Iwe unenge watoziva nhau dzakaipa: muzukuru wako akakwana ane autism spectrum diagnosis . Asi pane mashoko akanaka zvakare: sekurukuru wemwana ane autism, une mukana wekuita basa rinokosha mukubatsira mwana wako mukuru uye muzukuru wako vanorarama uye vanobudirira nechinetso chisingatarisirwi. Iwe unogonawo kushamisika kuziva kuti kuva "akakwidzika" autist "vanasekuru" hazvirevi zvakaoma sezvazvinonzwika.
Usarega Kurwisa
Hongu, iwe ungangodaro wakaona mwanasikana wako achikurira muzukuru wako pasi pamberi peTV imwe nguva kakawanda, kana kusarudza kusachengeta tsvimbo uye kubvumira chaos. Asi tsvina yose yekutsvakurudza yakaita kuti zvive pachena kwazvo kuti autism haIYE (uye haisati yakambovapo) chikonzero chekusava nemubereki maitiro . Zviri pachena, kana iwe uchifunga kuti muzukuru wako ari pangozi iwe uchada kupinda mukati uye kupomera. Asi pfupi pane dambudziko rakakomba, simbisa chido chako chekupa mhosva pavabereki vezukuru vako.
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Mwana wako mukuru achave achinyatsowana ruzivo rwemagetsi kubva kumativi ose - vanachiremba, vadzidzisi, vanachiremba, shamwari, nevavakidzani. Sekuru sekuru, haisi basa rako kuwedzera ku cacophony. Pane kudaro, shandisa unyanzvi hwako hwokuteerera. Rega mwana wako nemumwe wake kuti akuudze zvinenge zvichiitika, chii chinonetsa, chinokonzera, chinoshanda, uye chisingaiti. Bvunza mibvunzo, tibatsire kujekesa kufunga, asi ita zvose zvaunogona kuti usapinda muine mamwe mashoko, mazano, kana pfungwa.
Pane kudaro, shandisa unyanzvi hwako hwokuteerera. Rega mwana wako nemumwe wake kuti akuudze zvinenge zvichiitika, chii chinonetsa, chinokonzera, chinoshanda, uye chisingaiti. Bvunza mibvunzo, tibatsire kujekesa kufunga, asi ita zvose zvaunogona kuti usapinda muine mamwe mashoko, mazano, kana pfungwa.
Ruth Nemzoff, munyori uye mukurukuri wekuti Usabata Rurimi Rwako: Nzira Yekukurudzira Ukama Hwezvipo Nevana Vako Vakura Vanoti: "Ambuya havafaniri kubvisa zvinetso zvemwana mukuru, asi vanofanira kuvatsigira."
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Vanhu vazhinji vezera rekurukuru vakakurira munguva iyo "vana" chaivo vakave vakaparadzaniswa nechokure kubva kune avo vakawanda sezvavanokwanisa. Iwe unogona zvakare kukura nefungwa yokuti mafungiro epfungwa uye kubudirira anonyadzisa. Kuti uwane rubatsiro rwe mwana wako mukuru uye chaizvoizvo uine chibvumirano nezukuru wako, iwe uchazofanira kupfuura. Izvozvo zvinogona kureva rimwe basa rekunzwa iwe, asi zvakakosha kukosha: iwe haugoni kuva muzukuru akanaka kumwana waunonyara nawo!
Ziva Kuziva Simba Rako Muzukuru
Chimwe chezvinhu zvakaoma zvikuru pamusoro pokurera vana mwana ne autism ndezvechokwadi kuti vanhu vazhinji vachamuona se "zvinhu zvakakuvadza." Zvikoro, vanachiremba, uye vanachiremba vose vanotarisana nematambudziko pane simba. Sekuru sekuru, iwe une ropafadzo yekuziva muzukuru wako semunhu. Fungidzira uri uyo anoona tarenda yako yakavanzika yekudhira, kuimba, kana masvomhu - munhu mumwe chete uyo anocherechedza simba rekutanga, uye anogadzirisa matambudziko kunze.
Dzidza Roti, Shandisai Muduku
Pane nguva yakawanda yekuziva nezve autism, uye iwe unogona kutsvaira zuva rose neusiku zuva reTV, redhiyo, mabhuku, mawebsite, podcasts, uye zvinyorwa nezve autism. Zvadaro, iwe unogona kuratidza paimba yemwana wako ne ream pepa zuva rega rega. Sezvo iwe unogona kunge uchifungidzira, zvisinei, iyo iyo mapepa ingangodaro inomuka ichikomberedza pasi payo shiri. Pane kugovera zvekupedzisira autism tidbit kubva ku "Morning News," pfupa pane zverapies muzukuru wako ari kugamuchira, dzidza chimwe chinhu pamusoro pevhisiki uye dzidzo - uye gadzirira nemashoko kana zvichidikanwa.
Batsira Kutarisira Mhuri Yakanyanyisa
Mwana wako mukuru ane zvakakwana kugadzirisa kunze kwekuedzawo kurarama nemu "mazano" anobatsira mukoma wake "mutemo unobatsira," zvinokonzerwa nemukoma wake ("Mwanakomana wangu achabata autism ?!"), uye mazwi ababamunini vake asi asina maturo ("iye achava zvakanaka, ingomupa nguva! ").
Sezvaunokwanisa, tanga iwe mberi uye nemitemo nemazano emhuri dzekuunganidza dzinobatsira kugadzirisa mugwagwa kumwana wako mukuru uye kumuzukuru wako ne autism. Inotonga se "hapana mazano ezveruzhinji anobvumirwa," uye "hongu, mwana ane autism anowana pokugara" anofanira kugadzirisa mibvunzo vasati vasimuka.
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Kana pane zvinhu zviviri mubereki wevidism anoda, iyo nguva uye mari. Nguva yekutora nguva, kubvumirana zvakare nemumwe wavo uye nevamwe vana, kutengesa zvekudya, kutora bvudzi - nguva yenguva dzose, autism pasina hupenyu. Uye mari. Mari yekubhadhara kurapwa, kana kutsiva mari yakapera. Mari yekupa vana vanokosha vana, mapurogiramu anodiwa anodiwa munharaunda, mishonga isingafukidzwi neinishuwarenzi. Iwe unogona kupa kupa kunyatsotarisa muzukuru wako, kana iwe unogona kumira kuti ugare; iwe unogona kubhadhara zvidikanwi zvakananga kana chekuita mari. Iwe unogona kubhadhara nekuda kwezvido zvemuzukuru wako autistic, kana kupa vana vomunun'una "baba vangu neni" nguva . Chinhu chipi nechipi chinoshanda zvakakunakira iwe chichava chipo chikuru kumwana mukuru nemumwe wake.
Sezvaunogona kuona, kubereka mwana ne autism kwakafanana nekuberekera mwana chero upi zvake, kunyange zvakadaro, se Nemzoff manotsi, "kunyanya zvakadaro." Sezvaunosvika pakuziva muzukuru wako uye kudzidza pamusoro pevhisiyiti, uchawana dzimwe mikana yekugadzira chisungo chakasiyana uye chisingachinjiki nemwana anokuda zvechokwadi.