Kubatsira Vana Vechiito Kuti Vave Vanokurukurirana

Zvose zvinotendwa nehutori zvinotungamirira kune chinangwa chekushamwaridzana

Chero zvingave mazita avo, vatsiki, tsanangudzo kana mafilosofi, chinangwa chezvose zvinodavirwa ne autism-zvinoshandiswa.

Socialization haisi chinhu chakafanana ne " ruzivo rwemagariro evanhu ." Icho chikuru kwazvo kupfuura icho. Icho, chaizvoizvo, nzira yekudzidzisa munhu kuti angararama sei munyika yevamwe vanhu. Inotanga pakuberekwa, kubvisa, kutarisa kwemaziso, kuchema, uye kutaura, uye inopfuurira anenge zuva rose, zuva rega rega, kwehupenyu hwedu hwose.

Pasinei nokuti tiri kutarisana neshamwari, kuenda kuchikoro, kushanda, kutamba, kuverenga kana kutarisa TV, kutamba mitambo, kuimba, kudya ... isu tiri kutarisana nezvimwe zvehukama hwevanhu.

Vana vanorambidzwa mukana wekugarana nevamwe (vana vanogara vari pamusana pekushungurudzwa, maitiro akasiyana-siyana ekugadzirisa masangano, nezvimwewo) vasingadzidze kunzwisisa kana kushandisa zvishandiso zvinokosha zvekubatana kwevanhu: kutaura, kubata, mutauro, nezvimwe. iwe uri mubereki wemwana ane autism, unogona kuona kuti mwana wako ane zvimwe zviratidzo zvekuzviparadzanisa, kunyange zvazvo iye asina kunge ari oga. Kuzviparadzanisa, munyaya ye autism, kunobva mukati mukati.

Kukurukurirana Kwemagariro Pamusoro Pamusoro Pokugadzikana kana Kushamwaridzana Kwomweya Here?

Iwe unobatsira sei mwana uyo ari oga-oga kuti ave shamwari? Kusiyana kwehutachiona-zvakasiyana-siyana kunotanga nemafungiro akasiyana pamusoro pezvinangwa zvekushamwaridzana - uye saka vanosvika nenzira yacho zvakasiyana.

Iko kushamwaridzana kunonyanya here pamusoro pekudzidza nekutevera mimwe mitemo yemitemo uye zvivakwa, kuitira kuti iite kuti dzidzo, basa, kuvimba uye kuchengeteka pamwe chete? Kana zvakadaro, kungodzidzisa nekusimbisa mitemo kunogona kunge iri nzira yakanakisisa yekushamwaridzana nemwana. Behaviorists vanotenda zvakasimba mune nzira iyi, uye vanoitumidza kuti Applied Behavioral Analysis (ABA) kana mamwe mazita akafanana.

Ko kushamwaridzana kunonyanya kuitika pakuva "vanhu vakawanda," kuti iwe ugone kugovana uye unakidzwe nezvibereko zvekudyidzana, tsika uye hukama hwevanhu? Kana zvakadaro, ipapo kukudziridza kugadzikana kwepfungwa kuri pamwoyo wekushamwaridzana. Vashandi vezvepfungwa vanobudirira vanowanzotamira mune izvi, uye vanodana nzira dzavo Floortime, RDI, uye mazita akawanda akafanana.

Zvechokwadi, vanhu vakawanda vaiti "musava mapenzi: hukama hwevanhu hahusi kungoita maitiro chete, uye hausi kungofanana nehukama. Hunosanganisira zvose, uye tinofanira kudzidzisa zvose!" Uye vanhu vazhinji vaizova vakarurama chaizvo.

Chikonzero nei Tichida Maitiro Okuita uye Mafungiro

Iko kunobvunza mubvunzo "nei tichiparadzanisa maitiro ehutano uye hukama, uye kudzidzisa zvimwe / kana, kana zvose zviviri / uye zvingava zvakanakisisa zvevana vedu?" Ndiko: sei isu sevabereki tichikumbira kusarudza pakati pehutano hwemhando dzakasimba kana chirwere chakakura chokukurudzira apo vana vedu vanonyatsoda zvose?

Mumakore achangopfuura pane kuve nekubatanidzwa kwehutungamiri uye kubudirira kuburikidza nemapurogiramu anosanganisira, semuenzaniso, ABA muzvigadziro zvezvisikwa , kana Social Stories sechishandiso chekudzidzira maitiro. Zvirongwa zvakadaro, zvisinei, zvinoramba zvisingawanzoitiki, zvinowanzowedzera hutsika, uye zvinogona kunge zvakaoma kuwana.

Mhinduro yacho inoratidzika kuva mari yakawanda kudarika iyo inoshanda. Vadzidzisi vega uye vatsvakurudzi vakazvigadzira ivo pachavo chaivo vanozivikanwa nevematist therapies, uye vari mubhizinesi rekutengesa iyo mishonga kuvabereki, zvikoro uye vezvenyeredzi vezvehutano. Chero iyo Social Stories, RDI, Floortime, VLBA, SCERTS, TEACCH kana imwe yeridhi-chaiyo yekurapa, iyo inowanikwa uye inoshandiswa neboka kana mapoka everapist avo vari mubhizimisi kwete kungobatsira vana vedu asi ZVA kuti vaite zita ivo pachavo uye (nenzira) kuvaka uye kuva nemugove. Iwe haugone kutengesa chigadzirwa kana zvisinganzwisiswi zvakajeka sekusiyana nemakwikwi ayo (fungidzira kutengesa Pepsi se "chaizvo zvakafanana naCoke")!

Kunyange ABA, iyo isiri ye "owned" mumutauro mumwecheteyo kuti mamwe mishonga ndeyeyo, inowanikwa muhumbwa hwakaiswa mumasangano akawanda anovaka, somuenzaniso, ABA software, ABA mavhidhiyo, nezvakadaro.

Nepo pasina chakakanganisika nekusika uye kutengesa chirongwa chepamutemo chekurapa, uye hapana chakaipa pakuzviitira zita, rinoisa vabereki mukunamatira.

Tingayambuka sei kupatsanurana, kuitira kuti vana vedu (uye vanhu vakuru) vagone kuwana zvakanakisisa zvakakosha zvinobatsira zvekushamwaridzana? Kusvika ikozvino, hazvisi nyore. Vabereki vanofanira kusanganisa uye kuenzanisa, kuedza nemishonga uye vanachiremba, uye kazhinji vanobudisa mari yakawanda kune vanorapa majekiseni kuitira kuti vaise pamwe purogiramu yakazara yekushamwaridzana. Panguva iyi, chokwadi, isu isu vabereki tinofanira kunyanya kunyatsocherechedza kuti tingasarudza sei kushanda nevana vedu uye kuti ndiani. Hazvina mhosva kuti hutano hunokosha sei, hapana mumwe wedu (ndinotarisira!) Ari mumusika wezviito zvekurova, robotic mhinduro kana kudzidza zvinyorwa. Zvatinenge tichitarisira, kuvana vedu, ndezvekuti vanogona kupinda mukati uye vashandise zvishandiso zvehukama hwevanhu kuti vazvibatsire ivo kuvaka hupfumi, hunobudirira hupenyu hunogoneka.