Kana pane imwe nharo inogoverwa nevana vaduku vane autism, zvinonetsa kuburikidza neunyanzvi hwekudlala . Vaduku vane autism vanogona kukwira kumusoro kana kuvhara matoyi, kutamba ivo pachavo uye kudzivisa kushamwaridzana nevezera ravo, kana kuti kungofamba, dombo kana kuti dzimwe nguva kupedza nguva munyika yavo.
Ndizvo kuzvidzora kunoita kuti zvive zvakaoma kuvana vevististic kudzidza kubva mukutevedzera, kushamwaridzana nevamwe vana, kana kubatana nevanhu vakuru muupenyu hwavo.
Panofungidzira, vabereki vanogona kuita basa rinokosha mukudzidzisa chaizvo vana vavo vemaviri kutamba. Asi apo "kutamba nemwana wako" kunonzwika sechinhu chisingaiti, chinogona kuva chakanyanya, chakaoma zvikuru kumubereki we autistic mwana.
Chikonzero Nei Zvakaoma Kwazvo Kutamba neChipiri Chechipiri
Kunyange zvazvo vamwe vanhu vakuru vachiona zviri nyore kutamba nevana vose, vazhinji havanyatsoziva kuti vangaita sei nechinguva chiduku. Vana vanofananidzira vanobatsira vanhu vakuru nekukumbira kuti vaite "kutamba", kana kuti "kukanda bhora," kana kuti kutora chikamu mumutambo. Vana vane chiremera, zvisinei, havangauyi chinhu kune munhu mukuru. Zvechokwadi, zviri kumunhu mukuru kuti aone kuti angabatanidzwa sei uye kukurukura nemwana angave asina chaanofarira kutamba. Semagumo:
- Hazvisi nyore nguva dzose kutora kutarisa kwemwana anonzi autistic kana kuisa pfungwa dzavo kune imwe nguva kana kupfuura
- Kana wabatanidzwa, mwana ane autism anowanzoda kuita zvinhu zvakafanana kakawanda, uye zvinogona kuva zvakaoma kuputsa tsika
- Vana vane autism havawanzouyisa mazano avo kana simba kuti vatevedzere kutamba, saka pfungwa dzose nesimba zvinofanira kubva kumubereki. Izvi zvinogona kuva zvinotyisa uye zvinogumbura.
- Zvinhu zvinowanzoshandiswa zvatinoshandisa kuita vana, zvakadai sekubvunza mibvunzo, kupa mazano, kutanga basa rinofadza, rinogona kutora mwana wacho ne autism.
Asi zvinhu zvose izvi hazvirevi kuenzaniswa nevabereki kunyatsonzwisisa kurwadziwa uye kushungurudzika apo mwana wavo pachake haazviremekedze mukufarira nyika yega kana chinhu. Hongu, vabereki vakawanda vanogona kudarika kunzwa kwekuramba kurongedza nzira itsva dzekuita nekubatanidza. Asi patinosvika kumwana wedu uye iye anotinyengera, patinenge tichimbundira mwana wedu uye iye achibvisa, patinobata mwana wedu uye achiita seasingazivi, zvakaoma zvakanyanya kuwana simba rekunetseka kuramba richiedza.
Chimwe chinetso chikuru ndicho chokwadi chinosuruvarisa kuti chakaipa vabereki vakawanda vakakanganwa kutamba chete. Zvechokwadi, vanogona kutamba mitambo yebhodhi kana zvemitambo, asi pfungwa yekuzvifungidzira kuva mumwe munhu kana chimwe chinhu chavasingaiti hachifadzi zvakare. Vabereki vakawanda vanogona kuronga matamba ekutamba uye vamire shure apo vana vavo vanomhanya vachitamba. Asi vabereki vane autistic vana havana mararamiro akadaro.
Kunyangwe nekutsigirwa uye ruzivo pamusoro pe "kutamba sei nevana vako vane autistic," vabereki vakawanda vanonzwa vachinetseka nedambudziko. Kune dzimwe nzira dzakawanda dzekutanga kutamba nevana vako ve autistic, pamwe chete nemishonga inotungamirirwa nevabereki kukubatsira kubatsira mwana wako kuvaka mamhanzi ekutamba.
Mazano Okutamba neMwana Wako Wekutendera
Kunyange kana kutamba kusingauyi kwauri, iwe unogona kushandisa dzimwe dzedzidzo dzinoedza uye dzechokwadi kuti ubate mwana wako uye ufare pamwe chete.
- Kana uri nekutambudza kutora mwana wako kubva pane "basa raunoda" (kuvhura nekuvhara suo, kuisa zvinhu, uye zvakadaro), mhinduro yakanakisisa ndeyokubatanidza mwana wako mubasa racho. Kana uchinge wava nehanya navo, edza kusiyanisa basa iri ((somuenzaniso) kuwedzera dambudziko duku kana kutamisa chinhu chisingawani. Mwana wako achada kuuya kwauri kuti arambe achiita zvaanofarira, uye iyo ndiyo kutanga kwekutaurirana .
- Dzinganisa uye kutamba mitambo kunowanzoita mwana wechidiki asingadikanwi uyo asina chokwadi kuti angataura sei nemashoko kana kuti anopindura nenzira yakasununguka.
- Mabhudzi aya anoshamisa mashizha ekubatana uye kutamba. Itai zvakawanda zvemabvu zvakakurumidza uye ipapo imwe huru bubble zvishoma nezvishoma. Shandurudza.
- Mashupiti anogona kuwanana nevana kana vanhu vasingagoni. Kushandisa zvipfeko zvevanhu vanofarira dzimwe nguva zvinogona kuita kuti zvinoshamisa zviitike.
- Mvura inogona kuve nzira inonyanyisa yekuseka nemusikana wega autistic playmate. Pasinei nokuti iwe uri kutamba neipini kana mudziva, kana kungopinda mubhati kana mubhodhoro remvura, unogona kuva nemvura yakawanda isina kunakidza kunze kwekudiwa kwekutaura kana kukwikwidzana.
- Kunyange vana vane autism vangava nenguva yakaoma mukusununguka kutamba, vanowanzoona zviri nyore kubata nomusoro zvinyorwa. Iwe unogona kuvaka pamusoro pekugona uku kuburikidza nekudzokorora kana kuimba pamwe chete kubva pane imwe mudhiyo yeTV. Kunyange kana iwe usingati "kutamba" muchirevo chenguva dzose, iwe unogona kutenderera, kuita zviitiko, uye kunyange kutarisa pamwe chete.
> Sources:
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