Mubvunzo: Ndingabatsira sei My Autistic Child Handle Kuberekwa?
Ndine mwanakomana ane makore 9 ane autism. Akaonekwa kuti makore 2 apfuura uye kuburikidza nekubatana kwekunzwa, kwauya zvakasvibiswa uye zvikamu. Kunyange zvazvo asiri "akajairika," anowirirana mune zvakawanda uye ane shamwari shoma iye zvino kuchikoro. Ndinotya kufa asi nekuti ndakanzwa kuti kana uchangoberekwa hutanga kuti vana vakawanda vanozvidzora.
Izvozvo ichokwadi here? Pane zvinhu zvandinogona kuita kuti ndibatsire kurarama zviri nani nemahomoni ane simba?
Mhinduro: Kubva Dhiyabhorosi Bob Naseef:
Kuyaruka kunogona kuva kuedza vana nevabereki vavo. Kuongororwa kwe autist spectrum kunobatanidza rwendo uye kunoita kuti zvive zvakaoma, kutaura zvishoma. Kufunga nezveramangwana remahomoni ane simba, sevabereki vakawanda mumagariro evanhu vanoita, zvinogona kuva zvinotyisa. Zvechokwadi ndinoda kukukurudzira kuti ufunge nenzira yakajeka uye inokurudzirwa. Muhutano hwemagariro edu, pane mave nemibvunzo yakawanda pamusoro pepabonde uye vana vane autism nezvimwe zvidikanwi zvinokosha ivo vari kusvika pakuyaruka. Nokukurumidza zvakakwana, sevabereki, tinofunga kuti tiri chikamu chedu pachedu munyika yakasimba uye dzimwe nguva inotyisa yevaduku vedu. Chimwe chikamu pamwe nemwana wedu munyika yezvino iyo inonyanya kuoma kana mwana iyeye ane zvaanoda. Zvimwe zvekutya uku ndiko kunetseka pamusoro pekutonga uye pamwe nekutya kushungurudzwa kwepabonde kunosvika pakadzika mumharaunda inoda rubatsiro.
Zvose zvikonzero zvekusarega kurega zvepabonde nekudzidzisa zvepabonde.
Vana nevechiri kuyaruka vane zvido zvakasiyana-siyana ndezvipi zvepabonde sevamwe vedu. Kuremekedza kukudzwa kwemwana mumwe nomumwe, kudzidzisa mafungiro akanaka uye kutaura, asi kuchengetedza kuchengeteka ibasa revabereki vose pamwe nevadzidzisi, uye nyanzvi yehutano, kana mwana akaremara kana kwete.
Pakupedzisira, panyaya yekutonga, kune chikonzero chekutya, asi kwete kutya. Chidzidzo chenguva refu chekuongorora Autism mushure mekuyaruka; Vagari-vaine makore gumi nemakumi maviri nemakumi maviri nemakumi maviri nemakumi maviri nemakumi maviri nemakumi maviri nemaviri (22) kusvika kune makumi maviri nemakumi maviri nemaviri (22) kusvika kune makumi maviri nemakumi maviri nemaviri (22). uye hafu yeiyi yakadzikinurwa kubva pane izvozvi. Mukuwedzera iyi chidzidzo chakasimbisa tsvakurudzo yapfuura inoratidza kuti hutano IQ-yepamusoro hwakanga huchibatanidzwa zvakanaka nemugumisiro uri nani mukukura uye kunyanya mutauro.
Kubva pane izvi, zvinonzwisisika kugumisa kuti mwana ane Asperger syndrome kana High Functioning Autism anogona kudzidza kukunda matambudziko nematambudziko ekuyaruka uye kuyaruka. Mwanakomana wako achava nemibvunzo yakawanda, zvinokosha kwauri iwe nababa vake kuti muve nechinangwa mune izvo angave achikumbira. Kune nguva yakawanda yekudzidzisika mumazuva ose ehupenyu. Zvechokwadi kune mubereki anoziva uye anoziva, kakawanda kupfuura kwete, vana vanodzidzisa zvakawanda kana kupfuura zvatinodzidzisa. Hapana kunyadziswa pakudzidzisa kana kuzvidzidzira isu kuti tive akaenzana nebasa racho. Ndinokukurudzira kuti utaure nevana vako vevana kuti vataure kana mamwe mazano anobatsira anodiwa kubva kuchipatara chepfungwa kana mupfungwa wepfungwa.
Kubva kuna Dr. Cindy Ariel:
Mwanakomana wako anenge aita kuti afambire mberi uye iwe unogona kunge wakatarisa pane zvakawanda. Kuchinja kwakanyanya kunowanikwa nepamakore ekuyaruka uye kuchinja uku kunogona kuchinja maitiro, kusanganisira munzvimbo iyo mwanakomana wako atoita huwandu hwakawanda. Sezvakaitwa nevechiri kuyaruka, mwanakomana wako anogona kugadzirisa mune dzimwe nzvimbo kunyange achienderera mberi mberi kune vamwe. Uyezve, kuchinja uku kunogona kunge kusingatarisirwi uye kusingatariswi.
Ramba uchifunga, zvakadaro, kuti sezvaanokura uye achidzidza uye achichinja, mwanakomana wako acharamba ari iye aigara aripo. Ndiye mumwe munhu anokwanisa kudzidza uye kubatsirwa kubva pakudzidza ikoko mumakumbo uye kumativi.
Unyanzvi hwake hwekubatana naye huchava huchibatsira kwaari; vazhinji vari kuyaruka vanonzwa uye vanoita zvisinganzwisisiki uye mwanakomana wenyu anogona kukodzera muno muno zvakare.
Mukuwedzera, iwe uchava nemwanakomana wako zuva rimwe nerimwe. Iwe unogona kumubatsira kuburikidza nekutarisana nezviri kuitika naye uye nekumubatsira kuburikidza nenzvimbo dzakashata, sezvawakave uchive uchiita kwemakore 9 adarika. Kutaura kubva kuna baba vake kana mumwe munhu anovimbiswa nemurume muenzaniso unogonawo kuva wakakosha panguva iyi muhupenyu hwemumwe mukomana. Anoda ruzivo runoenderana nehutano hwake hwekunzwisisa. Mwanakomana wako unoda kudzidza nezvekuyaruka uye kuchinja kwepanyama uye kwepfungwa iye angapfuura kuburikidza kuitira kuti atokwanisa kutora mimwe mitoro yekubatanidza pamwe chete zvichazoitika kwaari uye izvi zvichamubatsira kuburikidza.
Kuyaruka kunogona kuva nguva yakaoma kune vechidiki vakawanda uye vanhu vanovada. Edza kusarega zvaunotya nezvemahomoni ekuchinja kwako emwana zvinomutyisa kana kumuita kuti anzwe kuti kuchinja kwaanoita kunotyisa kana kwakaipa.
Robert Naseef, Ph.D., naCindy Ariel, Ph.D., ndivo vashanduri ve "Voices kubva kuSpectrum: Vabereki, Vanasekurukuru, Vanun'una, Vane Autism, uye Vashandi Vanogovera Uchenjeri Hwayo" (2006).