Izwi rekuremara rinowanzoshandiswa sechikwata chechikwata chechimiro chepanyama kana chepfungwa chinogona kugadzirisa kufamba kwevanhu, pfungwa, kana kukwanisa kuita mune zvimwe zvinhu. Kunyange zvazvo izwi rekuremara rinotakurawo zvakakosha pamutemo, chinangwa chekukurukurirana uku hachisi chirwere chiduku kana zvezvematongerwo enyika sezvazviri mune zvemagariro. Kunyange zvazvo munzira dzakawanda United States yakagadzirira matanho makuru kuti ione kodzero dzakadai sekukwanisa kuenzana kwehutano, basa , dzimba, uye dzidzo kune avo vanorarama nehurema, isu tichiri nematambudziko edu, zvikurukuru nehuwandu hwemhirizhonga uye maonero ekuremara.
Nzira dzeChirangariro dzeHarare
Kuremara kuchiri kusangana nechinetso chekusingaperi chekuonekwa se "chakasiyana" kana, kana chakaipisisa, chakaderera kune vezera vanogona. Aya maonero asina kururama uye kushorwa anowira munharaunda yese yemitemo yedu tsika kubva kune unhu hunoyemura hwatinoshamwaridzana nekuita kwechimiro chechimiro uye zvechikadzi kune zvinotenda pamusoro pezvakanaka.
Mumitauro yakawanda, vanhu vane hurema vanowanzofunga sevanorwara, vasina simba, uye vasina simba. Neavo kazhinji pfungwa dzisina kururama dzekuremara dzinouyawo pfungwa dzinokuvadza. Vanhu vane hurema havagoni kuonekwa sevarume kana vakadzi; ivo vangave vasina kuonekwa sepabonde inonakidza kana yakanaka; iyo inogona kuonekwa sechinhu panzvimbo yekushanda. Izvi zvinoshamisa uye zvisingatarisirwi zvehutano zvinetso izvo vanhu vane hurema vanotarisana nazvo zvinokanganisa zvakanyanya kuzvizvida, kuzviremekedza, uye chimiro chemuviri.
Muviri Image uye Kuremara
Kunyatsotsvakurudza kwakagadzirisa matambudziko akasiyana-siyana vanhu vane hurema vanotarisana nepamusoro pekuzviremekedza uye mufananidzo wemuviri. Pamwero wakawandisa, zvidzidzo zvakawana kuti kuremara mumuviri, kunyanya, kunokanganisa kusanganisa kwevanhu mupfungwa, mafungiro, uye manzwiro pamusoro pemitumbi yavo.
Kunyange zvazvo ruzivo rwakasiyana kubva kune mumwe munhu kune mumwe munhu, maitiro akawanzana anowira kune vamwe vanhu vanoita sevakadzi vanovapo.
Masculinity, Femininity, nekuremara
Izvo zvinoonekwa zvakakosha zvehukama uye hukadzi huri kutakura zvinoremedza mutsika mutsika kunyange munyika yanhasi iri kuchinja uye yakasiyana, iyo inokonzera matambudziko anokosha kuvanhu vane hurema. Mune tsika apo hutsika hwemunhu hunobatanidzwa nehutano hwakadai sekutonga, simba, uye kuzvimirira, varume vane urema hwepanyama vanogona kuomerwa kuti vakwanise kubatana. Vakadzi vane hurema, kune rumwe rutivi, vangasafananidza tsanangudzo yakaderera yemuviri wevakadzi wakanaka kana kuti inonzi yakanaka.
Kunyange zvazvo kusagadzikana kune pfungwa idzi dzisina kururama hakusi dambudziko rinoremekedzwa kune vanhu vakaremara, iyo yakawanda iyo vanhu vakawanda vakaremara vanoita mufananidzo wakaipa wemuviri unobva mairi inhau chaiyo yepfungwa uye yepfungwa iyo isina vanhu vakakwana vari kutaura nezvazvo.
The Link Between Body Acceptance and Changing Attitudes
Sezvakaitika kune vanhu vane simba, havasi vanhu vose vane hurema vanotambura nemafungiro emuviri. Zvichida zvakaenzana zvakakosha kuziva kuti vanhu vane hurema havana kungovhiringidza zvikanganiso zvevanhu vedu.
Ichokwadi, vazhinji vanoshingaira kurwisana nekushorwa nekusaona mafungiro zvose kunze kwepasi uye mukati mukati mavo.
Nhasi, mafungiro ari kuchinja, asi zvishoma nezvishoma. Nehuwandu hwehuwandu hwehupfumi uye kujekesa nekuremara kuburikidza nekugoverwa kwemajeri akakuvadzwa kana zviratidzo zveterevhizheni zvinoshanda kuratidzira hurema nekururama, vaAmerica vemarudzi ose vane mikana yakawanda yekurwisana nemaonero avo ekuremara. Kakawanda, kusununguka, kana kwakananga kana kusina kukwana, kunogona kukwanisa kutanga kubvisa pfungwa dzinokuvadza dzavanogona kutakura pamusoro pevakakomba. Izvi zvisingatauri zvinotungamirira kumikana yakawanda yekuve nemafungiro aya uye midzi yavo mumitemo yedu inopikiswa.
Apo pfungwa idzi dzinopesana, munhu wese - kusanganisira vanhu vane uye vasina hurema - vanopiwa zvigwaro kugamuchira miviri yavo uye vanoona zvakakwirira uye vane hutano hwakanaka.
Iwe Une Simba Rokuchinja Zvaunowana
Hazvisi zvisizvo kune munhu akaremara kuti anzwe kuora mwoyo kana manzwiro okusakosha sechikonzero chechiitiko chavo. Hazvisi utano, zvisinei, kutambura nemanzwiro iwayo nguva yose.
Kuora mwoyo kunogona kukanganisa kurara kwako, kudya, basa, ukama, uye hutano hwakakwana. Inogona kukanganisa hupenyu hwako. Kana iwe uchinzwa kuti uri kushandisa nguva yakawandisa uchizvidya mwoyo pamusoro pemuviri wako, ingava nguva yekufunga kubvunza rubatsiro. Kunyangwe nenyaya dzakadai sechimiro chemuviri uye hukama hwepfungwa haisi hukuru kana hukuru pane hutano hwehutano hwedu, inofanira kuva.
Rubatsiro runogona kutsvaga kuburikidza nemigwagwa yakawanda, yakadai sekutaurira shamwari yaunovimba kana nhengo yemhuri, kutaura nachiremba wako, kana kudana nzvimbo yekupa mazano. Iwe haufaniri kutambura mukunyarara. Nokutaura kumusoro nekutsvaga rubatsiro , hausi kungoita kuti hutano hwako huve hukuru, asi iwe unobatsira kujekesa nyaya iri pasi pehutano inofanirwa kuongororwa.
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