Autism yakaoma. Kune zvipembenene zvevironi, zvirongwa, zvikoro, mapoka ekutsigira, mabasa uye, zvichienderana nekugara kwaunogara, panewo zvingavawo neve gazillion vanhu vese vanoratidzira kupa ruzivo rwavo rwekugadzirisa autism kumwana wenyu.
Wedzera kune iyi mitemo yakawanda, inishuwarenzi mitemo, masangano, uye tape tsvuku iwe unogona kunge uchinzwa sezvaunoita kuburikidza nemakore ekuchikoro, mapurogiramu ezhizha, uye kupfuura.
Uye zvakadini nekugadzirira kwevanhu vakuru, zviitiko zvoupenyu, mabasa, uye kutsigirwa ?.
Ndiani angakutevedza kuburikidza nekusarudza kwemashoko, mapofu emapofu, uye mikana?
Chinoita Kuti Vabereki Vave Vanove Vavo veAvistism
Hungu, kune vanhu vanogona kukutungamirira mune zvimwe zvikamu zvehupenyu hwemwana wenyu-zvidikanwi zvinodiwa nevatsigiri, vanachiremba, vanhu vanodzidza mahara, nezvimwewo. Uye kune "autism life coaches" vanobatsira uye vanotsigira vanhu vakuru pamatambudziko zuva nezuva.
Asi chokwadi ndechokuti hausi iwe chete mutsigiri wevana vako chete asiwo munhu (kana vanhu) avo vachada kudzidza pamusoro, kupfuurira kuburikidza, kusarudza, mari, kuongorora, uye kugadzirisa zvisarudzo zvevana vako.
Sei ichi chiri icho? Pano pane zvishoma zvezvikonzero nei vabereki vachimutsa vachifamba nenzira dzavo dzakasiyana-siyana kuburikidza nesango re autism:
1. Autism Yakasiyana Nemunhu Wose
Kana mwana wako akaongororwa ane chirwere chechirwere ane chikonzero chakazivikanwa, zviratidzo zvinotarisirwa, uye mushonga wakagadzikana iwe unogona kutarisira kuti nyanzvi dzokutungamirire zvakakodzera.
Asi autism chirwere chine zvikonzero zvishomanana zvinokonzerwa , idiosyncratic uye wildly divergent zviratidzo, uye mararamiro akasiyana-siyana angave kana asina kukodzera kana kuti anobatsira mwana wako.
Wedzera kune icho chokwadi chokuti vana vakasiyana vanoita zvakasiyana nenzira dzakasiyana-siyana dzokurapa panguva dzakasiyana muupenyu hwavo, hurongwa hwekuchikoro hunosiyana zvakasiyana kubva kune umwe kune imwe nzira mukuswedera nemigumisiro ...
uye iwe unogona kuona kuti nei pasina munhu kunze uko nehupamhi hwe ruzivo runodiwa kuti utungamirire nzira yako kubva pakuongororwa kuburikidza nekukura.
2. Zvisarudzo uye Mari Inobhadharwa Kubva Pakunzvimbo Kuenda Kunzvimbo
New Jersey yakapfuma mumapurogiramu ekubudirira uye zvikoro zvevana vane autism. Florida ine zvimwe zvirongwa zvekuita zvakanaka. California ine MIND Institute, iyo inopa hutano hwehutano nemapurogiramu, nepo New York inzvimbo inopisa yevashandi vakuru uye masangano anobatsira. Muzvikoro, SCERTS yakakura muRhode Island, apo mapurogiramu eTEKCH anozivikanwa muNorth Carolina.
Vamwe vanoti, mapurovhinzi, uye nyika dzinopa rupo rubatsiro rwemhando dzakasiyana-siyana dzokurapa, asi vamwe vari kusimbisa tsvimbo dzavo.
Hapana munhu anogona kukuudza chaizvo izvo zvipi zvipi uye mapurogiramu anopiwa kupi, pamutengo upi, nevarapi, pasi pemamiriro ezvinhu akadini. Uye kunyange dai vakakwanisa-havazokwanisi kukuudza kana mabasa aya angave akasarudza zvakanaka kumwana wako kana mhuri yako. Zviri kwauri kuti uite tsvakurudzo uye uite sarudzo dzakanakisisa pane zvaunoda.
3. Hausi "Yakanakisisa" Autism Therapies
Pangozi yekukoka vamwe kutsoropodza, ndinofunga kuti ndakarurama pakutaura kuti hapana "yegoridhe" yeutachiona yevistism iyo yakakodzera kumwana wose.
