Nhau yevana Pamusoro peMatastatic Cancer
Imwe yemibvunzo yakaoma zvikuru inondinyorerwa kubva kuvadzimai vatsva vanongoramba vachiwana, "Ndinoudza sei vana vangu vaduku ndine kenza yemazamu?" Mubvunzo wakaoma zvikuru uchagara uchiti, "Ndinoudza sei vana vangu kuti ndine kenza yepamusoro yepabonde, kenza isingambofi? Ndinoita sei kuti vanzwisise, vasina kuvhundutsa zvikuru, kuti kurapa kwangu hakuzomboperi? "
Handisi mushonga, kana mushandi wehupfumi; Ini ndiri mudzidzisi kuburikidza nokudzidziswa uye ruzivo. Saka mazano angu okutanga apo mukadzi achindibvunza kuti sei uye paanofanira kutaura nemwana wake nezvechirwere chake chemastastatic, ndeyekukurudzira kuti ataure nekutanga nemushandi kana mupi wezano, zvichida imwe inokurudzirwa nhengo yeboka rake rekuchengeta oncology. Mhinduro yangu yechipiri inowanzokurudzira kuverenga bhuku kana maviri pamusoro pekutaura nemwana wako nezvekenza yepazamu. Kunyange zvazvo mabhuku asina kubatsiririra kutsvaga mazano emakambani, anopa mazano pamusoro pezvinobatsira vana kurarama nekenza yemubereki.
Kune mabhuku mashomanana, akanyorwa nevasara, vanotaura izvo vana vanogona kutarisira apo amai vanoenda kuburikidza nekurapa kwekenza yemukomana wepakutanga, kwete kenza yemastastas. Aya mabhuku anotarisana nekuchinja pakuonekwa kwaamai, kurasikirwa kwesimba, uye zvimwe zvinhu zvichaita kuti upenyu hwevana huvepo munguva yake-isina kukwana, kushandiswa kwakasimba.
Kune mabhuku anotarisana nemagumo ehupenyu. Kusvikira munguva pfupi ichangopfuura, ndakanga ndisati ndawana mabhuku anotarisana nevana vaduku vanorwara nekenza yemubereki iye zvino ari kurapwa sechirwere chisingaperi.
Mubhuku rake, The Cancer That Will Not Leave Away, Hadassa Field yakakwanisa kugadzirisa nekubudirira nyaya pamusoro peswere chemasastatic, uye chikamu chekuti "sei" chikamu chekushandisa nyaya yacho kuti vana vaduku vataure pamusoro pekutya kwavo, kutsamwa kwavo, uye manzwiro okushungurudzika apo mubereki ane kenza yemukati.
Nyaya yacho ndeyechokwadi. Aya mapeji akawanda, uye anosanganisira mifananidzo yakajeka, naKristuina G. Smith. Mifananidzo yemhuri uye yemhuri ndiyo inozivikanwa kuvana vaduku vakawanda. Vanowedzera nyaya yacho.
Kutevera nyaya, chikamu, chakanyorwa naRayat R.Green, Psy. D., Mwana, Mwana Ari Kuyaruka uye Mucherechedzo weMumhuri Mhuri anopa mazano ekushandisa nyaya yacho somubereki, chiremba, kana mudzidzisi.
Nhau yacho ndeye mukomana muduku anonzi Max, baba vake, uye amai vake vane chirwere zvakare, uye kuti vari kurarama sei nekenza yemasitasi semhuri. Nyaya haisati yakaratidza rudzi rwemastastine mhanza yemukati, iyo inoita kuti ive yakakosha kune vateereri vakawanda vevaverengi.
Nyaya huru munyaya yacho ndeyekuti Max anonzwa sei kusanganisira kuvhiringidzika, kutya, kutsamwa uye kusuruvara. Pakupera kwenyaya yacho ari kudzidza kurarama nekusava nechokwadi kwekurarama nechirwere chemaamai vake.
Mukana Unenge Usingadi Kuenda ibasa rerudo, neHadassa Field naSara Mosak Saiger mukuyeuka hanzvadzi yavo, Ahuva Rachel Prager, uyo akaonekwa kuti ane chirwere chemastastatic pamakore makumi maviri nemaviri. Ahuva aida kutsanangurira mamiriro ake ezvinhu kuvana vake vaduku, asi haana kuwana mabhuku akambotaura nezvekenza yemasitasiti chaiye.
Iyo Kanzera Yaisakwanisa Kuenda yakauya mukuedza kubatsira vana vaAhuva vaduku vaviri kuti vanzwisise zvaive kuitika kuna amai vavo. Ahuva akapfuura nekenza yepamusasa yemasasa pazera remakore 32.
Nyaya yacho inofanirwa uye inonzwisisika-inotaridzirwa yezvingaitwa nemwana muduku kana amai vake vane kenza yemukati. Nyaya inosimbisa manzwiro anoita mwana mumamiriro ezvinhu aya. Kusingazivi kuti mubereki achabva sei kubva kune rimwe zuva kuenda kune rinotevera kuwanda kwekusatenda kwemwana. Nyaya inosimbisa kurarama nhasi, kufara nemazuva akanaka namai, uye kuziva kuti kuchava nemazuva ayo asingazonzwi zvakanaka.
Nzira yekuti "sei" chikamu chebhuku inopa ruzivo rwakakosha kuvabereki nezvekuti sei uye nguva yekutaura nemwana muduku sei achishandisa nyaya sekutungamira mukukurukurirana nezvekenza yemasasa yemamese. Inoratidza kuti vanachiremba vanoshandisa nyaya sechigadziro chekushanda kwete chete nemwana mumwe nomumwe mumhuri, mumwe nomumwe, asi mumisangano yemhuri pamwe chete. Vadzidzisi, mazano ekupa mazano uye vatsigiri vepfungwa vekuchikoro vanogonawo kuwana nyaya iyo inobatsira pavanoshanda nemwana ari kurarama nemukomana wemukati wemasitadhi.
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