Kunze kweShiri uye Nenyuchi
Cherechedza madzibaba: Baba vako vakataura newe pachena pamusoro pezvoutano? Zvichienderana nezera rako, mhinduro ingangodaro kwete. Asi pane zviratidzo izvi zvinoda kuchinja.
Kuongororwa kwenyika kwakaratidza kuti 62 muzana yemadzitateguru nevanakomana vanoda kuti ivo pachavo baba vave vauyazve nezvemashoko ezvehutano. Somugumisiro, 43 muzana yemadzibaba avo mhuri yavo isingatauri pachena pachena nezvehutano hwavo vanoti vanoda kuputsa tsika.
Zvikonzero zvekudzivisa mataurirwo aya zvinoshandisa mutambo kubva kune tsika kuti unyadzwe. Vamwe vanoti havazivi kutaura nevana vavo nezvehutano hwemashoko nokuti baba vavo (chimiro) havana kumbotaura navo nezvazvo, zvimwe.
Vamwe vanonzwa vachinyara kana kuti havagoni kuwana mazwi. Vamwe vanotya mwanakomana wavo havadi kuda kutaura pamusoro pehurukuro kana kuti havagoni kuwana nguva yakakodzera yekusimudza nyaya yacho.
Sechiremba anonyanya kuraramira hutano hwevarume, ndinokuudza iwe munhu uye uine hurukuro dzinokosha nevana vako. Unogona kuwana hurukuro dzisinganzwisisiki. Iwe unogona kuvaona usina kunaka. Asi cherechedza izvi mupfungwa: Hazvisi zvishoma nezvako kupfuura mwana wako.
Kukurukurirana Kuvandudza-Zvimwe
Cleveland Clinic yakaita sarudzo iyi, "MENYI Icho," pane varume vanopfuura 500 vane makore gumi nemasere nevekare vanorarama muEndaneti yeEndaneti Kuongorora kwakakosha kuve kuratidzirwa nenyika maererano nenharaunda, makore uye rudzi / rudzi.
Vose vatori vechikamu vaiva baba kana vanababa vanofananidzira kumukomana uye vaiva nababa kana baba vanoverengeka vachikura.
Vanenge makumi manomwe kubva muzana vemadzibaba vakati mhuri dzavo dzakataura pachena pamusoro pehutano nezvehutano, kunyange pavakanga vari vana. Vanenge zviviri kubva muzvitatu (62 kubva muzana) yevakasara vakapindura vaifarira madzitateguru avo.
Uye vanenge 47 muzana vakati havana kuziva nhoroondo yehutano hwemhuri yavo kusvikira vaenda kuchiremba semunhu mukuru.
Mazuva ano vanababa vane vanakomana vanoratidza kunzwisisa kune zvakakosha kutaura pamusoro pezvinoitika panyaya dzine chokuita nehutano.
- Inenge makumi mapfumbamwe nezana makumi mapfumbamwe kubva muzana yakave ichiongorora mumwedzi mishomanana yapfuura kana mugore rekupedzisira.
- Makumi makumi maviri nemaviri kubva muzana vanokurudzira kuenda kuna chiremba kuti ugare uchitsvakurudza zvakanaka .
- Inenge hafu (52 kubva muzana) inopa mazano kune mamwe madzitateguru ane vanakomana kuti vawane zvakawanda sezvinobvira pamusoro pemhuri yavo yezvokurapa uye (50 muzana) vanoudza vana vavo pamusoro payo.
- Vane makumi mapfumbamwe kubva muzana vanopa mazano ekutaura nezvehutano hwakanaka vasati varwara kana kuti chido chekuchengetwa kwechiremba kunoitika. (Zano iri rakarurama pane!)
Kunyarara Hakusi Kuenzana Simba
Dambudziko guru rekukurukurirana kwehutano rinoratidzika sekusada kutaura nezvehutano hwehutano hwega nekuda kwekutya kukonzera mhuri kushungurudzika kusina kufanira, kupiwa mhosva yezvisarudzo zvega zvingangodaro zvakakonzera kuhutano hwehutano, kana kuti kuoneka isina simba. Iwe unogona kunge uine chido chekutema, asi kukundikana kuunza zviratidzo kune chiremba iwe unokuisa iwe nemhuri yako pangozi.
Ndine varwere vaiva neropa mumuviri wavo kwemakore mashoma vasati vaona chiremba. Ropa mumuginho chiratidzo chekenza yemukaka , iyo inowanzopora kana ichionekwa kare.
Nenguva iyo makore maviri apfuura, chirwere chacho chave chakashata kana chisingaregi.
Kana iwe ukaramba wakanyarara nokuti unonzwa uchinetseka kutaura mamwe mashoko, ndinogona kutaura. Pandakatanga chirongwa changu chekurapa, ndakawana kusanzwisisika kutaura mazwi akadai se "penis" uye "scrotum." Hapana chikonzero chekunzwisisa kusakanganisika uku; inongova taboo chete yevanhu inokumisa. Ndinovimbisa kuti kazhinji iwe unotaura mazwi aya, zviri nyore kuwana.
Ngozi dzekusaziva
Kuchengetedza kenza ndiyo chikonzero chikuru chekuda kuziva mhuri yako yezvokurapa uye nekuipfuura. Kazhinji, pandinobvunza varwere nezvemhuri yavo yekenza yeprostate kana chirwere chavanenge vaine hanya nazvo, vanoti, "Baba vangu vane chimwe chinhu, asi ini handizivi kuti chii."
