Kune vazhinji vedu, mhuri dzedu dzose dzakakura, isu tinotarisira muchikamu chinotevera chekushanduka kwevanhu vakuru sekuru nasekurukuru: nguva inofadza apo tinogona kugovera nguva yakawanda yenguva yedu nekucherechedza kupfuura zvichida zvaikwanisika mukurera mhuri dzedu pachedu .
Iwe unogona kunge uine hutachiona hwekuona uye hunoshandiswa pakuwana nzira dzakagadzirisa zvakakomberedza basa rinoona.
Muchiitiko ichi, vana vako vachave vachiziva kugadzirisa kune nzira yakasiyana yekurera vana avo, vane tariro, vanogona kutsanangurira vana vavo.
Asi zvakadini kana iwe uri mutsva pakuona kurasikirwa somunhu mukuru akakurira uyo akaonekwa kuti ane chiso cheziso? Iwe nemhuri yako hauna kushandiswa kune zvinetso izvi zvinounza.
Uri kushamisika sei iwe uchiri kupa nguva yako nekucherechedza kuvana vako kana iwe kana chiratidzo chako chiri kuderera?
Mashoko akanaka ndeokuti: Zvechokwadi iwe unogona!
Ichokwadi kune vamwe kuti ivo vachafanirwa kusangana nemasikirwo echisiko-uye-kusvimha zvinogona kukanganisa maziso avo, izvo zvinoreva kurashikirwa nezvimwe zvingaonekwa zvavanoona kana vaduku. Asi, kana izvi zvikaitika kwauri, tapota vimbiswa, kuitira kuti utarisire uye ude vazukuru vako, havadi kuti iwe uone - izvo zvavanoda zvakanyanya kupfuura zvose, chiratidzo chako chezvinobvira.
Mune imwe nzvimbo yapfuura, 6 Kubatsira Kwavakaita Mapofu uye Vana Vakatarisa , ndinotaura kuti zvakakosha sei kuti tive nesimba pakubatsira vana vedu vakuru (nevabereki vavo) kuti vanzwisise kuti kusaona kwekuona hakufananidzi nekushaya nguva yekutamba.
Kuva bofu kana kuora mwoyo hazvifaniri kutapudza pfungwa dzedu dzomufaro.
Ini pfupi ndakatora rwendo rwekufamba kwenguva kuti ndipedze nguva yakawanda nemzukuru wangu wemakore mana uye ndakaona kushandura kwaainge akashandura pakugadzirisa nzira yangu yakasiyana yekurera vana (kunyange ini ndiri iye oga hama isina kuonekwa).
Achitenda amai vake zvakare vachisimbisa zvandinoda zvakasiyana , panzvimbo pokutsanangurira chimwe chinhu, akakurumidza kudzidza kuti kuitira kuti ndigoverane mukufadzwa kwake, chinhu chacho chaifanira kuiswa muruoko rwangu kutanga uye ipapo ndakazviona.
Izvo zvaiva zvechokwadi nokudzungudza musoro wake mukupindura kumubvunzo: kuti ndive nehanya neni, aifanira kushandisa mazwi kupfuura mutauro waakashandisa naamai vake nababa.
Izvozvo zvakave nyore nyore kudzidzisa chizvarwa chinotevera!
Nzira Nhatu Kurarama Sekuru naVaNono Pasi
Heano nzira 8 iwe unogona kukudziridza ukama hunobatsira uye hwekubatana nevabereki vako. Yeuka, aya mazano anobva pane zvaidiwa nemzukuru wangu, saka iva nechokwadi chekudzidza kuti zvinhu zvipi zvizvarwa zvako zvinonakidza uye iwe uchange uri mukukunda zvakare.
Funga Mutauro Wako
Vana vanodzidza nemuenzaniso. Zvatinotaura uye zvatinoita zvinoita kuti 'nyika ione' zvikuru. Saka, zvakakosha kushandisa mutauro wakanaka kana uchivadzidzisa nezvekurasikirwa kworatidzwa. Pane 6 C-Words iwe unogona kuvadzidzisa pakarepo .
Ichokwadi chokuti iwe une chiratidzo chakaderera ikozvino hachisi dambudziko asi chinhu chaicho. Zvakanaka kuratidza kuti iwe hausi munhu asingakanganisi nokuti iwe ndiwe chete mumhuri uye munharaunda yavanoziva ivo vari kurarama nekuona kusagadzikana.
Pane kudaro, ita nzira yekutamba yekukurukura nevana vako uye uite kuva bofu kana kutadza kuona zvisikwa zvipenyu zvehupenyu hwavo zvakare.
