Chii chiri Frottage / Dry Humping
Kubhururuka ndiro izwi rinoshandiswa kuti " dry humping ". Inotsanangurwa sechinhu chepabonde apo vanhu vanodha miviri yavo vachirwisana. Kusvuta kunogona kuitwa kana usina kupfeka kana kupfeka. Tsanangudzo yehumping yakaoma ndeyekuti, mune mamwe mazwi, kwete zvakananga pamusoro pehutano hweganda-kune-ganda . Ikoko kunogona kuva nehumwe hutachiona hwemutumbi.
(Izvo zvinoenderana nekukwiridzirwa kweumwe neumwe, pamwe nekupfeka zvipfeko zvavanopfeka.) Nemamwe mazwi, pakaoma humping ingasave yakanyanya "yakaoma". Izvozvo, zvisinei, zvakasvibiswa kudarika vaginal kana kurara kwepabonde!
Kutambura Kunogona Kuita Zvepabonde Zvakachengeteka Here?
Kana wapedza kupfeka, kubvongodza inzira yakachengeteka yepabonde. (Zvakanaka, yakachengeteka chero bedzi pasina munhu anowira pamubhedha ... kana mubhedha). Iko hakuna kana shanduko yemvura yemuviri kana kuti ganda kuti ganda ribatane. Saka chingave chingave chetachiona chetachiona nzira inotsvoda . Sezvo zvakadaro, vanhu vazhinji vanozviona zvichifadza, kutanga kwepabonde newavo vatsva.
Kana yaitwa yakashama, zvakadaro, kubvongodza kunogona kusanganiswa nehuwandu hwehutano. Zvimwe zvirwere, zvakadai semagetsi emagetsi, zvinogona kutapudzwa kubva paganda kusvika paganda munguva yekuoma humping. Zvisinei, kubvongodza kuchiri kwakachengeteka kupfuura dzimwe dzakawanda zvekuita zvepabonde. Iwe unogonawo kuita kuti ive yakachengeteka nokufukidza chero ipi zvayo inogona kupararira ganda.
Semuenzaniso, unogona kupfeka zvipfeko kana kuisa band-aid pamusoro pemakumbo asina kutsanangurwa kana maronda.
Chiito chakafanana chepabonde, chinonyanya kurongedzerwa mumasikana , ndeyechihedheni. Kunyange zvakadaro, tribadism inowanzosanangurwa sekusveta mutsva pamusana petsoka kana imwe chikamu chikamu chekuita zvepabonde. (Izvi zvinogonawo kuitwa nemukadzi ari mumhuri isina vanhu vanoita zvebonde.) Kusiyana neizvi, kubvongodza hazviwanzobatanidza zvakananga zvekuberekwa kwebonde.
Ichokwadi inogona kusanganisira kushingaira kwakadaro. Izvo zvinongorondedzerwa sekuti muviri unowedzera zvakanyanya.
Ndiani ane Frottage?
Dry humping iyi inowanzofanana yehupombwe hwekuita zvepabonde pakati pevechidiki nevakuru. Chimwe chinhu icho vanhu vose vanoita zvepabonde uye huzivi hwemadzimai vanogona kufara. Kubvongodza kunogona kuita semabasa anofadza mukati uye pachake. Inogonawo kushandiswa sechimiro che foreplay musati mimwe mhando dzekubatana kwepabonde.
Kusvetwa hazvirevi kupindira kana, kazhinji, kurondedzera kusangana kwepabonde. Nokudaro, vamwe vanhu vangave vasingafungi kuti iri chimiro chepabonde. Zvisinei, sezvo inogona kutungamirira kumufaro, kumutsa, uye kunyange kutengesa, ndingada kusawirirana. Izvozvo zvakati, zvose zvinoenderana nemutsara wemunhu wepabonde . Ikoko hakusi tsanangudzo yepasi rose iyo munhu wese anobvumirana.
Non-Consensual Frottage
Kusvuta kunogona kushandiswa sechimiro chokurwisa zvepabonde. Kusakodzera uye kusingadikanwi kugadziriswa kwepabonde kwehupombwe kwakambotaurwa sechinetso zvose vari voga uye mune dzimwe nzvimbo dzevanhu. Vakadzi vazhinji vechidiki, kunyanya, vakamboshungurudzwa nenzira iyi. Sezvimwe nemamwe marudzi ekurwisa zvepabonde, izvi zvinogona kutungamirira kumatambudziko mashoma uye kwenguva refu emanzwiro.
Chido chekusagadziriswa kwechando, kana kuti frotteurism, chave chakaiswa separaphilia muDaagnostic and Statistical Manual (DSM).
Inonzi Frotteuristic Dambudziko mu DSM-5, kuongororwa kunodikanwa kufungidzira pamusoro, kana kubvarura, munhu asina kubvumirana. Kusiyana neizvi, kunakidzwa kwekugadziriswa kwekugadziriswa hakuoneki sechinetso chepfungwa.
Sources:
> American Psychiatric Association. (2013). Kuongororwa uye nhamba yehuwandu hwehutano hwepfungwa (5th ed.). Washington, DC: Munyori.
Bonnar J, Lamprecht V, O'Conner E. Zvimwe nzira dzekuita zvepabonde dzaiitwa munguva yekubereka pakati pevashandisi vekushandisa muIreland. Adv Contracept. 1997 Jun-Sep; 13 (2-3): 173-7.
> Clark SK, Jeglic EL, Calkins C, Tatar JR. Chinopfuura Chimiro Chese: Kuwanda uye Migumisiro yeFrotteurism uye Exhibitionism. Kushungurudza Zvepabonde. 2016 Feb; 28 (1): 3-19. doi: 10.1177 / 1079063214525643.
> Johnson RS, Ostermeyer B, Sikes KA, Nelsen AJ, Coverdale JH. Kuwanda uye kurapwa kwefritteur mukati mharaunda: kuongorora kwakarongeka. J Am Acad Psychiatry Mutemo. 2014; 42 (4): 478-83.
Lyons A, Smith AM, Grierson JW, von Doussa H. Vanhurume veAustralia vanoita zvepabonde mumasunas, makambani ekurara nevarume vakomana pabonde panzvimbo dzekugara. Zvepabonde Utano. 2010 Jun; 7 (2): 186-92. doi: 10.1071 / SH09101.