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Mubvunzo: Ndingabatsire Sei Mhandara Yangu Autistic Inonzwa "Yakanaka"?
Ndingaita sei rubatsiro rwevechidiki rangu rwechipiri rune manzwiro akaita seanotonhora? Pazera remakore gumi nematanhatu, mwanakomana wangu ane Asperger Syndrome ari kuedza kukudziridza 'kutonhora' persona, asi haana kunyatsoziva. Kana aigona kungodzidza hurukuro shomanana, aizenge ari makiromita mberi kwaanove iye zvino. Ndapota ndibatsirei ndiwane imwe nzira yokumubatsira.
Mhinduro: Kubva Dhiyabhorosi Robert Naseef:
Nguva imwe neimwe yeupenyu yemwana chero upi zvake, iye zvino ari kuyaruka kumwanakomana wako , inounza nguva itsva yekuberekera vanaamai navanababa. Autism kana Asperger inowedzera kushandura kuchinja kwevabereki nemwana. Kana mwanakomana wako akaramba kugamuchira kuti iye akasiyana nevamwe, ari kunyatsorwisana naye uye kuzvimirira. Kunyange zvazvo izvi zvingava zvinorwadza uye zvisinganzwisisiki kutarisa, ichi chiratidzo chokuti ari kukura. Saka kune hutano hwakanaka. Kuda kukodzera mukati uye kuva "kunonoka" ndiyo fomu iyo inoitora iye zvino. Hazvisi nyore kutarisana nayo, asi ichiri chikamu chitsva chokufambira. Icho chiratidzo chekubudirira kwako mukurera mwana wako zvakare. Edza kubatisisa pfungwa iyoyo, uye uzvipe chikwereti kuti dambudziko iri rasvika zvino. Kunzwira tsitsi nemanzwiro ake iye zvino iye zvino kunogona kumubatsira kunzwisisa uye kugamuchira kusiyana kwake.
Chaizvoizvo pane rubatsiro runowanikwa. Kutanga, vechidiki vakawanda vane rudo rweAsperger bhuku, Freaks, Geeks uye Asperger Syndrome: Bhuku reVashandisi Vechidiki, yakanyorwa naLuka Jackson, achiri kuyaruka neAsperger, uye rakabudiswa naJessica Kingsley.
Iwewo uchanowana kuseka kwakanaka kwemashoko uye kumwe kunzwisisa kunonyanya kunakidza kubva pane zvauri kufunga nezvekukura uye kusangana nekusiyana. Iwe wakacherechedza kuti kunyanya kunowanikwa kune matanho ekutanga ekubata ne autism uye Asperger, asi vana vane izvi zvinoratidzika ndezvekukura uye kutarisana nematambudziko matsva uye akasiyana.
Kune mabhuku mazhinji anopa ruzivo rwekudzidzisa hutano hwehutano hunokosha.
Iwe wakachenjera kuziva kuti haugone kuita izvi zvose iwe pachako. Anoda kudzidza zvaanoda kune vamwe vanhu zvakare. Ndinoda kuratidza mazano ehutungamiri ose kuchikoro uye kunze kwezuva rechikoro nokuti izvo zvingasava zvinyadzisa kwaari. Mishonga inogona kubatsira. Ndinoda kuratidza kuongororwa nenyanzvi yezvokurapa kana mwana wechiremba wepfungwa ane ruzivo mukurapa vacheche neAsperger's. Kazhinji kero kadiki kanogona kuita kusiyana kukuru, sezvo vazhinji vakabudirira vakabudirira vane izvi vatsva vaudza.
Pakupedzisira, usakanganwa kuzvitarisira zvishoma. Vana vanotora nguva yakareba kuti vave vakagadzirira kuva voga munyika ino yemazuva ano uye izvi zvinoratidzika zvakare zvakanyanya kushandiswa nevechidiki vanokura mumutsara. Mwanakomana wako anoda kuti iwe uve nemafungiro uye unakidzwe nehupenyu apo izvi zvinotanga kuitika. Iwe unofanirwa izvi iwe pachako zvakare.
Kubva kuna Dr. Cindy Ariel:
Vechiduku vakawanda vane nguva yakaoma vachibvuma kusiyana kwevari kurwisana kuti vawane uye vauya nevanonyatsozivikanwa. Kukodzera mune imwe yezvinangwa zvakakosha zvinosangana nevechidiki vechidiki munguva iyi yekukura kwavo.
Kune ikozvino mabhuku mazhinji akanaka kunze uko anogona kubatsira mwanakomana wako mukurwisana kwake kuti azive. Pakati peimwe nzvimbo, unogona kuwana dzakawanda dzazvo dziri pamashalopu ari pedyo nebhuku iro Dr. Naseef akataura, nekutsvaga Amazon, kana kuti nechingwa chechipiri kuburikidza neJessica Kingsley catalog. Zvinogona kubatsira kubva mabhuku anotenderedza hurukuro iyoyo pamusoro pekusiyana, uyewo pamusoro pematambudziko evechidiki. Mwanakomana wako angakwanisa kudzidza nezvevamwe vechidiki vanofunga nekuita nekuverenga pamusoro paro, uye kudzidza nezvake uye zvimwe zvekusiyana kwake panguva imwe chete.
Kunyange zvazvo nzira yacho inogona kuderera, zvinokwanisika kudzidzisa uye kudzidza ruzivo uye sayenzi yehurukuro duku.
Kune nzira dzakawanda dzekuedza kuita kuti izvi zviitike uye kubatsira vechidiki kufanana nemwanakomana wenyu kuti vave vakanyatsonaka pamusikana wechidiki. Kuve kune vamwe vechidiki vari munzvimbo dzakachengeteka kunowanzobatsira. Iko mabhuku anogona kukubatsira iwe kumudzidzisa muhurukuro duku uye humwe unyanzvi hwemagariro evanhu. Kana iye ane shamwari ipi zvayo unogona kuramba uchikurudzira kubatana apo uchimubatsira kudzidza ruvara rwemagariro evanhu akaoma zvikuru kune vechidiki vakawanda.
Panguva ino, zvingave zvakaoma kuti mwana wako abvumire kuenda kune rimwe boka rehutano hwevamwe nevamwe vane vechidiki, kunyange kana iye achida chaizvo kuva anyanzvi kune vezera rake angangoramba akabvumirana uye achigamuchira pachivande mukana wakadaro. Yeuka, zvakadaro, kuti mwanakomana wako angave asina kunzwa kusurukirwa nenzira yaunoita uye pakupedzisira ichava kwaari kuti agadzirise kusagadzikana kwake uye kusurukirwa. Nekubatsira kwako, kana achikurudzirwa kuti asvike uye ataurirane nevamwe, achadzidza kuva mukuru mune zvekugara panguva yake.
Robert Naseef, Ph.D., naCindy Ariel, Ph.D., ndivo vashanduri ve "Voices kubva kuSpectrum: Vabereki, Vanasekurukuru, Vanun'una, Vane Autism, uye Vashandi Vanogovera Uchenjeri Hwayo" (2006). Pamusoro pewebhu pa http://www.alternativechoices.com .