Kurondedzera zvakaitika kwauri nechinetso chezvoutano kunogona kudzivirira hupenyu hwemwana wako. Manyana kanzira, kusanganisira prostate uye kenza yekoloni, vane maitiro ekugadzirisa muviri. Kana iwe kana imwe nhengo yepedyo yemhuri yaive nekenza yeprostate musati wava nemakore makumi mashanu, zvinokosha kuti mwanakomana wako atange kugara achiongorora kuongorora kwechirwere mumakore ake makumi mana. Nokuti vanhu veAfrica -America vari pangozi yakakura yekenza yeprotate, tinogona kukurudzira kutanga kuongorora kunyange kare, kana pane imwe mhuri yehutachiona.
Kudzidzisa mwanakomana wako kuti ungazviita sei unofanirwa kuzviongorora. Kenza yechipupuriro inotanga kuchinja varume vaduku vanotanga kusvika kumakore makumi mapfumbamwe nemashanu uye vane chirwere chehutano che 98% pavanobatwa uye vachirapwa kare.
Kukosha kweChiremba Quarterback
Kuongororwa kwakaratidza kuti vanababa vaduku vakawanda vane vanakomana vanonzwa vakasununguka kukurukura nhoroondo yehutano hwemhuri naamai vavo, pane baba vavo. Uye varume vemazera ose avo vakaongororwa vanoda kutaura nezvedzimwe nharo dzehutano nebaba baba, panzvimbo pane baba vavo venyama. Zvose zvakanaka uye zvakanaka, asi vachiri kuda chiremba wega.
Murume wose wechiduku anofanira kutanga uhukama nechiremba wekutanga wekuchengetedza uyo achashanda se quarterback neboka rechiremba, kana chirwere chekurapa chichibuda. Uyu chiremba achacherechedza marudzi ose ezvinetso zvezvehutano, kwete chete avo vanobatana nehutano hwevarume, uye vanovimbisa kuti mwanakomana wenyu anogamuchira miedzo yakakodzera yekuongorora panguva yakakodzera.
Mushure mokunge muongorori wekutanga aine chirwere, mwanakomana wako angasafanira kuona chiremba zvakare kwemakore anoverengeka. Ichokwadi ndechokuti hauzivi kuti iwe uchava nechinetso chekurapa. Kana mumwe akadyara, haufaniri kunge uchikurumidza kuwana rubatsiro.
Kana iwe uine ukama nechiremba mukuru wekuchengeta, iwe unogona kudana kana une dambudziko uye bvunza kuti chii chaunofanira kuita. Chiremba achakuona kana kuronga kuti iwe ushanyire urologist kana imwe nyanzvi yakakodzera.
Kuputsa Kunyarara
Kana iwe uri pakati pevarume vasingatyi kukurukura nyaya dzehutano nemhuri dzenyu, taurai kwauri! Kana iwe wakagadzirira kutanga kutaurirana nevana vako nezvehutano hwehutano uye zvinetso, hezvino ndizvo zvaunofanira kutaura nezvazvo:
- Paunotsanangura zvepabonde, kurukurai njodzi dzezvirwere zvepabonde pamwe nekutsanangurwa kwekuti vasikana vanoita sei pamuviri.
- Varatidze kuti vanoita sei kuongorora kwepupuri mumvura. Vaudze kuti vanofanira kuzviita mwedzi woga woga uye vaudze kuti vakuudzei kana vanonzwa mavhinga kana mabhudzi.
- Taura nezvekusavhiringidza kwe erectile uye kuti inogona kuva chiratidzo chepfungwa yepfungwa pavanokura.
- Vaudze kuti vaone chiremba pakarepo kana vane zviratidzo kana zviratidzo zvehupi dambudziko rehutano uye kuti kunyarara hakusi chiratidzo chemasimba.
- Vaudze ivo mhuri yako uye nhoroondo yehupenyu hwezvinetso zvezvehutano. Kana iwe usingazivi izvi, bvunza baba vako kana dzimwe hama dzekuropa kuti vakuudze zvavanoziva.
Vanababa vanototaura nevana vavo nezvehutano hwavo kana kuronga kuita kudaro vanoti makore 11 kusvika ku12 ndiyo nguva yakakodzera yokutanga. Kana ukasarudza kumirira kusvikira mwana ari munhu mukuru, nyora pasi nhoroondo yako yehutano uye yemhuri uye uisiye munzvimbo yakachengeteka kana iwe ukapfuura usati wasvika.
Ita Basa Rako
Kana uri kuita basa rako sababa, iwe uchange uine hurukuro dzakawanda dzisinganzwisisiki nevana vako sezvavanokura. Kutaura nezvehutano kwakafanana nekutaura nezvekuve nemari mune zvemari, kuva muwani akanaka kana mubereki, kana kutsanangura kuti rufu runei. Iwe unofanirwa kuchera zvakadzika kuti uwane mazwi ekukurukurirana zvinhu izvi. Zvechokwadi, zvinonakidza zvikuru kutaura nevana vako nezvemitambo, mamiriro okunze, kana basa, asi pakupedzisira, utano hwavo-uye wako-hunonyanya kukosha.
> Kwakabva:
> MENtion It Survey, Cleveland Clinic, 2017.