Apo mwanakomana wangu aiva nemakore matatu, aida Sesame Street. Ari iye zvino 19. Achiri kuda Sesame Street, "Little Mermaid," mabhuku emifananidzo, uye Thomas the Tank Engine. Anokwanisa kutarisa mafirimu akafanana neeDisney kakawanda, uye anoziva zita remotokari imwe neimwe ye "Island of Sodor". Anoda kusika maonesheni uye "nyika" ne legos, achiteerera Disney mumhanzi, nekuwana mifananidzo inonakidza kubva kune zvisikwa zvenyika (masaga, somuenzaniso) pamakombiyuta ake.
Izvi zvinonakidza hazvina kukuvadza munhu. Uye nepo ivo vasina "kukodzera kukodzera" kune jaya, ivo vanonyatsochengeteka uye vanofara kupfuura, vanoti, mitambo yemavhidhiyo nemavhidhiyo pamusoro pekuuraya uye kuba kana kutsvaira nekutsvaga kana mapoka emakwenzi kana kuti zvepabonde zvisina kufanira - zvose zvinganzi " chimiro "varume munharaunda yedu.
Saka sei vanhu vachifunga kuti havakwanise kutenderera kune vanhu vane zvido zvavo "nguva isingakodzeri?"
Mhinduro yacho iri nyore. Vanhu vanoratidzira zera zvakada kufanira zvakasiyana. Kusiyana kunoreva weird. Vanhu vane hanya vanotya . Vana vanotya vana vanodzingwa, vanonyombwa, uye vanodheererwa. Vanhu vanotya vanoparadzaniswa uye vari voga, uye vane nguva yakaoma zvikuru yekuvaka hukama, kuwana nokuchengetedza mabasa, kana kunyange kugamuchirwa sevanhu vanozvipira munharaunda.
Vanhu vane autism vane matambudziko makuru nekukurukurirana kwevanhu . Wedzera mazera-asina kukodzera nyaya dzekufarira nekukurukurirana, uye izvo zvinetso zvinogona kuva zvipingamupinyi zvisingagoneki.
Vanhu Vanokwanisa Sei Kudzidza Kuva Nehuwandu-Hwakanaka Inofarira
Tingaremekedza sei nzvimbo dzevidistic dzechifambiso uyewo tichibatsira kutsigira kwevanhu vechokwadi nekuremekedzwa? Haisi nguva dzose zvakaoma sezvazvinonzwika!
- Tsanangura uye kurukura nyaya yacho. Kana mwana wako ari kukwanisa kukurukura nekunyatsonzwisisa hutsika hwevamwe vanhu, sei usina kungoita hurukuro? Udza mwana wako chokwadi: Vanhu vane hutano hwevanhu vane hutano husingazivikanwi. Vanoti vanokoshesa kusina chisimba, nhau dzakanaka-uye zvino vanozvidya mwoyo kana mwana akwegura kana munhu mukuru achiti "Ndinoda chaizvo kutarisa mafirimu aDisney, handizvo?" Zvakanaka kutaurira mwana wako kuti, kana zvaanoda zvakanyatsonaka, vamwe vanhu vachavawana vachivhiringidza - uye naizvozvo zvakanakisisa kufara nekukurukurirana izvo zvinodiwa kumba kana neshamwari dzinowatora.
- Gadzira pane zviripo zvekufarira. Zvinokwanisika kufara naTomasi Tangi Engine uye VANHU vanofarira kudzidza nezvekufamba pazvitima chaiyo. Kana mwana wako achikwanisa kubudisa kubva pane zvaanoda zveTV, iwe unogona kumukuratidza nyika yose yezvido zvinofambidzana zvinowanzosangana nekugamuchirwa kubva kune neurotypical world.
- Wedzera zviitiko zvitsva nemikana pasina kubvisa zvido zvepo . Munhu anoda Elmo angadawo kufamba, mafirimu anovhiringidza, model rocketry, kana kuunganidza dombo. Panzvimbo pokuisa pfungwa pane izvo "zvakaipa" naElmo, funga kubatsira mwana wako kukurisa nyika yake. Sezvo zvitsva zvinowedzera kuve zvakakosha, zvinofadza zvekare zvingatanga kupera zvishoma.
- Tsvaga mamiriro ezvinhu ayo "zvisina kufanira" zvinodiwa. Zvinogona kuva "zvinoshamisa" kuti mwana akwegura averenge mabhuku ezvifananidzo kwaari - asi zvakanaka kuti averenge mabhuku iwayochete kuvana vaduku kuchikoro kana muraibhurari. Zvinogona kuva "zvishamiso" kune munhu mukuru kuti aende kuona peji itsva yePixar ari oga, asi zvakanaka kuti uite kudaro mune boka remhuri rinosanganisira vana vaduku. Sezvinobvira, unogona kukwanisa kubatsira mwana wako kuti awane nguva yakakodzera uye nzvimbo kuti afarire kufarira kwakanyanya.
- Tsvaga zvimwechetezvo asi zvimwe "zvinogamuchirwa nevanhu". Zvisinganzwisisiki, achiri wechidiki uyo anoda Sesame Street "ane chisimba," wechidiki anoda Muppets angatorwa se geeky uye (mune dzimwe mimwe) kinda inononoka. Munhu mukuru anotamba nemabhuloki haana maturo, asi munhu mukuru anovaka zvivako zvakaoma zveGego ndiye muveki (uye zvigadziro zvino zvave zvakakosha zvikuru!). Mukadzi anopfeka seChris White kungoshamisika angave asinganzwisisiki, asi mukadzi anoenda kuComicon (comic book assembly) akapfeka seWonder Woman inotyisa.