Kupa Mhinduro Kunogona Kuvandudza Shanduko Kana Yakashandiswa Zvakanaka
Wati wamboda here kuti iwe upe mhinduro kuna chiremba wako pamusoro pekuti wakabatwa sei naye kana mushandi wake? Dzimwe nguva zvakaoma kutaurirana nevatapi vezvokurapa. Varwere vanorondedzera kutyisidzirwa, vachitya kutaura kana kutsanangura chikonzero nei vakavhiringidzika kana kuvhiringidzika mukati mekuongororwa uye kurapwa navanachiremba kana vashandi vezvechiremba.
Kana iwe uchinetseka kana kunzwa sokuti chiremba wako haasi kukubata zvakanaka, inguva yekufunga kana kugovera mhinduro iyoyo kuchavandudza ruzivo rwako, kana kuti inguva nguva pane kuchinja vanachiremba .
Vanachiremba ndivo Vanopa Vashandi
Vakawanda vedu tinotyisidzirwa nechiremba uye nheyo inofambidzana nekugadziriswa, kuongororwa, kuongororwa kana kurapwa-iyo nzira yose inopfuura kunyaradza kwedu, uye hatizivi kuti tingazviita sei.
Kazhinji kushanya kwedu kuna chiremba kunoitwa nokuti hatinzwi zvakanaka kana takuvara. Hatigoni kufunga zvakananga kana kuzvisimudzira pachedu patinenge takapfekedzwa, muchitonhora, muimba isina kuchena, tichigara patafura yekuongorora, tichitaura nemunhu anoshandisa mutauro watinonzwisisa uye uyo anoita seanomhanya . Chinhu chipi nechipi chinobvisa kubva kwatiri kuva 100% mutungamiri wemagariro edu chinoita kuti zvive zvakaoma kutarisa ruzivo.
Varwere vakawanda vanoisa vanachiremba vavo pane imwe nzira yekutsika sokunge vanachiremba "vari nani" kupfuura ivo. Asi vanachiremba vakawanda havadi kuvapo, uye havadi kuti titye. Vazhinji kwazvo vanoda kuunza ruzivo rwako navo uye mahofisi avo akanaka uye anobudirira. Pashure pezvose, iwe uri murwere wavo, mutengi wavo, mutengi wavo.
Vanoda kukuporesa kana kukubatsira kuti uve nani, uye vanoda kuti ruzivo rwako ruve runofadza sezvinogona. Paunofara nezvakaitika kwauri, iwe uchagovera ruzivo urwu nevamwe. Inobatsira kuchengeta chiremba wako mune bhizinesi.
Funga nezvechiremba wako semupiki webasa, kwete zvakasiyana nemotokari yako yemoto, muchengeti wemabvudzi, kana mutero wekudzorera. Ichokwadi, ane makore emudzidzo chaiwo, uye ari kutarisira muviri wako, kwete yemotokari yako, mvere kana mitero. Kunyangwe zvakadaro, iye anongova-mupi webasa-uye anofanirwa kutarisira kupa basa rakanaka uye rinobudirira, kudzivisa matambudziko asingatarisirwi.
Kana iwe waifunga kuti pane dambudziko nebasa remakiniki yako kana mutero wekugadzirisa mutero wakaitwa, iwe ungati chimwe chinhu, chakanaka? Iwe unokwereta zvakafanana kune vauki vako vehutano.
Mhinduro? Kana Kuti Kunyunyuta?
Pfungwa yekupa mhinduro inofanira kunge iri kubatsira kubatsiridza ruzivo rwevanhu vose. Izvozvo zvinoreva kuti kana isu varwere tichiita maonero atinoda kugoverana navatengi vedu, zvakakosha kuva sechinangwa sezvatingagona.
Kungongonyunyuta hazvina kukwana, uye zvichida hazvizoshandi zvakadaro. Zvechokwadi, patinenge takatsamwa kana kunzwa sekuti hatina kurapwa zvakanaka kana kusaruramisira, zvakaoma kuti tive nechinangwa pamusoro pezviitiko.
Zvichemo zvinouya nyore nyore.
Nokudaro, kutarisirwa kwakakosha, nokuti kupa zvipo uye zvikanganiso kune munhu wakarurama zvinoreva kuti une mukana wakanaka wekunzwika. Varwere vasina chavanoita kunze kwekunyunyuta vachanyorwa sevasingagumi vachipomerwa, uye vashandi vehofisi avo vanogona kuchinja zvakanaka vanozorega kuteerera. Asi varwere vanopa mhinduro mune chinangwa chakawanda, nzira inovaka ichawana kuti inotorwa zvakanyanya zvakanyanya.
Chinokosha, zvino, ndechokuziva kuti ndezvipi zvingafanirwa kupa mhinduro pamusoro uye nekuzvipa munhu wakarurama nenzira yakarurama.
Chii chinonzi Feedback Chikosha?
Mikana ndiyo mhinduro yaunoda kuipa haina kunaka. Yeuka kuti kana vose vatori vechikamu vachizobatsirwa, ipapo mhinduro inofanira kuva yakanyatsogadzirisa. Zvichemo nekumurumbidza pamwe chete zvichakubatsira kuti uite pfungwa yako uye uchaita kuti pfungwa yako inzwike. Apo zvinonyatsonzwisiswa, kune mukana wakanaka pane chimwe chinhu chichaitwa pamusoro pezvinetso, zvakare.
Edza kufungisisa nezvezvipo zvakanyanya sezvaunofunga pamusoro pezvakaipa. Chiremba wako nguva dzose anofadza here? Iwe unonzwa sokunge kuti kurapwa kwaunogamuchira kwakarurama chetano hwako hweutano here? Ndiyo mushandi unofadza here? Vanokuyeuchidzai pamusoro pekugadza? Ko kubhadhara nguva dzose kwakarurama here? Izvo, zvakatorwa pamwe nemakungunyunyuta ako, zvichabatsira kutarisa kumativi.
Kana iwe usingakwanisi kuwana zvipo kuti uende pamwe nemakondomeri ako, zvingava nguva yekufunga kuchinja vanachiremba panzvimbo yekupa mhinduro. Uyezve, kana matambudziko awakave nawo akaoma zvakaoma, iwe ungada kufungidzira kuisa dambudziko rakawanda pamusoro pechiremba.
Asi kana iwe uchiziva ukama hwakakosha kuchengeta, ipapo iwe unoda kupfuurira nekupa mhinduro. Kana uchinge wakapa kunyunyuta kwako uye hunoita humwe huwandu hwepfungwa, ichava nguva yekugovera ruzivo urwu nachiremba wako kana vashandi vake.