Apo vamwe vabereki vanokura vakashungurudzika nokuti vana vavo vari kuyaruka vanopedza maawa vachivhara muimba yekugezera vasati vabuda mumba, vamwe vabereki havagoni kuita kuti mwana wavo ari kuyaruka-kunyange paanonzwa uipi. Kubata nevechiri kuyaruka uyo anoramba kushambadza kunogona kunyadzisa nekuvhiringidza vabereki.
Mushure mezvose, haukwanisi kumanikidza mwana wenyu ari kuyaruka kuti apinde mumvura kana asingadi.
Asi, kana asingashambi nguva dzose, anogona kutarisana nemigumisiro yakakomba yemagariro evanhu. Saka musati maona kushandiswa kwakanakisisa kupindira, zvinokosha kufunga nezvechikonzero chekushushikana kwevechiri kuyaruka mukugeza.
Kushaya Zivo
Vamwe vechidiki havatoni kukosha kukosha kwekugeza. Vechidiki vako vangave vasingazivi kuti mushure mekuyaruka, iye achange achinetseka uye anonhuwa kana asingashambi.
Zvinogona kuva zvakaoma kune vamwe vechidiki kuita shanduko yekurapa miviri yavo sevanhu vakuru, pane vana. Saka kunyange zvazvo zvakanga zvisiri dambudziko kutamba bhati pazera remakore manomwe, pazera remakore gumi nematanhatu, anogona kuratidza huhu hwemuviri kana asingashamba nguva dzose. Kunyange vechidiki vanogeza dzimwe nguva havazivi kukosha kwekushandisa sipo kana kushambidza bvudzi ravo.
Kana iwe uchifungidzira kuti hana yako yekuyaruka inotonhora inobva pakushaya ruzivo, chiratidzo chiratidzo chako chaunoda kutaura pamusoro pekuyaruka. Kurukurai kuti muviri unoshanduka sei, kufanana nekuwedzerwa kwepfupa uye kubuda kwebvudzi romuviri, zvinoreva kushamba kwezuva nezuva kunokosha.
Tsanangurai kumwana wenyu kuti zvipembenene zveganda zvinodya muviri, izvo zvinotungamirira kunhuhwirira yemuviri. Kushambidza muviri wake kunomubatsira kuramba akachena uye kunhuhwirira.
Mwana Wako Anove Akanakisisa Zvinhu Zvaungaita
Vechidiki vakawanda vangada kushandisa nguva yavo yekusarura vachitamba mitambo yemavhidhiyo kana kutaurirana neshamwari dzavo, panzvimbo pokufunganya nezvehutano hwehutano.
Kugeza kunogona kunzwa sokuti kunowanikwa munzira yezvinhu zvose zvavanoda chaizvo kuita.
Vechidiki vakanyatsogadzirisawo vatsigiri. Saka wechidiki angasimudzira kuti achaenda kushamba pashure pekuchikoro. Asi, shure kwekuchikoro, anogona kutaura kuti achageza shure kwekudya kwemanheru. Asi apo nguva yekurara inoswedera pedyo , inogona kutaura kuti ichashamba mangwanani.
Kana kukaramba kwako kwevechiri kuyaruka kuchiita sokuti kunokonzerwa nousimbe, iwe unogona kutora nyaya yacho semumwe mutoro. Isai miganhu uye mupe migumisiro.
Mental Health Matambudziko kana Kuchenjerera Kunonoka
Dzimwe nguva, kuramba kushamba kunogona kubatanidzwa kune mamwe marudzi ehutano hwepfungwa. Somuenzaniso, vechidiki vane chirwere chakanyanya kuora mwoyo vangasava nehanya uye simba rokugeza. Asi kunwa mvura hakusiyo dambudziko chete ravanosangana naro-kuora mwoyo kunogona kutungamirirawo kune zvinetso zvekudzidza uye zvehupfumi zvakare.
Mune zvimwe zviitiko, zviitiko zvinotyisa zvinogona kunge zviri shure kwehutano hwehutano. Mukomana uyo akatambudzwa zvepabonde, somuenzaniso, angaramba kutamba nokuti haadi kuti mutambudzi wake ataure naye. Asi, cherechedza mupfungwa kuti kushambadza kwakanyanya kunogona kuva chiratidzo chekushungurudzwa kwepabonde.
Vechidiki vane kukura kwekuremara kana kukanganisa kunonoka kunogonawo kurwisana nehutano hwehutano.
Mwana wechidiki angave asinganzwisisi kukosha kwekuratidza kana kuti angave akaoma kurangarira matanho anobatanidzwa mukuchengetedza hutano hwake.
Kana iwe uchifunga kuti kuramba kwako kwevechiri kuyaruka kunokonzerwa nehutano hwepfungwa, tsvaka rubatsiro rwezvenyanzvi. Taura nachiremba wako wevechidiki kana kuti taura nevanodzidza nezvehutano hwepfungwa.
Nzira Yokutaura Nayo Utano Hwakanaka Zvakananga
Kukurukura nevechidiki nezvehutano hwehutano kunogona kuva nyaya inofadza. Uye kana iwe usingafungi nezvenzira iyo iwe unoburitsa nyaya yacho, mwana wenyu wechidiki anogona kukura kudzivirira.
Usashandisa zvinyengeri zvisinganzwisisiki izvo mwana wako anonzwa anhuwa kana ane vhudzi rine mafuta. Kusiya kusvibiswa muimba yake kana kuita majee pamusoro pechipiriso chake hazvizobatsiri.
