Haasi hukama hwose hwakanaka. Chirwere chetachiona hachisi chikonzero chekudzivisa ukama nemumwe munhu. Zvisinei, nzira iyo mumwe wako anobata nayo kuti kuongororwa kunogona kukupa pfungwa yakanaka yehupenyu hwake. Inogona kukubatsirawo kuona kana ukama hwako hwakanaka.
Kune vanhu vanotambudza avo vachashandisa zvirwere zvepabonde zvinotapurirana (maDD) kuti vaedze nekudzivirira kana kukuvadza avo varo.
Izvi zvinowanzoitwa kuburikidza nokuzvidira kujekesa mumwe wako kune chirwere chepabonde kuitira kuti vaite kuti vanzwe vakavharirwa muhukama. Izvo zvinogonawo kuitwa kuburikidza kushandiswa kweSVD iripo iko kukanganisa mafungiro avo ezvakakosha.
Nenzira Inofadza Kuda Vadiwa Vavo
Vanhu vane utachiona hweSDD vasingagoni kurapwa kazhinji vanonzwa vanoparadzwa, vakasviba, kana kunyara . Kunyange zvazvo vanhu vazhinji vanogona kuwedzera manzwiro akadaro nenguva nekupa mazano, vamwe vanhu vasina tsika uye vanonyadzisa vanenge vachida kuuraya mumwe wavo neHIV. Chinangwa chavo ndechokurudzira manzwiro akafanana ezvinonyadzisa uye kuchengetedza shamwari yavo navo nokusingaperi.
Zvimwe Zvimwe Zvinyorwa:
- "Zvakanaka, kana ndichimupa herpes, iye zvino anofanira kugara neni."
- "Zvino iwe waparadzwa, zvakare iwe unogona kugara neni nokuti hakuna mumwe angakuwana iwe."
- "Zvino sezvo iwe une chirwere ichi, hapana nzira iyo mumwe munhu angakuda.Kana iwe ukandisiya ini, iwe uchava woga woupenyu hwako hwose."
Ichokwadi ndechokuti ani naani anokurudzira nechinangwa chekuita neHIV uye achikuudza kuti unofanira kugara naye nokuti "wakaparadzwa," "tsvina," "isingadikanwi," kana imwe tsanangudzo haisi munhu waunofanira kuva mune ukama naye. Hazvina mhosva kana zviito zvavo zvichibva mumanzwiro okusachengeteka kana kuzvizvidza.
Kuziva muchirwere mumwe munhu ane chirwere chepabonde, nechinangwa chokushandisa chirwere ichi kutora hutano pamusoro pehupenyu hwomumwe wavo, hutsinye uye hutsinye. Icho chiratidzo chakanaka chokuti iwe unoda kuwana nzira yakachengeteka kubva kunze kweukama uhwu sezvichibvira.
Izvozvo zvakati, zvakakosha kubvuma kuti zvinokwanisika kuti vanhu varatidze vavanonamata navo kune zveSDD vasingaiti nemaune. Semuenzaniso, izvi zvinowanzoitika kana mumwe munhu ane utachiona husina maturo hwavasingazivi. Zvakakoshawo kutaura kuti vamwe vanhu vanoziva pachena avo vanobatana navo kumagadzirirwo ezvematachiona kunze kwezvinonyadzisa, kusaziva, kana kusaregerera pane utsinye. Kunyange zvazvo mamiriro ezvinhu akadaro angangodaro anonyengedzwa ekuvimbwa uye kukundikana kwekutaurirana, havasi nguva dzose vanotambudza.
Kuita Kuti Iwe Usakanganwa Munhu Achakuda Nokuti Une Gara reTV
Apo hukama hwakatanga kufamba zvakaipa, vamwe vanhu vachashandisa chero nzira yavanogona kuchengetedza shamwari yavo kubva pakusiya. Imwe nzira yakadaro ingave iri kuudza vadikani vavo kuti hazvizogoneki kuti vatsvake mumwe mutsva nokuti vakaonekwa kuti vane STD.
Zvimwe Zvimwe Zvinyorwa:
- "Iwe une nhanho nokuti iwe wakandiwana, hakuna mumwe munhu angakuita iwe sezvauri."
- "Iwe haugoni kusiya ini uye hauzombofi wamuwana mumwe munhu achabvuma kuongorora kwako."
- "Chikonzero chega chandinoona kutapfuura chirwere chako ndechekuti ndakakuziva iwe kwemakore, hakuna mumwe angatora nguva yekutambudzika."
Usatenda nhema. Vanhu vazhinji vane maDDD avo vakasununguka uye vakatendeseka pamusoro pekuongororwa kwavo vakawana imwe rudo-zvepabonde uye rudo-hukama. Mishonga inowanikwa zvakanyanya. Kune vanhu kunze uko vasingatarisiri chero dambudziko reSDD kuti rive "mutambo wekutengesa."
Ichokwadi kuti vamwe vanhu vamungada kufambidzana navo havazokwanisi kubata nemishonga yako yeHIV. Zvisinei, izvozvo hazvirevi kuti hazvigoneki kuwana rudo. Vanhu vanowanzosarudza kutora njodzi dzakanaka kuti vave nemunhu wavanotarisira.
Njodzi idzodzo dzinogona kusanganisira mukana wekutarisana neDDD. Zvinowanzoita sechinhu chakadai chakadai iwe paunosarudza kuva nemunhu waunoda.
The Bottom Line
Chero bedzi nokuti une chirwere chepabonde, kunyange asingagoni kurapwa, hazvirevi kuti unofanirwa kugara newawakaroorana naye. Kune nzira dzekuwana rubatsiro pamwe chete nehutachiona hwako uye kubva kunze kwehukama.
Mishonga yeHIV haina kukuita iwe munhu akaipa, munhu ane tsvina kana mumwe munhu asina kukodzera rudo. Matanho haasi kutongwa naMwari. Havasi chiratidzo chokuti haufaniri kufara.
Chirwere chetachiona hachisi chikonzero chekugara muhukama husina kunaka
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