Vana vanongotanga kuziva, saka vanokurudzira kutaura kwemashoko kuburikidza nekuve vakasununguka kumibvunzo yavo yese, kunyanya 'vasina kuchenjera' -cho yose chikamu chekuvabatsira kuti vaone kubva pane zvakaderera maonero.
Ida Kuda Kuratidze Zvausingakwanisi
Zviri pachena kuti pachava nemamwe mabasa anoonekwa ausingazokwanisi kuita semunhu anoona asi pane kunzwa uchisuruvara kana kunyadziswa nekushaiwa kwako kwemaziso, shingairira kugamuchira zvaunokwanisa. Nokuita kudaro, iwe unokwanisa zvikuru kuve wakachenjera uye unogona kudzidzisa vazukuru vako kuti vakubatsire kuwana imwe shanduro 'inonakidza' kune basa rinoona.
Somuenzaniso, vanogona kukuunza bhuku ravanofarira kuti vaverenge. Vana vaduku vari kunyanya kufarira mifananidzo yakajeka uye mifananidzo yakakurumidza kuitira kuti mugone kuvabvunza kuti va'verenge 'bhuku kuburikidza nekufambisa nemifananidzo iyo yakaita seyikuisa muchengeti wezvavanoda kuti vaite kana, kana kuti, munogona kupa kuti iite fable inonakidza pamwe chete.
Imwe nzira yekugovera mabhuku ane vazukuru vakwegura ndeyokuteerera kune zvinyorwa zvekare.
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Kutenda Kunobereka Kugutsikana
Iwe uchange uine hupenyu hwehupenyu huri shure kwako somunhu ane unyanzvi huzhinji hunobva pane zvaunofunga. Ziva matarenda ako uye ugovagovera nechivimbo.
Iwe uri mubiki mukuru , murimi wekurima, munhu wekugadzirwa kwemhizha, muiti wezvinhu, anoda mitambo, anofamba? Chinyiko chako chishuwo?
Kuziva simba rako rinogona kugoverana nechivimbo apo iwe unopfuurira pahutano hwehupenyu hwechokwadi kana uchipedza nguva nevana vako. Regai ivo vaone kana iwe uchiita kutaura!
Semuenzaniso, muzukuru wangu uye ini hatina kungonakidzwa nokuva mumunda waamai vake asi isu takachengetedza nguva yedu yekudya mumunda kwemaawa akawanda tichishandisa michero nemiriwo mukuzvifungidzira mumutambo wake wokufungidzira. Too nyore!
Fungisisa. Zvaunofarira uye zvido zvako zvinogona kugoverana nekuvimba uye zvichaunza kuwedzera kwetsva muhupenyu hwevazukuru vako.
Kusiyana ndeyechokwadi the Spice of Life
Edza dash yezvinhu zvose kuti uone kuti chii chinonyanya kukubatsira iwe nevana vako.
Mune mamwe mazwi, usarega zvachose uye unzwe wakakundikana kana mutambo unoona uchidzivirira kutora kwako. Pane kudaro, tanga mutambo iwe unogonawo kutamba nekubatanidza vana kuti vabatsire kuuya nemanzwi matsva.
Muzukuru wangu akafunga kuti zvinonakidza zvikuru kwandiri kuti ndimupe nguruve yepiggyback mupaki. Kunyange zvazvo ndaigona kungoona matanho mashomanana mberi, ndakaramba ndakabata ruoko rwaamai vangu apo muzukuru wangu akanamatira kumusana wangu sediki monkey (uye amai vake vakanga vachiri noruoko rwakasununguka kuti vawane kapu yekofi).
Vana vari masters ekushandisa mafungiro avo, saka tanga kugadzira uye ufare. Usakanganwa, pane mitambo yebhodhi ne tactile marker iyo inogona kukubatsira kuona zvikamu zvemutambo wakafanana nechess kana kupera. Verenga 12 Inofadza Nzira dzekushandisa nzira dzakasiyana-siyana dzeZvondo kuti uwane pfungwa dzakawanda pakushandisa maziso ose ekutamba.
Ngoseka pa Your Bloopers
Wakambocherechedza kangani pazuva zuva vana vanoseka nenzwi guru ? Zvechokwadi vanoziva mararamiro emunharaunda chaiyo uye vanogona kuwana rutivi rwekunakidza rwechinhu chero chipi zvacho-kusanganisira mabhota ako. Usatora zvinyorwa zvavo zvisingabatsiri iwe pachako.
Saka, iwe wakakanganisa uye vari kuseka pazvishongo zvako zvakasiyana-siyana? Vhenekera uye uvaudze kuti uri kuedza kutanga mafashoni matsva. Chinhu chikuru ndechekugara uchitamba uye kuratidza vazukuru vako vanoita zviduku zvishoma nekuda kwekutarira pasi kwete chikuru.
