Nzira dzinofadza dzekudzorerazve maruva emariro nemaruva ekugadzirira
Uchapupu huri kuratidza kuti kushandiswa kwekutanga kwemaruva pamariro / kuvigwa kwevanhu kwakaitika muRaefefet Cave, iri kuMat. Karimeri, Israeri, makore anenge 14 000 akapfuura. Apo vapukunyuka ikoko vakashandisa maruva kuti vaise marinda emunhu akafa, kushandiswa kwemaruva emaruva nekugadzirirwa pamariro uye kushandiswa kwemasangano kwave kuve kunowanikwa mazuva ano-kusvika kune dzimwe mhuri dziri ikozvino dzinoti "Ndapota usiye maruva" kana "Munzvimbo yemaruva ... "muzvinyorwa zvakabudiswa kuitira kuti kuderedza nhamba yemaruva anonzwira tsitsi zvipo zvakagamuchirwa.
Nepo vapukunyuka kazhinji vanokoshesa kunaka kwemaruva aya nemafungiro ari shure kwavo, vanhu vazhinji havazivi kuti vangaitei neanogadzirisa mushure mekuvigwa uye / kana kuvigwa. Ichi chinyorwa chinopa nzira dzinoverengeka dzinogadzirisa iwe unogona "kudzorera" maruva, michero uye maruva anorongeka kunoshandiswa kumariro uye kuburitsa mazano pane kungozvirasa kunze.
Brighten Someone's Day
Pakupera kwemariro kana kushandiswa kwemariro, nhengo dzemhuri yepamusoro dzinosarudza zvirongwa zvakasiyana-siyana zvemaruva ekuratidzwa mudzimba dzavo asi zvichiri kuguma nemaruva, michero uye / kana mararamiro avanogona kushandisa. Panzvimbo pokusiya zvinhu izvi kumashure pane nzvimbo yekuvigwa uye / kana kupindira, kuraswa gare gare nemariro emariro kana vashandi vemakuva, funga kupa zvisina kufanira maruva maruva kune shamwari, hama kana vashandi pamwe chete / kana kuti kuzvipa kukereke, musha wekugara, kubasa, hospice kana zvimwe zvivako zvekutarisira .
(Tapota cherechedza kuti nekuda kwezvinetso zvekurwisana, zvimwe zvivako zvehutano zvingagamuchirwa mhiko yako.)
Muchikamu chekupedzisira, kana uchipa maruva emaruva, mbeu, uye marongerwo, unofanira kutanga wabvisa makadhi ose, manotsi, ribhoni, uye zvishongedzo zvinoratidza chinangwa chepakutanga chechipo chako kune vanoona zvisizvo.
(Kana uchibvisa makadhi nemanyoti, zvisinei, iwe unofanira kuchengetedza "uyo akatumira chii" kuitira kuti ugovatumira tsamba yekuonga gare gare.)
Saizvozvowo, iwe unofanira kufungidzira kuguma kwekugadzirisa usati wapa mhemberero maruva, michero, uye maruva ekugadzirisa . Nepo maruva emaruva kana miti yakasvibirira inowanzoratidza kuti yakakodzera munzvimbo dzakawanda, somuenzaniso, musungo wechiKristu wakamira kana maruva "kukonzera-kuziva ribhoni" (zvakadai sepiniki yekenza yemvere) inogona kuonekwa isina nzvimbo kana isina kukodzera mumusha unochengetedza vakwegura , hospice kana nzvimbo yekuchengetedza.
Pakupedzisira, sezvo nhengo dzemhuri yekupedzisira dzichanzwa dzichinetseka nezvinyorwa zvitsvene zvakakosha pakugadzira marangariro uye / kana kuburitswa mabasa panguva ino-kuwedzera kune zvepanyama, zvepfungwa uye zvepfungwa zvinokonzerwa neshungu pachedu -kuziva zvaunofanira kuita nemaruva emariro, zvinomera uye maruva kurongeka mushure mebasa (s) rinowanzorambwa. Saka, bvunza nhengo yemhuri kana shamwari, kana mutungamiriri wekuviga kana vadzidzisi vedzimba, kuti atore mhemberero dzemaruva . Nhengo dzemhuri kana shamwari dzinogona kudzokera kunzvimbo yebasa mushure mokunge dzakatora uye kutakura maruva asina kudiwa asina kukodzera mumotokari dzavo. Mukuwedzera, vashandi vekuviga vanowanzoda kutora basa iri, kana kutopa maruva asina kufanira, miti uye / kana maruva anorongeka munzvimbo ino, chero bedzi yakarongwa kare.
