Unofanira kutaurira munhu mukuru "iwe unogona kuva autistic here?"
Shamwari yako yekare, hama yako, kana waunoshanda naye anoita sevamwe "vari kure," zvisingawanzoitiki mumitambo yepakombiyuta, zvishoma pane zvekupfeka nekusarudza kwezvokudya. Akave apfuura nekutengeswa, kushamwaridzana kwevanhu, kana kunetswa.
Kuna iwe, chikonzero chezvinhu izvi chinoratidzika pachena: shamwari yako kana hama yako inogona kunge yakagadzirwa.
Unofanira kuitei?
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Iwe usati waita chinhu zvachose, zvakakosha kuziva zvakawanda pamusoro pevhisi kune izvo zvinowanzogoverwa kune vhidhiyo kana shamwari.
Kuti akwanise kuwana chaiyo autism inoratidzirwa, munhu anofanira kunge ane zviratidzo zvizhinji-uye zviratidzo izvi zvinofanira kuva zvakanyanya zvakakwana kuti zvive nehutano hwekugona kwavo kurarama hupenyu huripo. Sezvakakosha, zviratidzo zvinofanira kunge zvaivepo kubva panguva iyo munhu wacho aiva mwana muduku zvikuru.
Kana shamwari yako kana shamwari yako iine autism-yakafanana, dambudziko, ine dambudziko risina kukanganisa hupenyu hwake, kana kuti ichangobva kuwana mamwe matambudziko, haasi autistic.
Heano mamwe mafungiro asina kunaka pamusoro pekuti autism inoratidzika seyii:
- Wandaishanda naye akave akanyara zvikuru kubva pakurambana kwake. Ane shamwari shomanana chete . Kana shamwari yako iine hutano uye iri ikozvino kunyara, autism haisi iyo nyaya. Zvakare, havasi vanhu vose vane autism vane nyadzi! Vanhu vane autism vangave vachinyadzisa kana kuti vanhu-asi vanogona kuwana ruzhinji rwekukurukurirana. Vanogona kutora mhedziso, vachitaura nezve "nyaya", kana kuti kuziva nguva yekubatanidza uye nguva yekufamba kubva pane hurukuro yega.
- Mwanakomana wangu mukuru akapedza chikoro uye ari kubata basa-asi paanenge ari pamba, anonakidzwa nemitambo yeInternet iyo asingadi kubuda mumba. Kana munhu apedza kudzidza kuchikoroji, ari kubata basa, uye zvinoitika kuti atange kufadzwa nekutamba mumutambo, hazviiti kuti iye ari autistic. Kunyange zvazvo vanhu vane autism vachigona kutsungirira (pamusoro-kutarisa) kune dzimwe nzvimbo dzinofarira, kushivirira chete hakukwanisi kukwanisa kugadziriswa. Zvakare, kana nyaya yekutsungirira iri itsva, saka autism haisi dambudziko.
- Mukoma wangu anotya pakombiyuta purogiramu, asi haana kumbokwanisa kuwana musikana. Vanhu vazhinji vane autism vane tarenda yekugadzirisa, uye vashomanana vanoona zviri nyore kushamwaridzana. Asi izvozvo zvinogona kutaurwa kune vazhinji, vanhu vazhinji vasingatendi.
- Hanzvadzi yangu ine nzira imwechete iyo yaanofanira kufamba nayo zuva nezuva . Vanhu vane autism vanowanzofarira zvirongwa zvekugadzirisa zvinopesana nekupesana. Asi chido chekuita, somuenzaniso, kubata zvinhu nenzira imwe chete kuitira kuti uderedze kuzvidya mwoyo, hazviwanzobatanidzwa ne autism. Kana munhu ari mubvunzo asina zvimwe zviratidzo, zvinokwanisika kuti anotambura nechirwere chakadai seCousessive Compulsive Disorder-asi hazviiti kuti iye ari autistic.
Chii Chaunofanira Kuita Kana Uchiri Kufunga Mumwe Munhu Muhupenyu Hwako Ndeye Autistic?
Kutanga, kana munhu mukuru muhupenyu hwako angave, echokwadi, achiongororwa nekushanda kwepamusoro yeA autist (Asperger syndrome), hazvisi zvakafanira kuita chero zvachose. Nokuti (1) zvakaoma kuwana nyanzvi ane ruzivo pakutsvaga vanhu vakuru vane maitiro ekugadzirira autism uye (2) kune vashomanana vepiriniti chaiyo yekurapa kuvanhu vakuru .
Usati wataura chinhu zvachose, saka, zvinokosha kuti uite mari yekukurumidza-kubatsirwa.
Zvibvunze kuti:
- Ndiyo nzvimbo yangu chaiyo kutaura chero chinhu here? Kana uri shamwari yepedyo kana hama yako, mhinduro yacho ingave "hongu," kana zvisina kudaro mhinduro inogona kunge "kwete."
- Zvingava zvinobatsira kutaura chimwe chinhu here? Kana munhu ari mubvunzo achiita seakagutsikana nehupenyu hwaanogara-kunyange kana husingakwanisi-hakungavi nekubatsirwa mukutaura. Kana iye akasurukirwa, akaora mwoyo, kana kuti anonzwa asina kuroorwa, kuongororwa kunogona kubatsira.
- Munhu uyu angangodaro apindura sei? Vamwe vanhu vanozorodzwa nekuongororwa, asi vamwe vakatsamwiswa-uye vamwewo vanongoramba kukanganisa uye kusvetuka pamutumwa.
Tichifunga kuti uri pedyo nemunhu ari mubvunzo, unofanira kukwanisa kunyatsopindura mhinduro idzi uye uuye pane chisarudzo.
Ndeupi Mushonga Wokurapa Unowanikwa kune Munhu Mukuru Aine Autism?
Kazhinji, vanhu vakuru vane autism vanowana kurapwa kwezviratidzo zvakananga kuburikidza nekubatana kwepfungwa (kutaura) therapy, mirayiridzo yakananga yemamiriro ezvinhu evanhu, uye zvakakodzera mishonga. Vanogonawo kusarudza kutsvaga rubatsiro kubva kune unyanzvi hwemhizha kune zvinetso zvemanzwiro: Vanhu vazhinji vari mu autism inoratidzika pamusoro kana kuti pasi-vanoita nekunzwika, chiedza, kurwadziwa, nezvimwe zvakadaro.
Nzira yakanyatsoshanda yekutevera munhu mukuru wevotisi ndeyekuti:
- Tsvaga muchengeti wepfungwa anokwanisa kushanda naye pamagariro ake evanhu uye kunyara (mune dzimwe nzvimbo zvingave zvichikwanisika kuwana chiremba wepfungwa ane ruzivo kushanda nevanhu vakuru mu autism spectrum, asi hazvisi zvachose zvakakosha);
- Funga nezvemishonga chero ipi zvayo inogona kukurudzira mishonga yepfungwa;
- Funga kushandisa mavhidhiyo, mabhuku uye mamwe maturusi anopa mirayiridzo yakananga mukugadzirisa dambudziko mamiriro ekushanda kana munharaunda;
- Funga kubatana nemapoka ekutsigira muIndaneti kune vanhu vakuru vane Aspergers uye nezvinetso zvakasiyana.
Sources:
Gaus, Valerie. Kuchengetedza-Kuita Maitiro Evanhu Vakura Asperger Syndrome. Guilford Press, 2007.
Mandy, Roy et al. Asperger's syndrome muhukuru. Dtsch Arztebl Int. 2009 Jan; 106 (5): 59-64. Yakabudiswa paIndaneti 2009 Jan 30.