Kana iwe usati wamboona rufu rwemwana, zvakaoma zvikuru kuziva zvaunofanira kutaura kune mumwe munhu anotarisana nemhando iyi yekurasikirwa. Rufu rwemucheche harusi rwechisikiro, kusaruramisira, uye kusuruvara. Zvakasikwa zvachose neshamwari dzevabereki vari kuchema kuti vade kushandira uye kubatsira, asi zvakadaro, vachiedza kuwana mazwi akakodzera okutaura nokuti zvamunotaura-uye zvausinazvo-zvinogona kukanganisa munhu anenge achida.
Zvokutaura Kana Mumwe Munhu Akarasikirwa Nemwana
Vabereki vakarasika mwana vanoda kunzwa vanotsigirwa mukurwadziwa kwavo uye vanogamuchira mvumo yekuchema munzira yavo pachavo. Vanoda kunzwa sokuti upenyu hwemwana wavo hwaive hunokosha uye hunoreva chimwe chinhu kune vamwe vaiziva uye vaimuda. Iwe unokwanisa kusangana nezvido zvemubereki ane shungu nekuchengeta zvinotevera mupfungwa:
- Taura nomwoyo wose runyaradzo. "Ndine urombo kwazvo nekuda kwekurasikirwa kwako," muenzaniso wakanaka.
- Ipa rubatsiro rwakasununguka. "Kana pane chimwe chinhu chandingaita, ndapota ndiudzei ini ndinoda kubatsira chero nenzira ipi zvayo."
- Ipai runyararo. Usafunga sokuti iwe unoda kuzadza nzvimbo isina chinhu nekutaura. Iva nerunyararo nekunyarara uye ugove wakakwana mumuviri nemubereki ane shungu (s).
- Apo nguva yacho yakarurama, taura zvinorehwa nemwana wakafa kwauri. Izvi zvingasava zvakakodzera kuita pakarepo mushure mekufa kwemwana asi, kana nguva yacho yakarurama, inogona kuratidza zvakakosha kumubereki (s) kunzwa vamwe vachitaura izvo mwana akafa akaireve kwaari. Iwe unogonawo kugovera chiyeuchidzo chaunofarira kana maviri kuti uite kuti uwedzere iwe pachako.
Chisingatauri Kana Mumwe Munhu Akarasikirwa Nemwana
Zvakakosha zvakakosha sekuti chii chakutaura ndicho chisingatauri , chakadai:
- Usamboti iwe unoziva kuti mubereki akafirwa anonzwa sei.
- Usamboti, "Zvakanaka, zvinofanira kunge zvakave zvakanakisisa," kana kuti "Zvaiva kuda kwaMwari." Kuedza kuita pfungwa yekurasikirwa nenzira idzi kunogona kuita kuti vabereki vane shungu vaone seunoderedza kufa kwevana vavo.
- Usamboti, "Ari munzvimbo iri nani zvino." Izvo zvinogona kukuunza nyaradzo kana iwe uchitenda kudenga, asi hazvizogoni kupa nyaradzo kumubereki ane shungu, uyo ari munzvimbo yakaipa zvikuru pasi pano.
- Usambofa wanyengedza nhau yemudiwa wako nekuudza nyaya yako pachako. Ino ndiyo nguva yavo yekuchema, ramba uchitarisa pamusoro pavo.
- Usamboti utaure nguva yekuchema kana zvikamu zvekutambudzika . Kushungurudzika hakutevedzeri nguva kana kutama kuburikidza nezvikamu zvinotarisirwa.
Ramba Uchitsigira
Ramba uchifunga kuti mumwe munhu anorasikirwa nemwana haazombofi "kudzokera kune zvakasikwa" uye haazombotombo "kutora." Kurasikirwa kwemwana kunoshandura munhu kwehupenyu hwake hwose. Nokuda kweizvi, iwe unofanira kuda nekusimbisa shamwari yako yakafirwa kana kuti iwe unoda kuti ndivanaani uye kuti ivo vachava ani sezvaanenge achichinja kumatambudziko, kusaruramisira kwemwana.