumwe, saizvozvowo vabereki vavo. Kutaura zvazviri, vabereki vevana (uye vanhu vakuru) pamitambo vanogona chaizvo kuva zvibvumirano zvevamwe.
Izvozvo zvinogoneka sei? Pano pane zvishoma zvezvikonzero zvakakosha.
1. Mwana wega wega ane chiremera ndiye akasiyana.
Fungidzira mamiriro ezvinhu umo vanaamai vaviri ve autistic vane makore gumi vari kutsigira vana vavo mune imwe nzvimbo yechikoro. Asi kana mumwe wevakomana ava akakwirira kushanda , akakwanisa kutarisa zvidzidzo, asi ane matambudziko nekukurukurirana kwevanhu, mumwe mukomana haasi mutsara uye ane zvinetso zvakakosha.
Amai # 1 vakatanga nekutonga kwake kutanga uye vakakwanisa kushanda pamwe nesuwa kuti vagadzire chikoro chakakura chechivishi uye chete nheyo dzakarurama dzomwanakomana wavo. Amai # 2, avo vakatanga zvishoma gare gare, vanotarisana nechokwadi chokuti kune chitupa chitsva chekusimudzira autism mune chikoro chine zvishoma zvehupenyu hwaanoda mwanakomana - uye chikoro chechikoro chinomira kuti "zvichave zvakanaka . "
Amai # 1 anofara neaibatsira kusika, uye anoda kuti hapana kuchinja kwakaitwa; Amai # 2 inotsigira kuchinja kukuru kune chimiro uye kunotsigira mu "autism classroom."
2. Vabereki Vanove Vakasiyana Mafiropiyo Pamusoro peAustism.
Baba # 1 vane mwana ane autism inonongedza. Anodzvinyirirwa nekutambudzika kwekukurukura nemwanakomana uyo "anowana" mitambo, haagoni kutevedzera mitemo ye Boy Boy Scouts, uye anoita kunge asina hanya mukubatana nevezera rake rezera.
Anotungamirirwa nechishuwo chekubatsira mwanakomana wake kudzidza unyanzvi hwaanoda kufambidzana nevezera rake.
Baba # 2 vane mwana ane nyaya dzakafanana - asi kwaari, hazvina basa guru. "Saka ko kana vana vedu vakasiyana?" iye anobvunza, "isu tinongoda kutsigira vana vedu sezvavari, uye kwete kuedza kuvashandura kuva mumwe wavasina."
Baba # 1 vanoda Baba # 2 kumutsigira sezvaanotambudza kudzidzisa mwanakomana wake zvinyorwa zvebhola . Baba # 2 vane chido chiduku kana chisina chavanoita uye vanogona kumutsa kusika manzwiro asina kunaka sezvaanobvunza baba baba # 1 kusava netsitsi kumwanakomana wavo.
3. Vabereki Vane Zvinangwa Zvimwe Zvevana Vavo.
Zvinonyanya kukosha here kuti mwana ane autism anzwe akasununguka mune chikoro chechipiri chechivhisi, kana kuti kudzidza kudzidzisa nzvimbo yakaoma yakabatanidzwa? Zvakanaka here kuisa pfungwa pakutsvaga mushonga wemoto wevana vako - kana kuisa pfungwa pakubatsira mwana wako kuti ararame zvakanaka nezvinetso zvake? Zvinangwa zvakasiyana zvinorevei kuti vabereki vane maonero akasiyana pamusoro pezvinokosha mune zvidzidzo zvechikoro kana munharaunda, uye vanogona kunge vane maonero akasiyana-siyana pamusoro pekurera mucheche pamutambo.
4. Vabereki Vanobvuma uye Vanokurudzira Mazano Akasiyana Pamusoro Pezvokurapa uye Zvinokonzera Autism.
Mubereki A ane chokwadi chekuti autism yengwana yake yakonzerwa nemishonga.
Mubereki B anofunga kuti dzidziso ndeyezvisina maturo.
Mubereki A akazvitsaurira kune imwe nzira yekurapa uye anotenda kuti vabereki vose vanofanira kutevera muenzaniso wake. Anoita basa rake kuti asvike kune mubereki wese wemwana autistic kuti aparidzire pamusoro pekusarudzwa kwaanosarudza kurapwa kwevistism - kunyange kana akaudzwa kuti: "Handifariri."
Aya marudzi ose-kana-asina-zvingaita kuti ape kupesana kwechokwadi.
Kana iwe ukazviwana wakagumburwa nevabereki vevidism iwe unosangana, hausi wega. Nenzira yakanaka, kazhinji inogoneka kutsvaga boka rinotarisa pane imwe rudzi rwevhisi, chirwere, kana mafilosofi - saka unogona kuwana boka rakasimudza nzira yako.