Munharaunda yekuita zvepabonde, kushamwaridzana pakati pevarume nemararamiro kazhinji hazviregi. Zvave zvichifungidzirwa kuti pakati pe15 ne20 muzana yevarume muUnited States vakabhadhara zvepabonde kamwechete kamwe muhupenyu hwavo. Izvi zvinotarisirwa kupfuura zvimwe zvinofungidzira-mamwe sampuli akaratidza kuti vazhinji vanenge 40 muzana yevarume vevanhu vakashanyira kana kuti vachashanyira hufeve pane imwe nguva muupenyu hwavo-asi zvidzidzo zvenguva pfupi zvakaratidza kuti 15-20 muzana yakatarwa kuva zvimwe zvakarurama.
Mutemo weHurumende
Kakawanda varume vanoita zvepabonde nezvifeve vanosiyana zvikuru pasi rose, uye mitero zvechokwadi inotarisana nehupombwe hwepamutemo munharaunda uye kuti zvinoregererwa sei. MuBritain, somuenzaniso, hupombwe pachahwo hahuri pamutemo; zvisinei, mabasa mazhinji anowirirana nawo, sekukumbira munzvimbo yevanhu vose, kubata, uye kugamuchira kana kutarisira mhirizhonga pane mhosva. Scotland iri kutarisa kuunza hutambudziro nzvimbo kuti dzive nemitemo yemagetsi matsvuku. MuEurope, nyika dzakadai seHolland dzakagadzirisa hupombwe. Izvi, vanotenda, zvakatungamirira kune hutano hwehutano hwakanaka hwehufeve pamwe chete nevatengi vake.
Varume, Maitiro, uye Utano
Kushivirira uye mutemo kunobatsirawo kana varume vachitsvaka mazano ekurapa kwehutano maererano nehutano hwepabonde. Munyika uye nyika umo hurumende inorambidza hupfambi kutengesa mabasa avo, vashandi vepabonde vanofanirwa kuenda kumakiriniki nguva dzose kuti vaongorore humwe uchapupu hwezvirwere zvepabonde .
Kuwanika kwehutano hweSDD kunobatsira kupararira kupararira kwezvirwere.
Zviratidzo nezviratidzo zvezvirwere zvepabonde
Idzi ndidzo zviratidzo zvinowanzojeverwa zvehosha yepabonde. Kana iwe ukaona izvi, unofanirwa kurega zvekuita zvepabonde kuti udzivise kupararira kunogona kutapukirwa, uye kutsvaga kurapwa nokukurumidza sezvinobvira.
- Kuchengetedza kubva peni
- Njodzi kana kutsamwa kunopisa kana uchikwira
- Kunzwa iwe unoda kurinha kakawanda kupfuura yakasikwa
- Rashes, mashizha, kubvambura, mabhetera kana maronda mumunzvimbo yebonde
- Sore testicles
Iva nechokwadi kuti dzimwe zvirwere hazviratidzi zviratidzo zvakanzwisiswa zvinonyevera uye zviratidzo, kunyanya mushure mekunge utachiona, asi vamwe vanogona kubudisa zviratidzo izvo zvinozopera. Usazvidza zviratidzo, kunyange kana zvichienda-izvi hazvirevi kuti utachiona hwapfuura. Kana isina kusiyiwa isingabvumirwi, zvinetso zvehutano zvakakomba zvingaguma. Tsvaga chiremba. Genito-urinary makiriniki anopa mazano akavanzika uye kurapwa.
Kuita zvepabonde kwakachengeteka uye ufeve
Kuita zvepabonde nehure rekuita hutsika, uye tsika dzepabonde dzakachengeteka dzinokosha kune avo vanotsvaka hupombwe. Chero ani zvake anogona kubata chirwere chepabonde kana vane zvepabonde zvisina kudzivirira nemumwe munhu ane utachiona.
Nzira dzekuita zvepabonde dzakachengeteka dzinokudzivirira iwe nemumwe wako zvinosanganisira:
- Nguva dzose achishandisa kondomu yekuita zvepabonde kana yepabonde
- Kushandisa kondomu yakasimba kumusana pabonde, nemafuta akawanda-based (usingashandisi mafuta-based lubricants ne latex makondomu sezvo zvingaita kuti kondomu ive yakaoma uye inowanzoputsa)
- Kuita zvepabonde nomuromo nemudzimai, shandisa dhinha remeno . Izvi zvinogona kuwanika kubva kune nzvimbo dzezvitengesi zvekutengesa, genito-urinary kana mamwe makiriniki.
Pasinei nokuti iwe uri mushandi kana mushandisi, gara wakachengeteka uye ugare uchitarisa zvekurapa.
Sources
Michael, RT, Gagnon, JH, Laumann, EO, & Kolata, G. (1994). Zvepabonde muAmerica: Ongororo yakajeka. Boston: Little Brown.