Hungu, vamwe vanhu vachakuudza kuti utachiona hwehutano ( hunonziwo ABA ) ndiyo "yegoridhe" yekutarisira autism. Asi zvakakosha kuziva kuti kunyange zvazvo ABA ndiyo yakanyatsotsvakurudzwa kuongororwa (zvimwe zvichida nokuti migumisiro yaro iri nyore kuyerwa), haisi iyo inonyanya kushanda (kana yakakodzera) kune chero mwana akapiwa.
Uye kunyange iwe ukatenda ABA ibheji yakanaka kumwana wako, pane zvakawanda zvakasiyana "zvinofadza" zveAABA , imwe neimwe yakagadzirwa nemutsvaga akasiyana kana boka. "Kupindura kwakakosha," "Kuedza kwakananga," "Kupindira kweKutaura kweKutaura," uye dzimwe nzira dzakawanda dzinoshandisa nzira dzekuita pane imwe nzvimbo-asi nenzira dzakasiyana.
Ndeipi yakanaka? Inowanzoenderana nekuwanika, mari, uye kukwanisa kwechiremba mumwechete kuti ataure zvakanaka nemwana wako oga!
Kugadzirisa ABA, pane zvimwe zvakawanda zvakagadzirwa zvakanaka zvakagadzirwa zvakanaka zvingave kana zvisingasviki, zvakakodzera, kana zvinobudirira kumwana wako. Zvechokwadi, mwana wako anofanira kunge ane chirongwa chebasa rekushanda, asi zvakadini nehutano hwekubatanidza therapy (bazi rehutano hwemabasa rinowanzobatsira vana ve autistic)? Mwana wenyu angabatsirwa nehutano-based therapies here? Tambai kurapa? Hippotherapy (kutasva mabhiza)? Recreational therapy? Zvinenge zviri kwauri kuti uzive zvaunosarudza uye uone kana zvakakodzera kuongorora.
Zvadaro pane zvakawanda zvekurapa maitiro zvinowanzozivikanwa uye zvakatariswa zvakanaka. Floortime, RDI, TEACCH, uye SCERTS zvishomanana pane zvingasarudzwa zvinogona kuwanika iwe pachako kana kuburikidza nechikoro chako.
Kana uchinge watsvaga zvisiri zvezvakaberekwa, zvisingabatsiri zvezvechipatara zve autism, iwe unogona kunge uchida kutarisa mune dzimwe nzira. Ko mwana wako angabatsirwa nemishonga yakadai sekurwisa kuzvidya mwoyo mishonga kana mishonga inoderedza kusagadzikana? Ko zvakadini nekugadzirisa kwekudya? Kune vanachiremba uye vekudya zvekudya vanove vadzidzisi mune izvi - asi, zvechokwadi, ivo vadzidzisi, uye havagone kukuudza zvakawanda pamusoro, vanoti, kusanganisa mishonga uye drama remhara!
Pasi pepamusoro, mishonga yose uye mazano akanyorwa pamusoro apa (uye zvimwe zvishoma) zvinogona kubatsira, uye chero zvingave sarudzo yakanaka. Asi hapana mumwe asi iwe unogona kuita chisarudzo chekupedzisira pamusoro pezvakanakisisa kumwana wako pane chero chinhu chipi zvacho muupenyu hwake.
4. Mari dzeMhuri uye Zvikamu Zvitsva Zvinotora
Chiremba wako, mutungamiri wezano, kana chiremba anogona kukurudzira unyanzvi hwokurapa, RDI, kana imwe sarudzo inonzwika (uye zvichida iri) inoshamisa. Masangano anotsigira angaratidza zvikoro zvega zvingada kuva "kuchinja hupenyu" kumwana wako.
Asi kana chikoro chako kana kambani yako ye inshuwarisi isingakwanise kubhadhara chirwere ichocho kana chikoro (sezvazvakawanzo zvakadaro), iwe unofanira kukanda mune mari yako yekuripa?
Kune mhuri dzine nzira yekutanga zvikoro zvose kungoita rudzi rwemhando yehutano inowanikwa kumwana wavo. Kune mhuri dzinoshandisa pasi mari yekuchengetedza uye mari yekubvisa mari yekubhadhara kurapwa uye zvikoro zvakakosha. Uyezve kune mhuri dzinosarudza uye dzinosarudza pakati pezvingasarudzwa zvakajeka kuti usapinda mumatambudziko emari sezvavanopa vana vavo zvavanoda.
