Autism vanochengeta vanowanzotambudzika zvikuru. Rutsigiro runogona kubatsira.
Rutsigiro rwekuchengetedza nderokuti, zvakanyanyisa, kubatsiririra kuchengetedza. Munhu anoremekedza munhu munhu anotora apo uyo anotarisira mukuru anotora nguva. Dzimwe nguva kuputsika kunongova maminetsi mashomanana kana maawa uye dzimwe nguva inenge yakareba sevhiki kana kupfuura.
Nei Vatano Vanofanira Kugara Vasingatarisiri?
Pane dzakawanda mamiriro ezvinhu ayo, semutarisiri, iwe unogona kubatsirwa nekuchengetedza, kusanganisira:
- Iwe unofanirwa kuenda kunechiremba iwe pachako kuongorora.
- Une imwe mwana, mudzimai wako, kana mubereki anokuda iwe.
- Iwe uri pedyo nekuputsa kwako uye haugone kuita basa rakanaka rekutarisira wako waunoda autistic.
- Iwe hauna kumbova nenguva yega pachako iwe pachako kana kuti shamwari yako kwenguva refu kwazvo.
Kuchengeta mwana ane autism kunoshungurudza. Pasina kuremekedza, iwe unotadza ngozi yekurasikirwa neutano hwako, ukama hwako, uye manzwiro ako ekuseka. Pasina izvozvi zvigadzirwa zvinokosha, hauzovi rubatsiro kune waunoda ne autism.
Kuzvipa Iwe Mvumo Yokutora Kuputsa
Zvinogona kunge zvakaoma semubereki kana mutarisiri kuratidza kubvisa kupera kubva kumwana wako kana mudiwa ne autism . Iwe unganzwa kuti iwe unofanira kunge uripo kune waunoda uye kuti hapana mumwe munhu anogona kuzviita sezvaunokwanisa. Kunyange zvazvo izvi zviri chokwadi pane imwe nhanho, kutora kupora kwakakosha uye kunokosha kuti uve nehutano hwehutano kuitira kuti iwe unogona kuva pane zvaunokwanisa kumwana wako kana mudiwa wako, pamwe chete nevamwe vose vemhuri yako.
Imwe yongororo yakangotarisa yakaratidza kuti vabereki vakanga vasina kunyanya kunetseka uye huri nani hwehutano hwemhuri neawa imwe yekuzorora iyo yavakashandisa.
Dzimwe nguva kuva nemumwe munhu kutarisira mwana wako kana mudiwa wako kumubatsirawo kuti ave nehukama hwakasimba nevamwe vanhu, chikamu chinokosha chehupenyu. Saka enda mberi uye uronga masikati masikati, manheru, kana vhiki uye uzive kuti iwe uri kuita chimwe chinhu chakanaka kune vose vanobatanidzwa.
Zvasarudzwa zveKuchengeteka
Zvisarudzo zvekudzivirira kutarisa zvinosiyana zvichienderana nekufema kwako zvinodikanwa uye zvinodiwa zvediwa wako autistic. Kana iwe unongoda manheru kunze, kazhinji zvinogoneka kudana kune shamwari, mhuri, kana munhu akakura anokwanisa kubatira. Kana vanhu ivavo vasiripo, dzimwe nzira dzingasvike kuburikidza nenzvimbo yako yekunamatira kana kuburikidza nehurumende yako ye Developmental Disability Council kana Family Services Agency.
National Respite Network
National Respite Network haina ruzivo rwakazvitsaurira kubatsira vabatsiri kuwana ruzivo, vakadzidziswa kudzivirirwa. Nzvimbo yekuchengetedzwa kwedzinza ravo inogona kukupa mavambo akanaka mukutora kuwana munhu akakodzera iwe. Nzvimbo iyi inosanganisira chokwadi mapepa uye ruzivo pamusoro pekuchengetedzwa kwemhepo.
Mari Inosarudzwa Nokutarisira
Kunze kwekuti iwe uine ruzivo rwakakwana kuti uve neshamwari uye mhuri yakakwanisa uye uchida kutarisira musikana wako anodiwa, iwe unofanirwa kubhadhara basa. Mune dzimwe nyika dzine Developmental Disability Councils, ARC yeUnited States, Easter Seals, uye mamwe mapurogiramu ekuchengetedza hurumende angangobatsira.
Funga Nezvakanakira
Paunotanga kutsvaka kubatsirwa, unogona kuva uchifunga munhu mukuru ane hanya achiuya kumba kwako. Asi kubwinya kunouya muhupenyu hwakawanda uye hukuru.
Kana iwe uchigadzirisa, iwe unogona kuwana huwandu hwakawanda hwemikana. Semuenzaniso, unogona kuona kuti purogiramu yakanaka yekambani yekambani ndiyo nzira yakanakisisa iwe neye mwana wako pane ye-muchengeti wekuchengeta mhuri. Iwe unogonawo kuwana kuti maawa mashomanana kubva kure unogona kuita kusiyana kwehutano hwako uye maonero.
> Sources:
> ARCH National Respite Network.
> Harper A, Dyches TT, Harper J, Roper SO, South M. Respite Care, Marital Quality, uye Stress muVabereki vevana vane Autism Spectrum Disorders. Zvinyorwa zveVeismism uye Developmental Disorders . November 2013; 43 (11): 2604-2616. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10803-013-1812-0.