Wati wambonzwa here vanhu vachiramba mitambo senzira dzezvakaitika kare dzezvitendero zvekare? Iko kunopesana kusiyana kweivo kana tsika idzi dziri kuEastern, Western, kuchengetedza, kana kusununguka. Vanhu vanoita nharo kuti kunyange zvazvo zviito izvi zvingava zvakanaka uye zvekare, hazvina zvigaro muupenyu nhasi. Hapana chinogona kuwedzera kubva muchokwadi, kunyanya kune vanochengeta avo vari kushumira vadikanwa vane zvirwere zvisingaperi kana zvinopfuurira.
Kwavari, kushandiswa kwemitambo kunogona kuva chinhu chinokosha mubasa ravo rinobatsira munhu wavanotarisira uye ivo pachavo.
Nheyo uye Nhoroondo Dzakakosha
Kadhidheni Theodore McCarrick weWashington, DC aidavira kare kare, zviratidzo nemitambo zvakakosha muhupenyu hwevanhu vakanga vasina kukwanisa kuverenga. Avo vaitonga vanhu uye vaive nekuverenga nekunyora kushandiswa zviratidzo nemitambo yekudzidzisa uye kudzidzisa vanhu vazhinji. Kudzora uye dzidzo zvinogona kutsanangura kuti sei tsika dzaikosha munguva dzepakati, asi unotsanangura sei simba razvino richiri muna 2016? Uye kunyanya kukosha, kushandiswa kwemitambo kunoguma mune chero chinhu chakanaka here?
Mitambo yechitendero uye isiri yechitendero yakakomberedza isu kubva kuChechi yekutendeuka kusvika kutamba rwiyo rwenyika pakutanga kwezvidzidzo zvemitambo. Chii chiri pamusoro pemitambo iyo yakakosha zvikuru iyo inoyambuka yose yechitendero uye isiri yechitendero?
Uye nei vanhu vane hanya vachichimbundira?
Zvaunofanira Kuita: Yeuka pamusoro pehukama hwemhuri hunogona kunge huine tsika dzechitendero. Kukosha kwaro kwauri ndeyekuti ingakwanisa kushanda basa rakanaka mukutarisira kwako. Sevaya vanochengeta, iwe hausi kungozvitarisira zvido zveumwe munhu, asi zvakare kuedza kuva nehanya nemanzwiro avo.
Chimwe chinhu chakakosha pakugadzirisa kurasikirwa ndiko kurasikirwa nomunhu anowanikwa nezvirwere zvisingaverengeki, zvakaoma, kana zvinopfuurira. Nekurasikirwa ikoko kunouya kuputsa nezvakaitika, kazhinji zvezviitiko zvinofadza zvichiri kuyeuka. Iwe unogona kubvisa chikamu pakati pekurasikirwa uye zvaive zvichibvira nekushandisa mitambo. Kuwirirana nezvakaitika hakungave kwakakosha sezvo uchiri kukwanisa kuita zvisati zvaitika zvirwere, asi zviri nani pane kugara pane kurasikirwa.
Ritual and Outsiders
Masangano mazhinji ane tsika uye mhemberero dzinozvitsaura kubva kune mamwe mapoka. Tinowana izvi kuMoose's Lodge pamwe chete nemakororo emigwagwa. Kunyangwe mumwe munhu ari purezidhendi weboka rinobatsira rakatsaurirwa kubatsirwa nevana vanotambura mune zvehupfumi kana kuti nhengo itsva yechikoro chechikoro chechikoro chinofarira mabasa asina pamutemo; tsika dzinosiyanisa nhengo dzayo kubva kune "kunze." Kusiyana kwakadini mapoka emigwagwa 'akapfeka mavara kupfuura Shriner's Fez?
Tsika ndiyo nzira yekureva kuti isu takasiyana, isu tiri vakasiyana. Icho chinogona kusanganisira zvipfeko zvakasvikwa zveMasons, kushandiswa kwemapfupa muOdd Fellow zvidzidzo kana kurwisana nechisimba mutori weropa rutsva rinotarisirwa kupikisa kurwisana. Kunyange zvazvo pasina kuenzana kwakangofanana nokuva nekunze kwemazita ekuchengetedza-kunze kwekufananidzirwa kune unyanzvi hwekuchengeta-kukosha kunzwisisika kuti tsika dzinogona kuita kuti munhu anotarisirwa kunzwa anokosha .
