Nhasi, murume wangu aifambidzana nemunhu anoziva uyo anoziva mwanakomana wedu Tom. Tom ane makore gumi nemana, ane hurefu hwekushandira autism ; iye anotaura, anofadza, asi zvakajeka "akasiyana." Waizivana akanga anzwa pamusoro pedzimba dzekugara dzaive pedyo nevanhu vane autism, uye vakazvitaurira murume wangu. Pfungwa yake ndeyokuti inogona kuva yakasarudzo yakanaka kune mwanakomana wedu pane imwe nguva munguva yemberi.
Murume wangu akamutenda, asi regai azive kuti chinangwa chedu kuti mwanakomana wedu ararame nesu, zvisati zviripo mune ramangwana risati raona (kunze kwekuti iye achizomuka achienda kuchikoroji kana kuita zvimwe zvekudzidzisa kana zvekusarudza zvinomutora kunze kwenzvimbo ). Kana zvichiita seine musoro, tinogona kumubatsira kuti awane imba kana imwe mamiriro ehupenyu ari pedyo, uye kupa zvigaro sezvavanenge vachida.
Iyi pfungwa yakaita seishamisika kune vatazivana navo. Asi tine zvikonzero zvishomanana zvemaitiro edu ekufunga.
Kutanga, zvinoratidzika zvakasikwa uye zvakajairika kuva nhengo dzemarudzi akasiyana-siyana ari kugara mumhuri vanogara pamwechete. Mushure mezvose, pfungwa yokuti munhu mumwe chete aizoenda kune zvake kuti aise imba yoga ari oga, kutarisira zvinhu zvose zvehupenyu hwezuva nezuva, ichokwadi chaizvo mazuva ano (uye, mumaonero angu, kwete kunyanya kudiwa). Hondo yenyika yechipiri isati yamboshamisa - uye kunyange nhasi, nemabasa akaoma kwazvo kuuya, vana vakawanda vakura vari kuramba vachigara nevabereki vavo kusvika kune makumi maviri uye mberi.
Vanhu vakawanda, autistic kana " neurotypical ," vanoona kushungurudzika kwehupenyu vari voga, vane basa roga rekushanda, kutenga, kubika, kuchenesa, zvikwereti, kugadzirisa pamba, kugadzirisa motokari, kushamwaridzana kwemagariro, kurongeka kwemagariro, nezvimwewo, kuti zvive zvakanyanya. Chii chakakwezva zvikuru?
Chechipiri, nepo kune hupamhi hwepamusoro, sarudzo dzakatsigirwa nevanhu vakuru ne autism , ivo vashoma uye vari kure.
Hakuchina chokwadi chakakomberedza kona kubva kwatiri. Uye kunyange mamiriro ezvinhu akanaka anogona kuchinja munguva, sezvo vashandi vanotendeuka uye vagari vouya vachienda. Nenguva iyo mwanakomana wedu ari mumakore ekuma20, kuchava nemimwe mikana yawanikwa; nokuti ikozvino, kunyange zvakadaro, pfungwa yeboka rekumba kana yekugadzirisa kwakadaro ishoma kunyanya kunetseka.
Chechitatu, takashanda zvakaoma (uye ticharamba tichishanda zvakaoma) kubatsira mwana wedu kuungana neavo vemo. Tiri kugara muguta duku, uye mushure memakore matatu chete iye anoziva uye anozivikanwa nevakawanda vevanhu vaanotaura navo nguva dzose. Vakasununguka, vamiririri, kunyange vanhu vari pa bowling vanoziva zita rake, vanonzwisisa kusiyana kwake, uye vakadzidza kukurukura naye zvakanyarara.
Chechina, Tom akatanga kutora nzvimbo yekuremekedza chaiko munharaunda ino, kunyanya nekuda kwemhanzi yake. Iye atozivikanwa nokuda kwekugona kwake sejazzetist jazz, uye iye achange achitamba neboka reguta nokukurumidza. Izvi zviri kuitika kwete nokuti Tom isimba, asi nokuti tarenda yake uye maitiro edu ekukurukurirana akaita kuti zvikwanisike kuti asangane, ataurirane naye uye azive vamwe vatungamiri vemimhanzi munharaunda yedu. Kana akasiya guta redu, zvose izvozvi - uye kuremekedzwa kwaakawana - kwaizopera.
Chechipiri, tinonakidzwa neshamwari yemwanakomana wedu. Tine nzvimbo yakawanda, uye hatisi kuronga kuenda. Anoita basa rakanaka kushambidza uye kupeta zvipfeko, kudya zvipfuwo, uye kazhinji kuzvitarisira uye kubatsira kunze kweimba. Ndeupi wega wega angawana kuburikidza nekugara kune imwe nzvimbo uye nevanhu vaasati vasangana navo?
Pakupedzisira, tinoda kuti mwanakomana wedu ave neimba yaanonzwa akasununguka uye kwaanozivikanwa uye achida. Nhasi, iye ane isu. Mune ramangwana, angawana shamwari yehupenyu, shamwari, kana imwe nzira. Kana zvisingaiti, munguva yakareba, tichaziva kuti ane imba mune imwe nzvimbo yaanogara nokuda kwehupenyu hwake hwose.
Kana achida, tinogona kuisa hutsiro hwemunhu uye wezvemari pashure pokunge taenda. Kana iye asingachidi icho - zvakanaka, hapana chakarasika.
Zvechokwadi, haasi mhuri dzose dzine vana vane mavhisi vane mari yega kana mari yekuita kuti mwana wavo ararame navo - kana kuti nickel yavo - nokusingaperi. Uye urongwa hwakadaro huri nyore kwazvo nehupamhi hwekushanda kune munhu mukuru kune munhu mukuru anonyatsoda kutarisira nguva yakazara. Zvakare, vazhinji vakura vane autism vangada kugara kunze kweimba yevabereki vavo (uye mwanakomana wedu anogona, zvichida, ave mumwe wavo).
Ndeipipi pfungwa dzako pamubvunzo uyu? Uri kufungira mberi kune mamiriro ekuzvimirira aripo kumwana wako here? Boka reimba? Kana une chirongwa chakasiyana chakareba mupfungwa here?
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