Pane kudaro, taura zvaunoona zvakananga. Taura chimwe chinhu chakadai, "Mvere dzako dzinotarisa mafuta nhasi. Iwe unoda kuzvishamba, "kana" Une muviri wekunhuhwirira. Iko kunondiudza kuti iwe unoda kushamba. "
Apo vamwe vechidiki vangave vakasvibiswa uye vachipopotedzana, "Kwete ini handiiti." Vamwe vangave vachinyara uye vanoita nokutaura chimwe chinhu chinoreva sekuti, " Unonzwa kunhuwa nguva dzose."
Ita zvinetso zvako nekutaura zvinhu zvakadai sekuti, "Ndinotya vamwe vana vachaona kuti hamusi kutonhora," kana kuti "Handidi iwe kuti usarudzwa nokuti unonzwa kunhuwa."
Ita Kuti Zvimwe Zvimwe Zvipingamupinyi Zvinosanganiswa Nehurombo Hwakanaka
Taura zvaunoona uye ugovana zvinetso zvinogona kuitika kubva pakusachena kwehutsanana. Taura chimwe chinhu chakadai, "Iwe hauna kuderedza mumazuva matatu. Icho hachina utano. "
Utano hwakashata hunogona kutungamirira kune zvakasiyana-siyana zvinetso zvehutano, uyewo matambudziko evanhu. Vechidiki vasingashambi vanogona kunge vari pangozi yemamwe marudzi ezvirwere zveganda.
Mukomana anonyangadza angave akaoma kuita-nekuchengeta-shamwari. Anogona kutyisidzirwa kana kuvhiringidzirwa kwete kutarisa akachena. Uye zvinogona kutora chirwere chakakomba pakuzviremekedza kwake.
Mamwe Matambudziko Ahutano Anofanira Kutaura
Vechidiki vanoramba kuvuraya vanowanzoona dzimwe nhuo dzakachena. Taura nemwana wako nezvekukosha kwekufuka mbatya dzakachena. Kuchinja nguo dzake mushure mekubata muviri uye kupfeka nguo dzakachena mushure mekurara kwake kunokosha.
Kurudzirai mwana wako kuti afuke. Regai iye asarudze rudzi rwaanosarudza kupfeka kana izvozvo zvinomubatsira kuti arishandise kakawanda.
Netsoka dzinosvibisa dzinogona kuva dambudziko nevechiri kuyaruka, kunyanya vatambi vechidiki. Kurudzirai mwana wako kuti ashambidze tsoka dzake mumvura uye ipapo, kumirira kusvikira tsoka dzake dzaoma asati apfeka masokisi uye shangu. Kupfeka masokisi emakotoni uye kushandura shangu kunogona kubatsirawo.
Kufema kwakaipa kunogona kuva nyaya zvakare. Asi zvinonyanya kukosha, vechidiki vasingatarisiri utano hwavo hwemuromo vanogona kuzviisa pangozi yekuora mazino uye gum matambudziko.
Simbisa Mitemo Yakachena
Udzai mwana wenyu ari kuyaruka anofanirwa kushamba zuva rega rega-sezvaanofanira kuita mabasa epamba uye kupedza basa rake rechikoro. Kana iye akatarisira mabasa ake, regai ave neropafadzo dzake, sekukwanisa kutarisa TV kana kutamba nemagetsi ake.
Asi kana iye akaramba kutamba, kana kuti anotaura kuti akanyanya kubatikana, usamurega achifadzwa nezvikomborero zvake. Tariro, mazuva mashomanana asina ropafadzo achamubatsira kupinda muitiro wekuratidza nguva dzose.
Kana kuedza kwako kukurudzira mwana wako kuti ashambise kakawanda hazvibatsiri, tsvaka rubatsiro rwezvenyanzvi. Anogona kunge ane zvimwe zvikonzero zvinotarisirwa kugadziriswa kana kuti angangoda zvimwe dzidzo pamusoro pehutsanana kubva kune mumwe munhu kunze kwako.
Rambai muedzo wokutambudza mwana wako. Kumuramba achimuudza kuti anoda kudha kunogona kutungamirira kukurwisa.
Kugogodza kunogonawo kuita kuti mwana wako awedzere kuvimba newe. Chinangwa chikuru ndechokuti ave nekugona kuchengetedza utsanana hwake apo iwe usiripo kuti umuyeuchidze. Saka iva nechokwadi kuti anoziva kuti iro ndiro basa rake rokushamba, asi pachava nemigumisiro kana asingaiti.
Ipa mwana wako kuti ave nemafungiro anopfuura paanenge achiita. Vamwe vechidiki vanofarira kushambidza mangwanani kuti avabatsire kumuka mushure mechikoro. Asi vamwe vanogona kuwana kuti vanokwanisa kugeura kana vachizviita mumasikati kana manheru. Chinhu chinokosha ndechokuti mwana wenyu ari kuyaruka anozviita, pasinei nenguva yaanosarudza kugezera.
Iva Muenzaniso Wakanaka Wokutevedzera
Kana uri nemhosva yekupfeka chimiro chakafanana kwemazuva ekupedzisira, kana iwe unonoka kuputira kumavhiki ekupedzisira, usatarisira mwana wako kuyaruka kuchengetedza utsanana hwake. Iva muenzaniso wakanaka uye iwe uchamuratidza kukosha kwehutano hwakanaka.
Taura nezvekushambidza maoko, kuchenesa kicheni, nekuchenesa imba yekugezera zvakare. Zvose izvi zvinotumira shoko pamusoro pekukosha kwekugara wakachena uye utano.
Taura nezvehutano hwehupenyu hwekuzvitarisira zvakare. Ratidzai mwana wako kuti anozviremekedza uye iwe unokoshesa kutarisira utano hwako.