Nzira inotarisa kuupenyu haisi kungochengetwa chete kuonekwa. Kuseka kuchavanza nguva yakawanda yezvinonyadzisa nguva, saka sei usingashandisi kuti zvive zvakanaka?
Iva 'Vabatanidzwa Mukupandukira'
Zvandinoreva izvi ndeyokukurudzira kubatana nevana vako: kushandisa maziso uye ruzivo rwako, iwe unogona kuita chero chinhu chipi nechipi!
Vana vanoona vane vabereki vanoona vanoshandiswa kuongororwa, vakaudzwa zvokuita, uye vanowanzotarisa kuonekwa. Iwe uri pane zvakanaka apa.
Sezvo uri bofu kana usingaoni, unogona kuchinja mararamiro anowanzoitwa. Kumbira muzukuru wako kuti aone zvinyorwa zvaunofunga apo iwe unobatanidza uye vanozofara kuti vave 'murindiri wekuchengetedza' kwekuvandudza kushandura.
Nokudzidzisa muzukuru wako kuti ungabatsirana sei achiri muduku , iwe uri kupawo hutano hwehupenyu mune unyanzvi hwokugoverana - chimwe chinhu chichavashandira zvakanaka mukubata kwavo nevamwe.
Shandisa Intuitive Chenjerera
Kufanana nevakuru, vana vanoda nguva yokutamba uye nguva yekuzorora. Ndakazviona izvi nemuzukuru wangu, aida nguva yekuongorora pamwe chete uye nguva apo aida kutamba ari oga.
Kutendeukira mumararamiro emuzukuru wako wekuzvarwa kwakafanana nekuvandudza kunyatsofungisisa.
Kuziva nguva yekukurudzira mutambo kana kubvumira muzukuru wako kuti apinde muimba yavo ari kutarisana nekutarisa kwavanodikanwa panguva iyoyo nenguva. Imba yose inobatsirwa nekufema uye, chaizvoizvo, iwe uchafara zvakare neharuka kuti uise tsoka dzako mushure mekupedzisira kwekukumbira kwesimba uye basa rinoita basa.
Iwe Ndiwe Chipo Chakanaka Kwavose
Nhamba Yechinhu chimwe chete chaunogona kupa kuvana vako, zvisinei kuti unoona sei maziso ekukwegura, ndezvekuda kwako kuva munhu anoshanda mumararamiro avo.
Usarega kurasikirwa chero kupi zvayo kwechiono kuchimisa iwe kubva pakuva baba vazukuru vakanakisisa iwe unogona kuva.
Pakupedzisira, vazukuru vako vachabudirira pane zviito zvako zve rudo uye nguva yakashandiswa pamwechete mukudzidza zvakawanda pamusoro penyika dzakasiyana-siyana.
Kunyange kana iwe usingakwanise kuva mumuviri wavo, iwe unogona kuchengeta hukama hwako hwakasimba nekugadzira nzira yekukurukurirana inokufananidza iwe mose. Iye zvino kuti muzukuru wangu anokwanisa kunyora zvishomanana, tinogona kutanga kutamba kushandiswa kwemashoko (uchishandisa teknolojia yangu kune mapofu kuti andinyora uye kuverenga) uye inosanganisira pakiti yetikiti kana mabhaloni, izvo ndinoziva kuti achafara kuzogamuchira maari mailbox.
Iwe unogona kushandisa foni, email, kutumesa mameseji, kana chikamu chisingaoneki chezvinhu zvinenge zviri nyore nzira dzokuratidza kuti une hanya, kuti 'Ndinokuda' kuvanhu vaduku muupenyu hwako.
Edza kuyeuka aya mazwi anonyadzisa aMaya Angelou akanyora, "Ndakadzidza kuti vanhu vachakanganwa zvawataura, vanhu vachakanganwa zvawakaita, asi vanhu havazombokanganwi kuti wakaita sei kuti vanzwe."
Pasinei nokuti iwe unotamba kutamba mitambo yavo kana kuti kwete, chera munda wepatch kana kukanda bhora nezukuru vako, kubika batch yekiki pamwe chete kana kuenda kuzororo nemhuri yose, chimwe chinhu icho vazukuru vako vanofanira kukuyeuka pamusoro pako - kwete kushaya kwako kwekuona, asi kukwanisa kwako kupa pachena kubva pamwoyo wako une rudo.
Iye zvino ndiani akati vanasekuru navanasekuru vane maonero mashoma havana basa rinofanira kutamba mumhuri yekushanduka?
Iva nechivimbo, chakanaka nekugadzira - uye ita mararamiro muhupenyu hweaunoda.