Kubatana kwevanhu munharaunda kunogona kupa vanhu vakura vese vatsigiro
Chii Chinoitika Kumwana Wedu Wekutenda Patinofa?
Pane imwe nguva shure, shamwari yangu yakarongedza kutarisa pikicha pfupi paIndaneti yePBS iyo ine mhuri mbiri dzine vanhu vakuru mu autist spectrum. Mhuri dzaiva dzakafanana. Vose vakange vari vatsvene uye pakati peboka (rimwe mhuri rakataridzika kuva rakapfuma kupfuura rimwe, asi harina kuonekwa rakapfuma kana rakashata). Mhuri mbiri idzi dzaive dzaamai nababa mumakore avo akazotevera (kurega kusununguka) neine autistic mwanakomana mugore rake makumi maviri.
Vose vechidiki vaitaura uye vaiteerera, asi zvose zviri zviviri zvakakanganiswa nezvakaonekwa, kunyanya pamusoro pepamusoro, kuva nehunyanzvi uye kugadzirisa zvinetso pamwe chete nechishuvo chikuru chekufanana uye nguva dzose.
Muzviitiko zvose izvi, kuguma kwemashumiro echikoro kwainge kwakaratidza kuguma kwemishonga, uye kuguma kwemikana yakawanda inobhadharwa. Rimwe jaya, zvakadaro, rakapedza zuva iri mumusangano wakachengetedzwa; mumwe wacho akashanda muchitoro uye ane nguva yakakwana yekudzidzisa basa. Mumwe nomumwe aiita seasununguka nebasa rake. Mune mamwe mazwi, zvose zviri zviviri zvakakosha, masikati, mamiriro ezvinhu akatsigirwa mairi ayo aishandiswa zvakanaka kunze kwemusha. Uye mumamiriro ose maviri aya mamiriro ekutsigirwa akaonekwa achibhadharwa nemamwe marudzi ehurumende kana purogiramu yehurumende (vakanga vasiri padziviriro yepachivande).
Saka vabereki vaishushikana, vakanga vasina kunyanya "tingakunda sei mamiriro ezvinhu aya." Kunetseka kwaiva "chii chinoitika patinofa?"
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Mune imwe mhuri, vakoma vakwegura vakange vatobvumirana kuti vatarisire hama yavo. Mune imwe, pasina vana vomunun'una, vabereki vacho vaishanda pamwe nemamwe mhuri (avo vasina kubvunzurudzwa) kuti vagare nguva yakazara yehupenyu hwemamiriro ezvinhu. Kunyangwe sezvavakashanda kune iri sarudzo, zvisinei, vabereki vacho vaiita sevasinganzwisisiki kana mwanakomana wavo aigona kubata boka reimba .
Vakatarisira, kuburikidza nedzivo dzekudzidzira mari-dzipi mumari yavo, kuti vamugadzirire hupenyu hwakazvimiririra .
Zvechokwadi, mhuri idzi dzinomiririra boka guru revanhu vari (kana kuti munguva pfupi iri kuva) mamiriro akafanana. Peter Gerhardt, mumwe wevanhu vashomanana vane ruzivo rwakakomba mukushanda nevanhu vakuru pamharaunda, akarondedzera zvinotarisirwa kuti vanhu vakuru vane autism se "tsunami." Chikonzero chacho chaizvoizvo chiri nyore: vana vakawanda vanorwara vane autism zvinoreva, pakufamba kwenguva, vamwe vanhu vakuru vane autism. Zvirongwa zvekuchikoro zvakazara uye zvinowanikwa kune vose - asi mapurogiramu evanhu vakuru ane maitiro, uye anogona kusanganisira mazita akawanda ekumirira, kunyanya kumhuri umo munhu mukuru ane autism asina mafambiro ane utsinye uye anokwanisa kubata nekuchengetedza zuva nezuva uye mabasa echiitiko.
Kubatsira Mwana Wako Wekutendeseka Kuti Ajoane Nemunharaunda
Chimwe chinhu chakandibaya ini nomurume wangu sezvatakatarisa vhidhiyo iyi ndiyo inoshamisa yekusuruvara kwakaratidzwa. Vabereki nemwanakomana, mumatambudziko acho maviri, vakaita sevanorarama muvharo. Kwakange kusina kutaurwa nezvemabasa emhuri; hapana tsanangudzo yemabasa emwanakomana kunze; hapana kutaura pamusoro pehama kana mhuri (kunze kwehama, vose vanorarama kure). Muchidimbu, mhuri idzi dzaiva dzoga-uye ndizvo zvaivawo nevanakomana vavo.
Mhuri dzainge dzakatsaurira kuzvido zvevanakomana vavo kuti zvive zvakafanana uye zvigaro; mumwe mubereki akacherechedza "isu tese takakwanisa kurarama hupenyu hwevanhu vakuru."
