Ko mwana wenyu autistic achakura kuti atungamirire hupenyu huri hupenyu?
Mubvunzo uyu unotambudza vabereki chete, asi unogonawo kuva mantra kuna vanasekuru naamai, shamwari, uye mhuri yakakura. "Acharega rini kuita saizvozvo?" "Achazombokwanisa kurarama ari oga here?"
Kunyanya kuipa, idzi mhando dzemibvunzo hazvidziviriki nokuti dzakagadzirirwa kuongororwa kwevidism , kuchinja kwekushandura, kuendesa kune hurumende uye masangano ehurumende, nekukurukurirana nevanopa mazano nevanogadzirisa zvemari.
Zvinoshungurudza, mibvunzo pamusoro pehutano hwemazuva ehurumende yezvidzidzo uye zvido zvinotanga nguva refu mberi kwekugadzirira kwechokwadi kunogona kutanga. Uye, hongu, haawanzoshandisirwi kuwanzoita vana . Vana vanofananidzira, nokuda kwezvikonzero zvisingarevi zvakanyatsoenderana nezvakanaka, zvinofungidzirwa kuti zvinotungamirirwa kune vanozvimiririra, vane ruzivo, vakwegura vanobatana.
Ndiani anobvunza mubereki wemumwe munhu ane makore gumi "achazoroorwa here?" Akabata basa? " Ndiani anobvunza mubereki wechidiki ane makore 14 kuti aise mwana wavo kuburikidza nehuwandu hwekuongororwa kwe "hutano hwehupenyu hunogadziriswa" kutarisa vana vavo vechidiki kukwanisa kuita chigadzirwa, kubika kudya, kana kushandisa mari? Ndezvipi zvinowanzoitika kuchikoro chesekondari nevabereki vavo vanotarisira kuumba chirongwa chenguva refu chekudzidzisa kana kudzidzira kumhizha, dzimba, uye hupenyu hwekuzvimirira? Mhinduro yemibvunzo iyi ndeyechokwadi, kazhinji, kana kuti haina.
Saka, wakapiwa kuti UCHABVUNZWA mibvunzo iyi (uye kuti iwe ungazvibvunza iwe, kunyange iwe usingatauri zvinonzwika), iwe unopindura sei?
Heano mazano matatu.
"Iwe unorevei nezvisizvo?" Zvinoshamisa kuti muzuva rino nezera, vanhu vazhinji vachiri kufunga nezve "vanhu" vakakura sekubatana nebasa renguva yakazara nepenjeni, kuroorana kwevakadzi pamwe chete, 2.5 vana, uye imba yakachengetwa mumasango.
Vanhu vangani vanorarama nenzira iyi? Kwete vakawanda!
Vakuru vechidiki, kunyange nevekufambisa dzidzo yekoroji, vari kuuya kumusha kuna baba nababa - uye vanonamatira kwemakore. Vanhu vakuru vakwegura vari kufamba nevana vavo. Kuroorana kwevanhu vanoita zvepabonde ikozvino mutemo wenyika. Vakawanda vanogara pamwe vasina kuroorana. Mabasa haatauri, uye mapensheni anenge ava kuda kupera. Virtual mabasa, zvenguva pfupi, basa rekonjira, uye mabasa emishandira yakawanda.
Saka ... maitiro e "evhangeri" angave akakodzera sei mwana wako autistic?
"Iwe unorevei pawakakura?" Munzira dzechiJudha, mwana anoonekwa somunhu mukuru ane makore gumi nematanhatu. Mikana yakawanda yakazarurirwa kune vechidiki vane makore 16. Vakomana vanogona kunyorerwa muchiuto pazera remakore gumi nemasere. Kunwa kunobvumirwa pamutemo pa21. IDEA inopa rubatsiro kuvaduku vakuru vane autism kusvikira pakuzvarwa kwavo kwema22. Asi vazhinji vechidiki vechiAmerica, kunyange avo vasina matambudziko akasiyana-siyana, vanovimba nevabereki vavo nokuda kwemari, dzimba, uye mutsigiro wezvetsika mumakore avo makumi maviri.
Vanhu vane autism ndivo, kuburikidza netsanangudzo, kubudirira kunonoka . Muzviitiko zvakawanda, havangambo "kubata." Mune zvimwe zviitiko, zvisinei, nguva inoita mutsauko chaiwo mukugona kwebasa.
Munhu mukuru ane autism "akakura" ava nemakore 21 kana 22? Kana kuti chikonzero chekuzvimiririra munhu akazvimirira chingasarudzwa (sezvinowanzoita kune vakawanda vanowanzoita vanhu vakuru) kusvikira nguva yakareba gare gare?
"Unorevei nekuzvimirira?" Pane chivimbo chakafanana chokuti vanhu vakuru vanofanira kukwanisa kutarisa zvinhu zvose zvehupenyu hwavo voga, pasina rubatsiro. Izvozvo zvinoreva kushanda nguva yakazara, kusika nekuchengetedza hupenyu hune hupenyu hwevanhu uye hwekuzorora, kubhadhara kana kutenga nekuchengetedza nekuchenesa imba, kutenga, kubika, kubhadhara zvikwereti nemitero, kutarisira zvinetso zvehutano uye inshuwarisi yemarudzi ose ... urongwa hunoenderera mberi uye pamusoro.
Zvechokwadi, vashomanana chaizvo vanhu vanonyatsogadzirisa zvose avo " unyanzvi hwekuzvimirira oga " pachavo pachavo. Vanhu vakaroorana vanogoverana mutoro. Vanhu vane mari vakaroorana nevamwe kuti vaite chikamu chakanaka chebasa.
Vanhu vasina kuroorwa vanobvunza shamwari nemhuri kuti vabatsirwe. Vakawanda vanowanzoita kuti vanhu vasakundikana kutarisira mhando yakawanda ye-to-dos - uye, semugumisiro, vanopinda mune chikwereti, vachigara mumarara, kana kukundikana kutarisira zvido zvavo zvehutano.
Tinotarisira (kana kuti kunyange WANT) vanhu vakuru vane autism kuti vanyatsozvimiririra here? Kana tinofanira kufungidzira kuti ivo, kufanana nevamwe vose, vachada mazano nekutsigirwa?