Kubvira pakabuda mwanakomana wangu, Tom, akava wechidiki, ndakanga ndichinzwa nezvekukosha kwe "Independent Living Skills." Sezvo amai vakanaka, zvirokwazvo, ini ndinoda Tom kuti ararame seanozvimiririra sezvinobvira - saka ndakatanga kutarisa mukududzirwa kweUkuzvidzivirira Kwanzvi Hupenyu kuti ndiwane kuti izwi iri rinorevei. Ndakatanga kufunga kuti "Kuzvidzivirira Kwoupenyu" kunongotaura kune unyanzvi hwevechidiki nevechidiki vanodikanwa kupedza zuva - asi kune (kana kuti inogona kuva) zvakawanda kune iyo.
Mitauro yeUnited Living Skills
Chinhu chekutanga chandakadzidza ndechokuti izwi rokuti "unyanzvi hwekuzvimirira" hahusi kushandiswa pasi rose - uye kana rakashandiswa, rinogona kureva zvinhu zvakasiyana kune vanhu vakasiyana. Kune dzakawanda kuongorora zviyero uye miedzo. Kakawanda, Unyanzvi hweKuzvidzivirira hupenyu hunoputsika humwe humwe hutano hwehutano hunobatana - hwakadai se:
- Unyanzvi hwehupenyu (kazhinji zuva rinokosha kune rimwe zuva unyanzvi hwakafanana nekugona kudzimba, chipfeko, kudya, nezvimwewo)
- Unyanzvi hwekushanda (kazhinji koni yekushanda mumamiriro ezvinhu chaiwo akadai sekirasi, yekudya, bhazi, nezvimwewo kunze kwekuda rubatsiro rwakakosha kuti uite zvisarudzo zvakakodzera uye kutora matanho akakodzera; kuita nzira yako kuburikidza nechikafu chechikoro kungava unyanzvi hunoshanda)
- Unyanzvi hwekuvaraidza kana zvekuvaraidza (izvi zvinowanzosiyana, asi zvinogona kusanganisira kuenda kumafirimu, kutora chikamu mumutambo wezemitambo, kuenda kuraibhurari, nezvakadaro.)
- Basa kana unyanzvi hwemhizha (zvose kubva pakuzvibata uye kupfeka zvakakodzera kusvika pakushanda panguva, kubatana nevamwe kune kubasa, nekuita basa)
- Unyanzvi hwemagariro evanhu kana huri pakati pevanhu (izvi zvinogona kureva kukwazisa vanhu zvakakodzera, asi zvinogonawo kusanganisira chero chinhu kubva pakubata hukama hwepabonde nenzira dzakakodzera dzokutaurirana nemudzidzisi kana kuti nhengo imwe yeboka)
- Unyanzvi hwekombiyuta (unokwanisa kushandisa foni? Kombiyuta here? Iwe unogona kutarisa pamusoro pekuziva, kubhadhara zvinhu paIndaneti, nezvimwe?)
Mumwe nomumwe wemapoka aya eunyanzvi, hongu, anoumbwa nemapoka mashoma emakondomu. Kuenda kumafirimu, somuenzaniso, zvinogona kusanganisira kukwanisa kuziva kana bhadhiyo iri kutamba, enda kune firimu nenguva, kubhadhara tikiti, kutenga mabiko, kutarisa firimu zvakakodzera, uye wodzokera kumba zvakare. Zvinogonawo kusanganisira kupfekedzwa uye kugadziriswa usati wabva mumba, kuve nechokwadi chokuti musuo wakavharwa (asi kuti kiyi dziri muhomwe yako) nezvakadaro.
Kuongororwa Kwemwana Wako Ari Kuyaruka
Nemhaka yokuti hapana munhu anoongororwa akapiwa mubhodhi, humwe huongorori hwakapiwa iwe kana mwana wako hungave huwandu uye hunoitirwa munhu wese ane makore 14-22 (kana kupfuura). Somugumisiro, zvimwe zvekuongorora zvinoratidzika kuti zvinosanganisira zvachose unyanzvi hupi hwomunhu mukuru akakurira ari oga mumusha wavo pachake asina rubatsiro chipi zvacho chingadikanwa kuti atore chikamu zvachose mumamiriro ese ehupenyu.
Kunyange zvazvo humwe hutano hunotsanangurwa huri hukuru (bvudzi rinoputika, somuenzaniso), humwe hutano hunotsanangurwa mune izvi kuongororwa huri kupfuura 99% yevaya vechidiki kana vechidiki kunyange kufunga nezvekuita. Kuongorora kweKushanda Kushanda Kushanda, somuenzaniso, kunotanga nezvinokosha-hutsanana, kupfeka, kudya, kugadzirisa - asi zvino hunoenderera kune unyanzvi hwakawanda huripo kubva pane zivo yakazara yekugadzirisa pamba kukwanisa kubata zvakananga zvirwere zvinokurumidza.
Mukutaura, mushure mokunge vatora imwe kana imwe Kuongorora kweKushanda kweKuishanda kweKuyanzvi, hutungamiri rweIEP (kana rimwe boka rekuchengetedza kana munhu ari kupfuura 22) achaisa zvirongwa zvakananga kudzidzisa unyanzvi uhwu. Nokudaro, kune munhu asiri kukwanisa kutarisira nzvimbo yekudya, chinangwa chinogona kuputsa unyanzvi hwokubatanidza kutora tereyi, kuita sarudzo dzakakosha, kubhadhara zvokudya, kutora zvokudya kune tafura, kudya zvakakodzera, uye nekudaro tafura. Munhu iyeye angave ane zvinangwa zvakare zvine chokuita nekukurukurirana, kufamba, uye zvakadaro.
Nhanho yekutanga pakuwana zvinangwa izvi uye zvigadziro zvakagadzirirwa ndezvokutora zvidzidzo; matanho anotevera, zvisinei, angave akaoma kuisa munzvimbo.
Zvakaoma kufungidzira chero purogiramu inogona kudzidzisa chero ani zvake nzvimbo yose yeUnited Living Skills - kunyange zvichida, vamwe vanobudirira.