MuAmerica, vanababa vanowanzobatana nevanakomana vavo kuburikidza nekubatanidzwa kwekurwisana nekutsvaga mitambo, mitambo, uye kudzidzisa. Kana mukomana anofarira Boy Scouts, Baba vanobatsira kuvaka motokari yePinewood Derby. Kana mukomana achida Little League, Baba vanodzidzisa unyanzvi, vanokanda mapango uye, zvichida, vanobatsira kudzidzisa.
Zvinogona kuva zvakaoma kuona kuti izvo zviitiko zvinogona kushanda zvakanaka nevana vane zvinetso zvisinganzwisisiki, kunetseka nehumbozha hwemotokari, matambudziko ane mutauro unotaurwa, uye unyanzvi hushoma hwokutevedzera.
Izvi zvinoreva here kuti vanababa veAmerica vanoda ruzivo rutsva rwakakwana rwokubatana nemwanakomana wavo autistic? Mhinduro ndiyo hongu uye kwete.
Hongu, kuberekera mwana pamutambo kunoda vamwe kunze kwe-bhokisi-kufunga , zvisikwa zvishoma, kuda kuedza, kukundikana, uye kuedza zvakare. Inodawo mano ekugadzirisa zvimwe - kunyange kana kuchinja uku hakuratidzi simba rako pachako kana zvido zvako.
Kushandisa Unyanzvi hwekubata
Asi kwete, kubereka mwana ne autism kungareve kurega kukanda mapuroto ako ekuti baba. Zvichienderana nemamiriro acho ezvinhu, zvingave zvichibvira kuuya nemafungiro akafanana patafura - asi tadzidzise ivo vana vanofunga uye vanoita zvishoma zvakasiyana.
Heano mazano mashomanana ekushandisa iyo yose-America yekugadzira nzira yekubatana nemwanakomana pa autism spectrum :
- Roughhousing . Mashoko akanaka ndeokuti: mwanakomana wenyu wega autistic angada zvachose kurwisa ! Izvozvi nokuti vana vakawanda vane autism vanonzwa kudiwa kwekumanikidzika kwakanyanya kana kunzwa kwekunzwa kuitira kuti vanzwe vakadzikama uye vari mukati. "Ini ndakakubata" mitambo, kutamba mitambo, uye mamwe maitiro ekutsvaga, saka, inogona kunge yakanyatsoita mwana wechidiki pamutambo. Nhau dzakaipa, zvisinei, ndeyekuti vana vane autism vangawana zvakanyanya kukumanikidza zvakanyanya. Iwe uchada kuedza zvakasiyana-siyana zvemuviri wechiratidzo kuti uone zvinonakidza - uye kwete kukuvadza - ku mwana wako autistic.
- Chase mitambo . Kune vana vakawanda vari mumutambo, kune avo vanofananidzira kutamba uye kutaura kwemashoko kune zvinonetsa, mitambo yekudzingirira ndiyo yekutanga, nzira yakanakisisa yokutamba nayo NESVA pane HERE vamwe vanhu. Chingave chakaoma kumwanakomana wako, zvisinei, ari kutevera mitambo nemitemo chaiyo. Kune vamwe vana vari mumitambo, mitemo yemitambo yakafanana nekateti kana Tora Girazi inogona kunge yakasununguka kuti iite zvine musoro. Kune vamwe, mitemo inogona kuva yakamanikidza zvikuru. Tamba nayo nenzeve: iwe nemwana wako unogona kufara "kungova mhuka" pamwe chete kutamba mitambo-based games.
- Mitambo . Hazvidikanwi - kunyange zvisingaiti zvisinganzwisisi-zvemwana ane autism kuti ave nyanzvi chaiyo, mutambo wematambo yemutambo. Miti yemitambo inonetsa zvikuru kumwana ane nguva yakaoma ane unyanzvi hukuru hwemotokari, haakwanisi kuverenga mutauro wemuviri, uye haakwanisi kuongorora nhepfenyuro yevanhu kunze kwekunge yakatsanangurwa kwaari zvakadzama. Kune rumwe rutivi, vana vakawanda vane autism vakanaka chaizvo pa (uye vanofarira chaizvo) mitambo yakazvimirira yakawanda yakadai sokumhanya, bhaji, bowling, uye kushambira. Iwe unogonawo kuwana kufarira kwakabatanidzwa mumitambo yemutaridzi: vana vane autism vanowanzowedzera zvakajeka, uye vanogona kusimudzira kuziva zvakawanda pamusoro peboka rako raunoda kupfuura iwe!
- Coaching . Kana iwe uine mwanakomana ane autism, hazvigone kuti iwe uchapedza kudzidzisa boka rakakunda mune imwe nzvimbo yepachikoro. Kune rumwe rutivi, iwe unogona kusimudzira kudzidzisa boka revana vanonyatsoda baba vakadai sewe kuti uvabatsire kubuda imomo, kukanda bhora, uye kufara nekufadzwa kwezvidzidzo, kuita chinangwa, kana kungova chikamu che team. Zvidikanwi zvinoda mauto emitambo nguva dzose ari kutsvaga vadzidzisi vevabereki - uye basa iri rinoshamisa kugutsa.
- Kuwana Chido Chinodiwa Kuti Ufare . Zvichida nzira inonyanya kukosha yokuti baba nemwanakomana vabatanidzwe zviri pamusoro penharaunda yekufarira. Muchizhinji chezviitiko, vana vane autism VEI zvido (uye kunyange zvido). Kana iwe uchida kubatana nemwanakomana wako, nzira yakanakisisa yekutevera ndeyekuona zvaanoda - uye kugovera. Aiwa, iwe unogona kunge usati wava nekunakidza, kureva, mhando dzezvitima kana mafirimu eDisney. Asi nokuchera zvakadzika uye kuwana nzira yekufarira chido chokudaidza kana kufarira nemwana wako, iwe uchavaka hwaro hwehupenyu hwako hwose.