Hapana munhu anogona kukuudza kuti kurapa, kurapa, chikoro, kana kunze kwechikoro-mukana kana purogiramu zvakakosha iwe kana mwana wako. Chinotonyanya kukosha ndeyechokwadi kuti hakuna munhu anogona kukuudza "kana iwe uchibhadhara muhomwe ye X, mwana wako haazodii Y mumakore gumi."
Chokwadi, chikoro ichocho chinodhura chinogona kuita mutsauko wese kumwana wako-asi zvakare zvakare, zvichida hazvizoiti. Uye ruzivo rwakanyanya, rune simba zvikuru kuti mwana wako ave ari autistic muupenyu hwake hwose. Izvozvo zvinoreva kuti iwe unogona kupedza kushandisa mari yakawanda pamatongerwo epakuvamba ayo iwe hauzove nemari yaunoda kutsigira mwana wako autistic sewe munhu mukuru - rega kuregera kutumira vanun'una vake kuchikoro uye vachiri nemari yekurega basa!
Ndekupi kwaunofanira kuisa mari yako? Iwe unogona kuwana mazano, asi mukufamba kwenguva, ichisarudzo chako pachako.
5. Mafungiro Pamusoro Pedzidzo nekurera Kubva
Chii chakanaka kumwana wako?
- Chikoro chepachivande chinonyanya kushumira zvinodiwa zvevana vane autism?
- Zvakakwana kuiswa mune zvidzidzo zvese zvidzidzo munzvimbo yechikoro yevoruzhinji?
- Kusarudzwa kunowanikwa mune dzidzo yakazara mukuwedzera kune mapurogiramu chaiwo uye kurapwa?
- A classroom ABA? A classer SCERTS? A classroom TEACHCH?
Chimwe chezvinhu zvasarudzwa pamusoro apa zvingava zvakanaka kune mwana wako-kana kwete. Uye hapana nzira iri nyore yekuziva, mberi kwenguva, izvo zvingangodaro zvinoshanda. Saka, chisarudzo, saka, chinowanzobva pakuwanika uye kusarudzwa kwevabereki.
Ko mwana wenyu wezvokudya anofanira kunge akabatanidzwa mumapurogiramu ezvokuzorora, mabasa echechi, uye zviitiko zvevanhu? Anofanira here kutora chikamu mumapurogiramu akasiyana-siyana? Mune zvimwe zviitiko, chisarudzo chichaitirwa iwe pamusana pemafungiro emwana wako uye mano. Asi tichifungidzira kuti sarudzo inobvira, ichava yako. Hapana chaicho chakakwana kana chakashata kana zvasvika pakuiswa.
6. Kutenda Pamusoro peAvism
Chii, chaizvo, chii? Icho chirema here kana simba? Ndiyo nzira yakasiyana yekufunga nezvekuona nyika-kana kuti ihosha yekufunga nekufunga? Mhinduro yemibvunzo iyo inofanirwa, muchidimbu, pamusoro pekunyanya kwezviratidzo zve autistic nefilosofi yemunhu mumwechete uye mhuri yavo.
Kubva pane manzwiro ako-uye, zvechokwadi, manzwiro emwana wako - unogona kunge uchida kuita kuti zvimwe zvirapa zvirege kusarudzwa kana kusarudza vamwe. Iwe ungasarudza mamwe marudzi ezvikoro zvinoenderana nouzivi hwako. Iwe unogona kusarudza kushandisa mari yako kwete pamabasa ekurapa asi pane zviridzwa zvemimhanzi, zvidzidzo zve chess, kana kuti musasa wematende kuitira kuti utsigire zvinodiwa nemwana wako uye simba pane "kubata" matambudziko ake uye kusiyana.
Tsvaka Mazano uye Zvadaro Ita Zvisarudzo Zvako
Vanachiremba, vadzidzisi, therapists, vatungamiri mazano, nevamwe vabereki vanogona kupa mazano anokosha uye kutungamira pamusoro pevhisi. Mabhuku, mavhidhiyo, uye hurukuro zvinokosha zvakare.
Mukuguma, zvakadaro, nzira imwe neimwe ichave yakasiyana. Ichakutungamirirwa nevabereki uye nevanhu vanozvimirira vanotenda, zvido zvavo, zvido zvavo, zvido zvavo, uye zvido zvavo zvose zvichaita basa mukugadzirisa zvisarudzo. Uye ndizvo zvakanaka. Nokuti hupenyu humwe hwakasiyana.