Autism yakasimba; hezvino zvimwe zvigadziro zvekutarisana.
Chidzidzo chakaitwa paYunivhesiti yeNorth Carolina chinoratidza kuti "Amai vevana vane autism vangangodaro vachinetseka kuora mwoyo kana vachifunga kuti vane mhosva yechinokonzera kana chigumisiro chechirwere chemwana wavo ...". Vanaamai makumi mashanu nevana vane autism vainge vakanyanya kuora mwoyo, vachienzanisa 15% kusvika 21% mune mamwe mapoka. Vanaamai vasina mwana wevana vane hurema vakawanika kuti vanowanzova nengozi yekuora mwoyo zvakanyanya kupfuura vakadzi vanorarama nemumwe wavo.
Nei Momes of Autistic Kids Inowanikwa Kuda Kuora Mwoyo?
Dr. Dan Gottlieb wechiteshi cheNPR yeFiladelphia WAKABATSIRA sei nezvekudzidza. Kufananidza, akataura kuti vanaamai vanofunga kuti havagoni kuita zvakakwana kumwana wavo ne autism vangangodaro vanotambura nekuora mwoyo.
Zvechokwadi, manzwiro iwayo ekusazombova akakwana anogona kukonzera kuora mwoyo. Uye mune dzimwe nguva, kupa mazano kune vamamai kunogona kubatsira zvikuru.
Asi apo manzwiro ekuzvipa mhosva uye kusakwanira zvechokwadi ari kutamba kune vabereki vakawanda, kune zvakawanda zvakawanda munyaya yacho. Mhuri, kunyange avo vane vana vari kumucheto "kumusoro" we autism spectrum, kurarama nemamwe makuru makuru makuru anogona kutungamirira, kana zvishoma, kukanganisa, kutsamwa, kusagadzikana, kuzvidya mwoyo uye nezvimwe. Semuyenzaniso:
- Vabereki vanowana kuongororwa kwe autism vari kubatawo nekurasikirwa kwezvakawanda zvezvavanotarisira kuvabereki. Panguva imwecheteyo, vari kurasikirwa ne "chikwata chevabereki" chingave chakavatsigira - zvose kubva kugoverana playdates uye kuchengetwa kwevana nevavakidzani kuti vadzidzise bhora rekumba. Izvo zvakanaka zvakanyanyisa kuora mwoyo.
- Zvinogona kuva zvakaoma kuti tibatane mumagariro evanhu vemazuva ose nemwana pa autism spectrum. Kusiyanana kwevanhu kunonyatsozivikanwa kutungamirira kuora mwoyo.
- Inogona kuva inodhura kubata mwana pa autism spectrum. Mhuri dzakawanda dzinoenda mune chikwereti kuti dzitsigire mishonga isingabhadharwi neinishuwarenzi. Izvi zvinogona kukonzera kuzvidya mwoyo, kuora mwoyo, uye kutsamwa.
- Kakawanda, vanaamai nevana pa autism spectrum vanomisa kumisa mabasa avo vanonakidzwa (uye mari yavanoda kana yavanoda) kuitira kuchengetedza mwana pamutambo. Izvi zvinogona kutungamirira pakuora mwoyo.
- Vana vazhinji vane autism vane nguva yakaoma yokurara uye vanochengeta vabereki vavo vakamuka usiku hwose. Kuneta kunogona kukonzera kuora mwoyo.
- Vabereki vanofanirwa kurwisa zvikoro zvekuchikoro uye masangano ehutano hwehutano hwemagariro chero ipi zvayo yemhando dzakasununguka dzinenge dzisina chokwadi kuti dzinomhanya mumamiriro ezvinhu nemamiriro ezvinhu asingagamuchiri, asi pamusoro pezvo zvisingakwanisi kudzora. Izvi zvinonyanya kuora mwoyo.
- Sezvo vana vane autism vachikura, vabereki vanowanzotarisana ne "kusarura" nehutano hwemunhu uye wezvemari kune mumwe munhu mukuru uyo anoenderana nazvo pane zvose. Izvi zvinogona kunyanya kuora mwoyo.
Muchidimbu, kuva nemwana ane autism kunogona, zvechokwadi, kunotungamirira pakuora mwoyo, asi zvikonzero zvakawanda uye zvakaoma. Hazvina mhosva kuti kuvimba kana kuvhiringidza mubereki ndeyei, vangave vasingakwanisi kufara mukutarisana nekuneta, kubhadhara, nekuparadzaniswa.
Kutsungirira Kushungurudzika Kwemagariro eAustism
Mubereki anofanira kuitei mukutarisana nematambudziko akawanda? Pane zvakawanda zvingasarudzwa zvekuita. Kunyange pasina munhu angashandura chokwadi chepfungwa chokuti autism iripo kuti igare, vazhinji vanogona kubatsira vabereki kuti vatarisane zviri nani nemanzwiro ekurwadziwa.
- Tsvaka rubatsiro pakati pevabereki vanofunga sevana vane autism.
- Tsvaga kuremekedza, kuitira kuti iwe newawakaroorana naye mugone kuenda pamwe chete kuti muve nekukodzera kwakakodzera.
- Tsvaga rubatsiro rwezvenyanzvi kubva kune chiremba ane ruzivo rwunoshanda nemhuri dzine zvido zvakasiyana.
- Edza kuverenga kuitira kuti uderedze kushushikana kwako.
- Deredzai kurapa kwako kurapa nekusarudza kurapwa kwakadhura, kwakaderera kune mwana wako ne autism.
Zvichida zvinokosha kupfuura zvose, ziva kuti uri kuita zvakanakisisa zvaunokwanisa kumwana wako ne autism. Pane kuzvitambudza ne "zvakadini kana," tora nguva kuti unakidzwe nemwana wako.
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Kuora mwoyo mumadzimai nemadzibaba evana vane urema hwepfungwa. Nyaya yeIntellectual Disability Research, Bhuku 45, Nhamba 6, December 2001, pp. 535-543 (9).
Zvimwe zvinokonzerwa nekuzvidya mwoyo mumadzimai evana vane autism. Autism, Vol. 9, Nha. 4, 416-427 (2005).