Nzira inogona kuumba kuchinja kwakanaka Munyika inopera yevanhu vane chirwere chisingaperi kana chinopfuurira chinokonzera kuparadzana. Mumwe muchengeti akanditaurira kuti panzvimbo yekuedza kugutsikana nemurume wake kuti kushushikana kwemoyo wake hakuna kumuparadzanisa, akashandisa kurega kuti aite nzvimbo ine rugare. Mamwe masikati masikati akaunganidza mail inouya, uye pamwe nemurume wake vaitema zvinyorwa zvose zvemashure maipinda mumoto waisakosha muupenyu hwake. Mutsara wakapisa mapepa uye vose vakafara mukuderedza kwechange chisisakakosha muupenyu hwavo. Kupisa kwemajeri isina junk kwakava tsika yaiita kuti vaviri vavo vanyaradzwe.
Zvaunofanira Kuita: Zvinoratidzika kusazvidzivirira kukudza mamiriro ekurapa sechinhu chinogona kutungamirira kune manzwiro akanaka. Kuumba maitiro akangwara anobva mukurwara kana chirwere hachirevi kana kuti hazvisi zvechokwadi. Pane kudaro, chiito chacho chinonyanya kufunga chimwe chinhu chakanaka mukati mamiriro ezvinhu anotyisa anokwanisa kukurudzira manzwiro sekusimudzira sezvaakaitira murwere uyo akangodaro akadzinga mail pasina. Tora kunyanya kunetseka pamusoro pemamiriro emunhu waunoda uye uite tsika dzakanaka dzinogona kuderedza zvakaipa zvayo.
Rituko Simba uye Yekare
Mitambo inogona kugadzira kuwirirana nezvakaitika zvinonakidza, zvinopa, kana kunyaradza kune izvo zvinowanikwa munguva ino. Munyori, Robert Penn Warren akati nhoroondo haigoni kutipa purogiramu yenguva yemberi, asi inogona kutipa kunzwisisa kwakakwana kwedu isu, uye yevanhu vedu vese.
Tsika ndeyekubatanidza nehupenyu hwedu. Inogona kuva yechitendero nenzira yekugadzira chimiro chechimiro chakaremekedzwa kana maitiro ezvitendero zvevana vanogadzirira kugadzira bhora. Simba rekubatana pane kuti chitendero kana kuti chisina chitendero chinokosha zvakakosha.
Makore akawanda apfuura, ndakadzokera kune duku kumabvazuva kwePennsylvania muguta kwandakakurira. Zvimwe zvisina kuchinjwa ndiyo yemitambo yemavhidhiyo yandakaenda kuMugovera wega wega masikati ndichivanza chiso changu pose apo Dracula akazviratidza uye achichema achifara Hopalong Cassidy sezvaaipfura pfuti kubva muruoko rwemunhu akaipa pasina kumukuvadza.
Nenguva dza10: 00 mangwanani ndakawana maneja wemitambo achigadzirira manheru ekuratidzira. Ndakamubvunza kana zvaizobvira kudzungaira kuburikidza neimba iyo pandakanga ndiine dzimwe nguva dzinofadza zvikuru semucheche. "Chokwadi," akadaro.
Pandakafamba mberi kwechimiro chekuzorodza, ndakarangarira mazino ekutenga-kuora candy uye mapikoni ayo maziso asina kuwanikwa aigara achiita kuti ndikwanise kupwanya meno angu. Ndakapinda nepamukova wekupinda kuruboshwe, ndakanyarara ndichifamba pasi, uye pane chigaro changu chaidiwa pamagumo emutsara we8 ndakagara mumakore anopfuura makumi matanhatu apfuura. Sezvo ndakagara mariri, zvifananidzo zvekare zvakapisa mupfungwa dzangu: Abbot na Costello, Hopalong Cassidy, Buck Rogers, uye Our Gang Kids. Kushayikwa kwakanga kwakaparadzirwa Ju-Ju Nenyuchi dzaizoramba dzichibatisisa tsvina yangu pasi.
Yaiva tsika yakasimba seMisa yeKaturike, kutsanya paJudhiya Yom Chipper, kana kukumbira neBuddhist katatu kupa kuvonga. Simba remitambo yangu yakagadzirwa nokukurumidza yakanga yakaenzana neipi inosanganiswa nechitendero; kunonditorazve kune chikamu chinokosha chehupenyu hwangu. Vatarisiri vanogona kushandisa mitambo inobatanidza kune yavanoda yakapfuura yakaita kuti vave nerunyararo sezvakaitwa kune nyanzvi yandinoshanda mumakore makumi mapfumbamwe nemasere ayo akanga ari nheyo yekutanga kwechikwata chinonyatsozivikanwa kumadokero kwechikwata chechikoro chechikoro.