(Asi cherechedza kuti iwe unogona kutongerwa basa iri.)
Yeuka Mumwe Unodiwa
Imwe shandisudzo yakanakisa yemararamiro asingadiwi emaruva, michero, uye maruva anorongwa ndeyekubva kwavari pamakuva , columbarium niche kana imwe nzvimbo yekupedzisira yekuzorora yemumwe mudiwa . Kakawanda, nokuti mhuri dzinowanzoshandisa nzvimbo imwechete yemakuva, dzimwe nhengo dzemhuri, hama uye / kana vadikanwa vanenge vambotaurirana pazvikonzero. Saka, funga kushanyira nzvimbo yavo yokuzorora nekukudza rukudzo rwavo nekugadzirwa kwemaruva akajeka ayo angangoramba asina kushandiswa uye, pakupedzisira, achangorasikirwa.
Mukuwedzera, iwe unogonawo kutaura nemugove wako wekuviga uye / kana kumakuva akavhenekera uye unobvunza kana iwe unogona kupa mhuka dzisina kufanira dzemararamiro kumumwe wemariro omumwe munhu . Kunyange zvazvo chiito ichi chingaita sekiini, hachisi chaicho uye chinogona kubatsira kuti avo vanochema rufu rwemumwe munhu wausati wambonzwa kunzwa zviri nani munguva yake yekuchema-kunyanya kumariro uye / kana kuburitswa kwakabatwa 'Tagamuchira maruva akawanda, mbeu, uye maruva. Zvakare, bvunza mugove wako wemugovera kana kuti kumakuva anovashandi; iye anofanira kunge akakwanisa kupa mazano.
Ita Chirangaridzo Chechirangaridzo
Kana iwe wakambochengetedza maruva kubva pachiitiko chinokosha muhupenyu hwako, kana kana uchifarira kugadzira mishonga, ipapo iyi mazano ekupedzisira achaita semunhu wechipiri kwauri. Uchishandisa mapepa, misoro kana kuti mabheketi akazara kubva kumaruva omumariro akasara, ega chiyeuchidzo chekuyeuka mukukudza wediwa wako . Nzira iyo iri nyore iri kungoisa mapepa kana musoro wemaruva pakati pemapepe maviri uye zvino kuifungidzira yakavharidzirwa pakati pemabhuku emabhuku. Kana uchinge wakoma, iwe unogona kuisa mapepa kana maruva musoro pasi pegirasi mune chando - zvichida kuwedzera chidimbu chaunofarira kana zita revakafa kumakumbo - uye kupa maruva akaumbwa kune nhengo dzemhuri neshamwari.
Mukuwedzera, unogona kushandisa maruva akaomeswa kuita zviratidzo zvokurangaridza; mapambo ezororo; firiji magetsi; makandulo okuyeuchidza; sipo; potpourri; kana kushandisa maruva akaomeswa kuti afukidze chiyeuchidzo chekuchera mabhuku kana mabhuku . Chero chezvinhu izvi - kana chimwe chinhu chaunofungidzira uye uchizviitira iwe pachako-chaizoitawo chipo chinoshamisa kune vemhuri, shamwari neshamwari dzaiziva uye dzida yavakafa uye dzicharatidza kushandiswa kwakanaka kwezvasara pamaruva emariro, zvinomera uye maruva akarongeka kupfuura kungoita kuvarashira.
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"Natufian yekare yekare yemaruva kubva kune 13,800-11,700-yatu-natufian anovigwa muRaefefet Cave, Mt. Carmel, Israel," naDhani Nadel, Avinoam Danin, Robert C. Power, uye al., July 16, 2013. Zvirongwa zve National Academy of Sciences . Munyori wekuunganidza.