Zvechokwadi, kunetseka pamusoro pe "mushure mokunge tafa" ndeyechokwadi kuvabereki vemumwe munhu mukuru ane hurema. Asi zvinoita sezviri pachena kuti hatigoni kuvimba nehurumende yehutano yekuchengetedza kuti tipe rubatsiro, rudo, uye nzvimbo yedu yevana vakuru vanoda. Sezvatinotarisira kuronga nekubatana nehupenyu hwevana vedu vaduku, tinoda kuronga nekubatana nekugadzirisa matambudziko ekugadzirisa nekugadziriswa kwevanhu nekuda kwevana vedu vakuru, kuitira kuti upenyu hwedu nehupenyu hwevana vedu hurege kurondedzerwa mumashoko akadai se "dambudziko "uye" zvakashata. "
Chimwe chinhu icho mhuri yedu yaita - nechinangwa-kubuda kusingazivikanwi kwemasuwa eguta duku. Izvi zvinopesana. Mhedziso chaiye. Pano, mwanakomana wedu ane autism haasi mutorwa asina kunaka: ndiye Tom. Izvozvo zvinokosha.
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Apo patinoenda kuraibhurari , muraibhurari anomuziva nemazita. Apo patinopinda kune munharaunda yekunamatira, vatenzi vanoenda kunzvimbo vanoziva shangu yake yehomwe. Vashandi veYMCA vanomuziva zvakanaka, uye vanoda kugadzirisa zvigaro mumapurogiramu angave angave akaoma kwaari.
Tom ndiye akanaka clarinet player; mimhanzi yose mumudzidzisi anoziva unyanzvi hwake, uye anoziva iye. Anotamba muchikwata chechikoro uye anotanga kutamba nebhokisi reguta. Iyi musasa wezhizha unotungamirirwa ne-regional symphony yave iri chikomborero, kwete chete nokuti inotyisa musasa asi nokuti vanhu vakafanana vanomhanya mumusasa vanomhanyawo nechechi yeguta, chekuchengetedza, uye symphony. Vanoda Tom, uye vanoremekedza tarenda yake. Small world.
Sevanhu vemunharaunda, isu tiri kunyanya kuziva nezvekuwana mikana yebasa rokuzvipira, kudzidzira, uye, zvichida, basa. Tinoziva nezvemabasa - kwete kwete paWalmart kana muzvitoro, asi mune zvebhizimisi uye kwete-purogiramu - izvo zvingagona kupa mikana yemwanakomana wedu. Tinoziva vanhu vanoita zvemabhizimisi uye vasina mari. Uye isu tiri kunyatsojeka kuti, kunyange zvazvo mabhizimisi maduku uye vasina ruzivo kazhinji vasingashandisi "vakaremara," vangave vakagadzirira kushandisa mumwe munhu wavanoziva, uye akada, kwemakore akawanda.
Sezvo ndakakurira mumasango uye ndakagara muguta, ndinoziva kuti zviri nyore sei kunzwa sechikafu chemakungu chinotenderera pamusoro pegungwa guru revanhu - roga mumhomho. Asi ini ndinoziva zvakare kuti zvinogona kurarama zvakasiyana. Ndakaona mhuri yakakura yakazvitarisira ivo pachavo. Ndakatarisa nhengo dzemhuri dzinotsigira dzinoda rubatsiro rwakawedzerwa. Pano muguta redu, purogiramu yakaderera-inharaunda yakaronga vanhu vakwegura uye vanhu vakaremara vane mabasa epamba nekufambisa-kunze kwekudiwa kwehurumende mutsvuku kana mari.
Kuramba Munharaunda Inogona Kureva Kuramba Wakabatana
Hapana chimwe chezvizvi zvinoreva kuti tinoziva kuti Tom achava "akanaka kwazvo" patinenge taenda. Kune nzvimbo yakakura yekufamba pakati penguva isipi, uye mwanakomana wedu haasati asvika 22. Isu hatitarisiri mharaunda yedu kutora zvidimbu kana tikakundikana mwana wedu.
Zvatinoziva, kunyange zvakadaro, isu tose-amai, baba, hanzvadzi nehanzvadzi-tine hupenyu pano. The bowling, raibhurari, mimhanzi, Y uye nezvimwe zvose chikamu cheiyo. Tinotarisira kukwegura pano, uye tinofungidzira kuti Tom achararama pamwe chete kana kuti pedyo nesu patinokura. Tinotarisira kuti acharamba achikura semunhu anozvipira munharaunda, mushandi, mhizha, uye mudzidzi mukuru. Sezvatinoda. Tine zvirongwa uye pfungwa dze "patinenge taenda," kunyange zvazvo zvirongwa izvi (semuhupenyu hwose) zvichienderana nekuchinja.