Akange akavharirwa kumubhedha mune imwe nzvimbo yekuchengetedza. Pamadziro uye akapoteredza mukamuri, zvaive zviyeuchidzo kubva pamazuva ake emotokari kubva kuma1950 kusvikira muna 2015. Paiva nemifananidzo, tutu, helmets nguo uye kunyange zviduku zvidhudhudhu. Akatsanangura kuti akatanga zuva rimwe nerimwe nerwendo rwehupenyu hwake, achitanga nemifananidzo yake pechikoro paakange ane makore gumi nemashanu uye apedza nemufananidzo akazvitora pachake pamusangano wake wekupedzisira webhusi.
Zvaunofanira Kuita: Mamiriro ezvinhu akawanda ekuchengetedza anosanganisira kunyaradza vanhu vakarasika chimwe chinhu chinokosha muupenyu hwavo. Inowanzobatanidza basa kana mano akangodaro akarasika kana ari mukugadzikana kwekunyangarika. Vakawanda vedu tinoziva chakanga charasika hachikwanisi kuwanikwa (p., Kushanda marathons kune mumwe munhu ane chirwere chinoshaya chirwere). Kunyange zvakadaro zviitiko zvisingakanganwiki zvine chokuita nekurasikirwa kwemaitiro zvinogona kuwanikwa kuburikidza nemitambo. Tanga nekuunganidza kukonzera kwekrete (semuenzaniso, mafuti egorofu, mapoka emagariro emagariro, etc.). Zvadaro shandisa iwo sechikonzero chekusika tsika.
Tsika uye Yezvino
Tsika inogonawo kupa kugadziriswa kwezvino. Makore mashomanana akapfuura ndakaenda kune imwe shamwari yekupemberera kudarika kwaRabrador Retriever. Akanga akapoteredzwa nemaruva, rusenzi uye shamwari vachiyeuka nguva dzavo dzinoshamisa naye. Miitiro yangu shamwari yakasikwa kuti iremekedze hupenyu hwayo imbwa yakaguma nemarangariro akanaka kune shamwari dzake dzakapinda mumhemberero pane kuti dzigare pamusoro pegigantic hole yakasara muhupenyu hwake.
Zvaunofanira Kuita: Sekuchengetedza mumwe munhu ane chirwere chakakomba kana chinopfuurira, unotarisana nemukana wokurasikirwa nemunhu waunoda. Iwe unogona kunge uine chokwadi chokuti vachapora, kana iwe une chokwadi iwe ucharasikirwa navo. Pasinei nezvinoitika, iwe unogona kuumba zviitiko zvakanaka. Iwe unogona kugadzira chiyeuchidzo chakajeka uye chinonakidza kubva kunenge chero chii zvacho.
Apo mukwambo wangu akanga achifa, mhuri yaizoungana panhovo yake uye pamwe chete taiyeuka dzimwe nguva dzinonakidza zvikuru dzataiva nadzo naye. Akasimbisa nyaya iyi, achiramba achitikumbira kuyeuka zviitiko zvakanaka muupenyu hwake. Makore mazhinji mushure mokufa kwake, pane mazororo akawanda, taizotiudza nyaya yacho sekuti isu taive zvakare kumativi ake. Tsika iyi yakaita kuti tive pedyo naye uye takasimbisa kurasikirwa kwedu.
Mhedziso
Chinenge chinhu chose chatinowana chinochengetwa sezviyeuchidzo mune imwe fashoni. Zvimwe zviitiko zvakachengetwa sokunge zvisingabatanidzwi mapepa emafirimu ane zvishoma kana kusina kuchinja kubva pane zvakaonekwa. Vamwe vakagadzikana, vachigadzira mifananidzo yezvinhu zvatisati tamboona asi tichida kuti tive nazvo. Pasinei nokuti zvakajeka sei kana kuti zvinokanganisa chiyeuchidzo, chinochengetedzwa, chakamirira kunziwa nemakato, mazwi, kana pfungwa.
Nokugadzira tsika dzakanaka tinopa nyaradzo kune munhu watinotarisira, uye tinotanga danho rekubatana kwemangwana neyekuyeuka munhu watinoda.
Chimiro chiitiko chinokosha chepfungwa chakashanda, ikozvino chinoshumira, uye chicharamba chichishandira chinhu chinokosha chehupenyu: Chinotibatanidza isu nechekare uye chinotipinza isu munguva ino. Kuzvicherechedza kubva pazviri, kuzvicheka wega kubva munhoroondo yedu uye kunotikomberedza kuti tire moga iye zvino. Bvuma tsika uye uishandise kuti ubatsire munhu wauri kutarisira uye kupa nheyo yenguva dzekuyeuka kwako.