"Unoziva here chakaita kuti mwana wako aite autism ?"
Kana iwe uri mubereki wemwana pamutambo, iwe wakanzwa mubvunzo uyu ... kazhinji nekubva ... kubva kumhuri, shamwari, vanoziva, uye vatasvi vakakwana. Iwe wakanzwa zvakare ichimhanya segerbil gumbo mumusoro wako - uye, zvichida, iwe wakanzwa mumaroto ako.
Zvinosuruvarisa, pasi pe20% ye autism ine chikonzero chakazivikanwa.
Ichokwadi, kune zvishomanana zvakakonzera zvikonzero zve autism. Izvi zvinosanganisira zvirwere zvemagetsi zvakadai seFragile X Syndrome, mamwe madhiragi anotorwa panguva yekuzvimba (valproate ndeimwe yezvishoma mishonga yakadaro yakawanikwa), kana kuti zvakajeka uye zvakajeka unhu hwakagarwa (pane vamwe vanhu vane autism mumhuri yepamusoro) . Zvirwere , pasinei nezvose zvinenge zvakapoteredza, hazvizivikanwi chikonzero che autism.
Kunzwisisa kuti chinokonzera autism hachina kuzivikanwa, asi, hachigadziri vanhu kubvunza mubvunzo. Zvichida zvakanyanya kuipa, hazviregi vabereki kuti vatende kuti vakawana mhinduro - kunyange apo, sezvinowanzoitika, havana nzira yekunyatsoongorora nheyo kana kufunga.
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Mubereki wemwana ane autism uyo anotenda kuti iye anoziva mhinduro kumubvunzo (zvakanaka kana kuti zvisina kururama) angangodaro ari kurarama nemanzwiro ane mhosva huru.
Ndingabvumira sei X kuti zviitike (kana zvisingaitiki)? Kubvunza mubvunzo - uye kuratidza chikonzero-kunogona kuita kuti kunzwa kwakasimba zvikuru. Ndiko nokuti, kazhinji, vabereki vane mwoyo yakaipa vanokonzera pachikonzero nekuda kweshoko rekuparidzira, nhau ye Facebook, kana kudonhedzwa kwakadonhedzwa neshamwari yausingazivi.
Semuyenzaniso:
"Ndakanzwa kuti kana amai vachidya tini panguva yekuzvitakura, mwana wavo anogona kuberekwa autistic."
"Ungabvumira sei mwana wako kuti adorwe?" Jenny McCarthy anoti zvirwere zvinokonzera autism? "
"Iwe unorarama muguta X here? Hauzivi here kuti kune mashizha emarasha ipapo, uye kupisa kwemalahle kunogona kukonzera autism?"
Kakawanda, vanhu vasingakanganisi nechinetso vari kunyanya kutsvaga chikonzero chinokonzera dambudziko kuitira kuti vazvivimbise kuti havangapindi mumatambudziko mamwechete. Somuenzaniso, vanhu vachabvunza nezvemunhu achangobva kuongororwa nemukenza wemapapu, "Akasvuta here?" Kana ivo vachabvunza nezvemumwe munhu aine chirwere, "Aive akawandisa here?" Kana mhinduro yacho ichiti "hongu," uye haisvuti kana kuwandisa, vanonzwa vakavimbiswa: havangambosangana nechinetso chimwe chete ivo pachavo.
Ne autism, zvisinei, hazvibatsiri saizvozvo. Sezvo isu tisingazivi chii chakakonzera dambudziko, hatigoni kuidzivisa kana kupa mhosva.
Sezvakawanda, vanhu vanomutsa mubvunzo uyu havasi kutsvaga mhinduro. Pane kudaro, ivo vari kutsvaga muvhenekeri kune hawk imwe pfungwa yekuona, kurapwa, chigadzirwa, kana kutenda. Mune mamwe mazwi, vanobvunza mubvunzo nenzira imwechete iyo inishuwarenzi mutengesi angabvunza kuti "Wakambofunga nezve inshuwarisi yehupenyu munguva pfupi here?"
Somugumisiro, kubvunza mubvunzo kunogona kutungamirira kungova nemigumisiro yakaipa; pakati pavo:
- Kuzarura nyaya inopfuurira uye inorwadza isingatongogadziriswa - nokuti hapana anoziva chinokonzera autism yemwana;
- Kusimudza tsananguro (zvakare zvakare) iyo mubereki (kazhinji amai) vakaita chisarudzo chakaipa pane imwe nguva iyo yakakanganisa mwana wavo;
- Kuzarura mikova yehurukuro kubva kune mumwe munhu asina ruzivo rwechokwadi kana ruzivo pamusoro pezvikonzero uye kurapwa kwechirwere chinokonzerwa nezvikonzero uye kurapwa, zvakanyanya, zvisingazivikanwi;
- Kunyatsokurudzira mumwe mubereki kuti mwana wake haaiti kuva autistic nokuti iye anogara mune imwe nzvimbo, anodya zvokudya zvakasiyana, kana kuti achirarama mararamiro akasiyana zvakasiyana kubva kumunhu ane autistic mwana;
- Usingafaniri hako kunetseka nemumwe mubereki kuti mwana wake ANOGONA kuva autistic nokuti VANHU vanogovana zvisarudzo zvisina kukodzera zvoupenyu zvakadai senzvimbo, kudya, nezvimwewo.
Pasi pepamusoro, kunze kwekunge iwe wakokwa kuti unofungidzire pamusoro pezvikonzero zvinokonzera autism yemwana nevabereki vemwana - usazviita.